Females DO NOT Have More Options For Sexual Preferences

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, ExploringReality said:

@Princess Arabia your remarks about being on an elevator!!! Hey it's okay. Keep it under the rug, the mods know

Oh yeah, I remember that remark, but what are you referencing in this thread. 

[Hojo]

@Emerald There is a word 'go for' here that is important. Those women didnt go for their husband their husbands went for them. Its been proven multiple times here that women dont 'got for' men they sit around until a man asks them out and refuse to ask them out. They will sit outside a justin beibers house begging for an ounce of attention.

How many average men have you gone for. Im going to say none because if you did and got rejected you would be crushed.

Women dont go for less than top 20 percent they will wait until the other percent asks them out. Then be choosy.

Edited May 6 by Hojo

[Jirh]

@Princess Arabia This makes much sense! Thank you. Yes, I've noticed this too recently. Women generally require much more than just visual stimulation to get sexually excited, unless they're ovulating. And still, even when they are ovulating, they don't easily find an attractive guy to want to have sex with. Now what makes a guy attractive is a whole other discussion, but essentially it requires some kind of emotional connection to occur inside a woman's perception in order to tick off the specific attraction criteria for a woman that makes her want to have sex. So yeah, I agree.

[Emerald]

1 hour ago, Hojo said:

@Emerald There is a word 'go for' here that is important. Those women didnt go for their husband their husbands went for them. Its been proven multiple times here that women dont 'got for' men they sit around until a man asks them out and refuse to ask them out. They will sit outside a justin beibers house begging for an ounce of attention.

How many average men have you gone for. Im going to say none because if you did and got rejected you would be crushed.

Women dont go for less than top 20 percent they will wait until the other percent asks them out. Then be choosy.

I have personally made the first move in most of my romantic dynamics, as I get very specific crushes... and that's one way to make things happen with the guy you like. 

I tend to find myself attracted to more introverted reserved guys... sexually and otherwise. And when that's the case, you kind of have to give some pretty strong indicators of interest, or they'll just hold back from making a move to be polite and fear of causing discomfort. (which is a green flag in my book and also incredibly endearing)

And the majority of the time, I have had feelings for men who would qualify as average in the eyes of society.

And I've been rejected plenty of times... and it's always difficult because, if I'm indicating my feelings towards a guy, it's because I really like him in particular. And there's only one of him. So, if he rejects me... those strong feelings will be forever unrequited.

So, it is harder in that sense... because it's not like being rejected by a random guy, where you can just move on and approach another random guy. Instead, it's being rejected by the guy you've already had feelings for for the past 3-6 months.

But as a young teenager (like 13 years old) when guys first started showing attraction towards me, I had a 3-6ish month phase where I was really (overly) flirtatious because I was adjusting to the new dynamic of many guys taking a sexual interest in me.

And it was before I realized the social norms that made it okay for guys to be forthcoming about their sexual interests but not socially acceptable for me to do so.

And I was rejected by plenty of random guys during that time who I showed interest in... often times in a harsh way.

Like, I remember once that I was at a school dance (age 13), and I didn't have someone to dance with. And there was this quiet shy nerdy guy who was also there being a wall flower. And I approached him and asked him if he wanted to dance... and he looked at me with disgust and like I had two heads and defensively said "No!"

And I was always VERY unpopular in years before, so nerdy guys were always my type. But I had just gotten a new wardrobe and was dressing in the "hot girl" style at the time and I had just developed a nice figure. So, I had just had this big glow up and my social skills got better that year. 

So, I sometimes wonder if he thought (because of my appearance) that I was joking or being mean to him or something and doing a prank... or if he was really just disgusted at the thought of dancing with someone... or dancing with me in particular.

But during that time, I had plenty of guys reject my advances and even insult my appearance when I showed them interest. 

[Emerald]

11 hours ago, ExploringReality said:

@Emerald that's a clarifying way to put it.

Yep. Every accusation is a confession.

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Jirh said:

@Princess Arabia This makes much sense! Thank you. Yes, I've noticed this too recently. Women generally require much more than just visual stimulation to get sexually excited, unless they're ovulating. And still, even when they are ovulating, they don't easily find an attractive guy to want to have sex with. Now what makes a guy attractive is a whole other discussion, but essentially it requires some kind of emotional connection to occur inside a woman's perception in order to tick off the specific attraction criteria for a woman that makes her want to have sex. So yeah, I agree.

Oh my, this is the most accurate description of this that I've ever come across and you worded it so precisely. Perfect wording for every part. "Tick off, special attraction criteria, makes her want, emotional connection", perfect words to describe what's trying to be said. 

Edited May 6 by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

When a woman says yes to a man it's because she choose him, but indirectly @HojoHojo and please remember to say teenage teenie boppers when referring to Justin Beibers house, hanging out there that is.

Edited May 6 by Princess Arabia

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia I bet if JB walked in the room you would run away and put makeup on

[Schizophonia]

I am attractive enough and I know how to attract girls, but I have never taken advantage of this to attract girls I considered uninteresting.

Men who want to sleep with anyone are dogs.