Why is Sexuality so Weird?

[meta_male]

@Schizophonia I said you getting a chance to be dominant excites you, monsieur. Big difference.

[Schizophonia]

6 minutes ago, meta_male said:

@Schizophonia I said you getting a chance to be dominant excites you, monsieur. Big difference.

Oh mea culpa.

I think that the concept of self is completely relative, from this point of view I am post-modern lol; But I also believe that for the sake of well-being the most relative layers should align with the most absolute ones.
 

The easiest thing for a straight man (assuming that homosexuality is not also an anomaly) is to make love normally with a woman, generally in a dominant manner.
 

If your libido is behaving strangely, there is no need to beat yourself up, without going into details it will only "make the problem worse" and hurt you; but the truth is that behind all this you will find an education, a relationship with parents and others, traumas and ultimately a system of beliefs that comes to twist the expression of this libido.

[The Crocodile]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

The easiest thing for a straight man (assuming that homosexuality is not also an anomaly) is to make love normally with a woman, generally in a dominant manner.

I'd say generally all humans are bisexual, at the very least potentially, through the archetype of parents, and you're able to parent or be parented by both sexes. + all humans have sex characteristics from both sexes within themselves and then also to be attracted to in others.

 

[Rafael Thundercat]

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[meta_male]

5 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

I think that the concept of self is completely relative, from this point of view I am post-modern lol; But I also believe that for the sake of well-being the most relative layers should align with the most absolute ones.

Post-modern? I thought that was just a code for making things complicated to sound deep 😝 Aligning layers of the self sounds like a sensible approach though.

[Schizophonia]

4 hours ago, The Crocodile said:

I'd say generally all humans are bisexual, at the very least potentially, through the archetype of parents, and you're able to parent or be parented by both sexes. + all humans have sex characteristics from both sexes within themselves and then also to be attracted to in others.

 

I might be attracted to a man if he is very neotenic and fits a certain phenotype; it happened when I was on high doses of DHEA lol.

But in reality, the slightest sign of masculinity will quickly disgust me with the idea of having sex.

Even a woman who is too masculine will disgust me.

[Schizophonia]

50 minutes ago, meta_male said:

Post-modern? I thought that was just a code for making things complicated to sound deep 😝 Aligning layers of the self sounds like a sensible approach though.

It basically means that life has no meaning.  🐋

[The Crocodile]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

I might be attracted to a man if he is very neotenic and fits a certain phenotype; it happened when I was on high doses of DHEA lol.

Yeah, I love playing into the confusion around what my sex/gender is.

 

[Nemra]

On 4/16/2025 at 11:22 PM, Schizophonia said:

Even a woman who is too masculine will disgust me.

@Schizophonia, when you find them, get their number for me. 😁

[Schizophonia]

On 16/04/2025 at 11:18 PM, The Crocodile said:

Yeah, I love playing into the confusion around what my sex/gender is.

 

You are a mtf isn’t it ?

48 minutes ago, Nemra said:

@Schizophonia, when you find them, get their number for me. 😁

lol.

I will think about you.

Edited Sunday at 07:53 PM by Schizophonia

[Emerald]

On 4/14/2025 at 7:59 PM, Nemra said:

To me, it seems that dynamics that you think are good for sexuality are the opposite for other domains of life, like control, fantasy, manipulation, etc.

E.g., I would love being objectified or controlled in a sexual context, but I would hate it in all other domains of life. It seems like there's a disconnect between sexual preferences and everyday values. But why?

It's possible that you're looking for something you needed from childhood that you never had safe access to in real life.

Like, it's possible you may have an unmet need for surrender from childhood, where you weren't able to trust your parents enough to really let go and just be a kid. 

And the repressed child part of you that has that unmet need is still looking another person take on all the power... and thus all of the responsibility so that you can experience that need that you never experienced..

This is a common dynamic for those who had to be responsible too young.

But in real life, acting upon that unmet need for surrender and giving up all your power to another person wouldn't be able to take its root without undermining your whole life and sacrificing so many of your other needs... and without creating a ton of stress and drumming up feelings of mistrust.

So, sexuality becomes a safe-space for playing out this situation where you're forcefully stripped of power and control... and you're forced to surrender by a dominant female figure.