Relationship Possibility with an OnlyFans Girl?

[Unlimited]

16 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

All of this is speculation. Not everyone needs to meet their other half in the traditional way. Most people back in the day before the internet and dating sites met their worst nightmares from doing approach and meeting one on one. So he doesn't need to delete anything if that's what he desires to do because you can meet the love of your life through any means. He just needs to approach it differently and be careful of how he interacts with her and use proper judgement. It's that simple.

Not everything that someone desires is good.

I don't say it is impossible to find someone on websites like OnlyFans but the chances are very low.
With cold approach the chances are not only higher, but it also helps you with self development.
You can't say that about OnlyFans, with that you get anti social and you lose money.

Besides that I don't think you are in a position to give good advice because you don't have any experience in getting girls as a guy.
If he listens to you he will probably lose a lot of money and become miserable in the long run.

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, Thought Art said:

You could have a very loving relationship with her. Or, you might not. Depends on you two.

Thank you. I married my husband as a stripper and I wasn't traumatized nor was I using him and only taking his money. He proposed and i accepted. It was that simple. This isn't stripping, but it's still in the so hated critized adult industry.

[Princess Arabia]

5 minutes ago, Unlimited said:

Besides that I don't think you are in a position to give good advice because you don't have any experience in getting girls as a guy.

Silly, silly, silly. It takes two to tango and i'm the girl guys are trying to get so yes I do have a say. Plus I also do have a say on this topic because it is what I do for work. So double-whammy here.

Edited March 23 by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

8 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

 

This is poetry 

 

Just because she says so, doesn't make it so. She has some good points but her use of the word manipulate doesn't say much. You have to understand that some women have been cheated on by their men with a more beautiful woman than them and they will go around saying things like these about women because of this.

[Unlimited]

2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Thank you. I married my husband as a stripper and I wasn't traumatized nor was I using him and only taking his money. He proposed and i accepted. It was that simple. This isn't stripping, but it's still in the so hated critized adult industry.

That explains a lot.
You are just super biased.

Obviously not all women in the adult industry are bad women but the chances are just super low that you find are girl that truly likes you.

Most relationships that start because of money fail in the long run.
You can't compare it with a relationship that starts with genuine interest in the other person.
Of course there are always exceptions.

[Princess Arabia]

10 minutes ago, Unlimited said:

Not everything that someone desires is good.

Not everything you're doing in your life now is good and i can guarantee more than half isn't. Doesn't mean you need anyone to tell you to stop and go elsewhere or do something else.

[Unlimited]

6 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Silly, silly, silly. It takes two to tango and i'm the girl guys are trying to get so yes I do have a say. Plus I also do gave a say on this topic because it is what I do for work. So double-whammy here.

You might be the girl that guys want to approach but you don't know with your own experience how hard it is to find a good girl as a guy.

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, Unlimited said:

That explains a lot.
You are just super biased.

Obviously not all women in the adult industry are bad women but the chances are just super low that you find are girl that truly likes you.

Most relationships that start because of money fail in the long run.
You can't compare it with a relationship that starts with genuine interest in the other person.
Of course there are always exceptions.

Yeah you're right because the guys I tried to make it with without the money factor in the past, changed on me for the worst. I wasn't the one, they were. It's like they couldn't believe I would date them with that not being in the picture. So you're right when it comes to that but please don't look at it from one side. I've gad men told me before that they look up more at women who do this work than to give it up for free. 

Bias may play a role for me here but I can assure you that i'm also speaking from a more generalized perspective as I do in most areas. I don't need to be biases if i'm speaking from what actually happens and not from speculation. I will leave you be with your speculations of me and this field of work as I can see where your bias will lie also in your interactions with me.

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, Unlimited said:

You might be the girl that guys want to approach but you don't know with your own experience how hard it is to find a good girl as a guy.

Ok,

[Unlimited]

6 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Not everything you're doing in your life now is good and i can guarantee more than half isn't. Doesn't mean you need anyone to tell you to stop and go elsewhere or do something else.

This is also speculation.
You can't guarantee anything because you don't know me.

I just wanted to give him the best possible advice from my perspective.
It's okay if you see it differently.
He can decide for himself which advice he likes more.

[Princess Arabia]

16 minutes ago, Unlimited said:

That explains a lot.

Just this right here tells me you don't care about other's perspectives, only your own because you don't see the value in someone's that is coming from direct experience. It says a lot, alright, says this girl has been through it. It's OK for you to tell me I don't know about what guys are trying to do with my sex because ilm not a guy, but not OK for me to tell you how it is in this field and now it's "that explains a lot". Whose biased now. 

Edited March 23 by Princess Arabia

[Consept]

35 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Could you not do this please. Nothing in the OP says she made him think he had a chance at anything other that what he signed up for. No one has to be good or bad at what they do if a client came on board and willingly paid for a service that they desired. Every business is in the business to keep their customers spending money, so don't expect hers to be any different. 

I'm not insulting her, a big part of OF is making guys thing they're in some kind of pseudo relationship, that's the whole pull otherwise they would just watch free porn. 

I'm not saying she's being disingenuous, most guys know the deal but there's the odd one like the OP who gets caught in it and believes he actually has a chance 

[thierry]

No issue with OF. No issue with talking to a girl on OF if that excites you. The issue is feeding a guy fantasy that he can build something with an OF girl by talking to her on OF. That’s just not align with the truth. 
 

[Unlimited]

2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Just this right here tells me you don't cars about other's perspectives, only your own because you don't see the value in someone's that is coming from direct experience. It says a lot, alright, says thus girl has been through it. It's OK for you to tell me I don't know about what guys are trying to do with my sex because ilm not a guy, but not OK for me to tell you how it is in this field and now it's "that explains a lot". Whose biased now. 

Why is it that I hear most of the time of girls that are or were in the industry, that it is okay to do this, but of girls who never were or would be in this industry, that it is not okay to do it?

I would have been positively surprised if you would say that you were a stripper but you don't think it is good for a woman to do it.
But you are defending these women as if everyone here on the forum would say they are all bad.

You went into this industry knowing that you will take the money of men because of their sexual desires.
These men are most of time lonely and can't get any women in other ways.
There is nothing geniune about it.
And now you wonder why people think bad about women that are in this industry.

[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, Consept said:

I'm not insulting her, a big part of OF is making guys thing they're in some kind of pseudo relationship, that's the whole pull otherwise they would just watch free porn. 

I'm not saying she's being disingenuous, most guys know the deal but there's the odd one like the OP who gets caught in it and believes he actually has a chance 

Believe it or not, A LOT OF GUYS WANT TO BE IN THIS POSITION. That's what this work is for. Grown men don't need saviors. I have been in this field of work for many years and some of these guys aren't interested in you if you're not selling a fantasy. Leave it alone because you have no idea what goes through the minds of some men. Yes, i understand your concern for OP, and I'm not saying to leave him alone and not say whatever you're so inclined to say to him but I'm saying in general some of these men don't really want you to generally care for them, they love the fantasy. If they didn't they wouldn't be there in the first place.

Edited March 24 by Princess Arabia

[Unlimited]

1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

Believe it or not, A LOT OF GUYS WANT TO BE IN THIS PISITION. That's what this work is for. Grown men don't need saviors. I have been in this field of work for many years and some of these guys aren't interested in you if you're not selling a fantasy. Leave it alone because you have no idea what goes through the minds of some men. Yes, i understand your concern for OP, and I'm not saying to leave him alone and not say whatever you're so inclined to say to him but I'm saying in general some of these men don't really want you to generally cars for them, they love the fantasy. If they didn't they wouldn't be there in the first place.

It is not that they want, most of the time they have no other choice.
That's what you don't understand.

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, Unlimited said:

Why is it that I hear most of the time of girls that are or were in the industry, that it is okay to do this, but of girls who never were or would be in this industry, that it is not okay to do it?

I would have been positively surprised if you would say that you were a stripper but you don't think it is good for a woman to do it.
But you are defending these women as if everyone here on the forum would say they are all bad.

You went into this industry knowing that you will take the money of men because of their sexual desires.
These men are most of time lonely and can't get any women in other ways.
There is nothing geniune about it.
And now you wonder why people think bad about women that are in this industry.

I will leave you alone on this because you have no idea what you're talking about. Furthermore, it's not the lonely men that see adult workers as much, it's the ones who are already attached and secured their pussies at home and now they go out to get their fucking fantasies met. I have yet to meet many single men in this field because most of them are out trying to find a mate, gf, wife first and then go see these workers. 90% of policemen, firefighters, corporate CEOls lawyers, doctors, blue collar workers and much more are not lonely fat bald men who cannot get laid. Most men who cannot get laid are either watching PUA's, home depressed, paying for coaching lessons, or maybe on forums arguing with strippers about what are like. 

[thierry]

5 minutes ago, Unlimited said:

It is not that they want, most of the time they have no other choice.
That's what you don't understand.

Even if they don’t have other choice, they still want that. I’m sure a lot of guys know the girl is just playing and that does not bother them, they’re enjoying the game. 

[Unlimited]

2 minutes ago, thierry said:

Even if they don’t have other choice, they still want that. I’m sure a lot of guys know the girl is just playing and that does not bother them, they’re enjoying the game. 

Maybe they think they want it but what they want deep down is a girl that really likes them.

Edited March 23 by Unlimited

[Princess Arabia]

9 minutes ago, Unlimited said:

And now you wonder why people think bad about women that are in this industry.

We don't really care that much because there are millions that don't and are happily contributing. Ever been to a strip ckub lately or seen a happy camper exiting a massage parlor, or the smile on a guys face that just got the best head ever and would pay hundreds for that head that lasted 10mins and keep coming back for more and would hate to give that up for some relationship that he claims would only be a headache. Why you think their are so many NSA's on dating sites. They just want some free pussy with no strings attached. Some men just rather prefer to get it on and that's what these women are for, don't hate. Trust me, they aren't lonely, they just love what they do and are addicted to it. 

 

 

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