Sex Drive

[CARDOZZO]

I did sex 4 times in the last 15 days. What I can say is that it was a savage and lovable sexual experiences with 2 different woman. 

I feel that I've burned extreme sexual cravings. I feel different. I feel like sex is not someting that really matters.

I never felt that before. I did sex multiple times before these experiences.

I know it sounds stupid, like (OF COURSE, YOU ARE EMPTY AFTER DOING SEX MULTIPLE TIMES) but no - it really hits different this time.

What do you think? Can you relate to that experience?

 

Edited July 4 by CARDOZZO

[Schizophonia]

@CARDOZZO Gg, how did you meet these girls ?

 

Looks like your ego is less attach now you have been satisfied.

[Spiral]

Yeah, furthermore people tend to value what is difficult to obtain. 

Edited July 4 by Spiral

[CARDOZZO]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

Gg, how did you meet these girls ?

Thanks brother! 

I meet them doing daygame. 

I'm 28 - I think I am not overhyped by sex anymore. It is just a positive/neutral experience.

Vadim Zeland talks about dropping importance. I think this principle is working on. Osho says the same "Destroy your desire for life."

Edited July 4 by CARDOZZO

[CARDOZZO]

30 minutes ago, Spiral said:

Yeah, furthermore people tend to value what difficult to obtain. 

This is a fundamental aspect of life. I am doing daygame for 6 years. 

I get it now why red pill and incel guys get so angry. They did not experience what we call "winner effect". They are lost on a downward spiral of self-hatred cynicism.

[theleelajoker]

Maybe would help those guys to stop calling it "game", to stop looking for sex only and to start to look for true connection 

[Schizophonia]

On 04/07/2025 at 2:07 PM, CARDOZZO said:

This is a fundamental aspect of life. I am doing daygame for 6 years. 

I get it now why red pill and incel guys get so angry. They did not experience what we call "winner effect". They are lost on a downward spiral of self-hatred cynicism.

The real question is why aggression is not redirected into productivity; i.e., flirting or eventually something else.

It is both inhibited by habit due to upbringing (including the unfolding of the Oedipus complex) and trauma, but also focused as antidepressant energy; an "obscure" way of generating energy as Leo said somewhere.

 

[CARDOZZO]

Yeah. 

Forget this thread, I'm horny as fuck again. 

[Schizophonia]

@CARDOZZO Where do you come from ?

[Sugarcoat]

55 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

Yeah. 

Forget this thread, I'm horny as fuck again. 

HHAAHAHAHAA. I did kinda think to myself that yea this usually lasts for a little while

Edited July 8 by Sugarcoat

[Eskilon]

On 03/07/2025 at 11:23 PM, CARDOZZO said:

I feel that I've burned extreme sexual cravings. I feel different. I feel like sex is not someting that really matters.

Have you ever felt post nut clarity? Or questioned why the lust completely dissapear after sex? It's because what you are really after is not the sex itself, is the egolessness that comes afterwards, the bliss, and the calmness of it. 

If you are into consciousness work I would suggest you study what sex is, why the energy gets stuck down there and what an orgarsm is fundamentally. And contemplate why also every human hanker after it. Look into sexual transmutation and the Tantra tradition.

Edited July 8 by Eskilon

[Sugarcoat]

2 minutes ago, Eskilon said:

Have you ever felt post nut clarity? Or questioned why the lust completely dissapear after sex? It's because what you are really after is not the sex itself, is the egolessness that comes afterwards, the bliss, and the calmness of it. 

How is post nut clarity an ego less state? What kind of post nut clarity yall be having? It’s just you without the horniness, since when did “you” get wiped away in the process.

[Eskilon]

2 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

How is post nut clarity an ego less state? What kind of post nut clarity yall be having? It’s just you without the horniness, since when did “you” get wiped away in the process.

It isnt like that for you? Actually at the very peak of orgarsm to be precise, do you exist there? You do not, if you pay very close attention.

Edited July 8 by Eskilon

[Sugarcoat]

4 minutes ago, Eskilon said:

It isnt like that for you? Actually at the very peak of orgarsm to be precise, do you exist there? You do not, if you pay very close attention.

It was over a year since I last had orgasm so I don’t remember clearly. But I do remember when I was younger, I would kinda try to focus my attention on the sensation of the orgasm to maximize the pleasure. But what I felt was that there seemed to kinda be a barrier between me and the sensation, which wasn’t allowing me to be fully present and enjoy it fully to its maximum. I guess that “distance/separatedness” I experienced is caused by the sense of self/the mind. So no I don’t think I experienced that ego less ness you talk about 

Edited July 8 by Sugarcoat

[CARDOZZO]

47 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

@CARDOZZO Where do you come from ?

 

[CARDOZZO]

39 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

HHAAHAHAHAA. I did kinda think to myself that yea this usually lasts for a little while

HHAHAH i felt different (for awhile)  

[Eskilon]

2 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

It was over a year since I last had orgasm so I don’t remember clearly. But I do remember when I was younger, I would kinda try to focus my attention on the sensation of the orgasm to maximize the pleasure. But what I felt was that there seemed to kinda be a barrier between me and the sensation, which wasn’t allowing me to be fully present and enjoy it fully to its maximum. I guess that “distance/separatedness” I experienced is caused by the sense of self/the mind. So no I don’t think I experienced that ego less ness you talk about

I see, it is very very subtle. And you need practice, but it possible to merge with the orgarsm, so that you dissapear for an instant. Ideally one should close your eyes and focus only on the sensation itself, without labeling as a "sensation" just pay full attention to it. Doing this you will start to understand sex so to speak, and you will not hanker that much after it. Because knowledge of it is to transcend it.

I don't say I've transcended it, but I'm gaining understanding more and more about the experience. It starts to lose its allure for sure.

[CARDOZZO]

39 minutes ago, Eskilon said:

Have you ever felt post nut clarity? Or questioned why the lust completely dissapear after sex? It's because what you are really after is not the sex itself, is the egolessness that comes afterwards, the bliss, and the calmness of it. 

If you are into consciousness work I would suggest you study what sex is, why the energy gets stuck down there and what an orgarsm is fundamentally. And contemplate why also every human hanker after it. Look into sexual transmutation and the Tantra tradition.

Thanks, I will become more literate on sexual matters.

[CARDOZZO]

Post nut clarity is enlightenment for the normies.

[CARDOZZO]

@Sugarcoat

How do you feel about your libido? Are you horny again?