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@mr_engineer To clarify it all whos making the purpose and goals of the relationship?

@mr_engineer and how would that look like?

Thats not the problem and being in the ego helps alot here ,not being in ego is what srews you over so you become red pilled because you make it all about the woman.... Market is bs because thats the thing that will determen how good you are for something and now they use that to put their ideology of hypergamy etc.

@Javfly33 Its more than that, its about becoming your own man independant of the world and woman,standing behind your principles and ways, like it seems to me guy these days doesnt have any of that, he will hear on internet soon to kiss a guy and thats the way to get a woman and follow it... Like in movie 300 Leonadis didnt kneel before xerxis(or how the name) he was promised to be the general and have endless gold but because hes a spartan and spartans never surrender and have their pride he died before kneeling... This days guy would put away anything just to be with a woman or get some play... @StarStruck You are not in your reality if you looking for what shes responding to you are in her world thats precisly why this what i wrote is important...you are in the world what can i do for a woman and not what can i do for me and see if she will follow that... And next thread i think i need to post how guys lie to themselves to be something but it seems once a guy always a guy... Edit:yeah closer to reality but by creating your own and then see how its gonna fit the "real reality" and from that making adjusments and not making women the point...

@The0Self when is it a best option?

@r0ckyreed when i asked that she replyed you dont need to ask for that... its so nooby to ask that imo

This is like asking can you attract shark with bloody stake... Your subconcious is what you are to yourself and what you are to yourself is what you will attract...

@integral Great quote i heard is:" best way to invest in relationship is investing in yourself". This is the moment to practice self respect and let her go, keep good memories but let her out of your mind too... You messed this one up so you can make next one better ??

What did you say when you two broke up its usually said then...?

@ThePoint Its not easy but you are not doing it ,how do you think addictions are purged they lock you on farm away from substance... Just dont do it or i dont see whats problem with masturbation...

Whats point of this thread?

By deciding not to do it ?

@ThePoint It seems you believe you are a victim of your feelings,doesnt matter how you feel , it matters how you gonna react to it when it happens, if you say oh this feeling makes me feel like a victim(you say it subconciously most of the time) you become it... Thats why you need to create your original thoughts that go againts it Like if thoughts arise i want to strangle my mom you dont do it you just say to yourself that was interesting what mind did there... Reactive life is full of being stuck and being a victim proactive is being free but challenging...

And i am a FBI agent I dont approach i put my bid in...

@Tyler Robinson The girls that flirt the most are with boyfriends its interesting...

@2xj_m why would you ask for advice and already have the answer ?

@KH2 There is no agreeing and disagreeing because game is one thought one mind one way. @petar8p you are not student of the game

@Tyler Robinson It will melt only for the one thats gonna show me why shes worthy for me to show that side of me nothing is easy here and thats why im writing this no woman should make you go nuts she should go nuts because you are not movable!

@Tyler Robinson This is man stuff, if a guy doesnt have his own definition and stand on them hes not a man so i dont expect you to understand...if im gonna be immature and lack compassion(which is feminine) and be someone who cant be moved respect and love me above all then im all about it... @integral haha like its written everyone gonna interpert it in their own way its tough to explain it anyway when you get so much friction for speaking truth...

@KH2 They are yours when you can answer why you made those? what purpose does they have in your game?..doesnt matter if its someone elses if you decided that you gonna stand on it and be it even if there is gun to your head(extreme example) because you are connected to it you wont do it for long if its not truly what you gonna stand on... You listen to people like Leo but you are picking what you gonna use for yourself just like a brainstorm ideas for your own game problem here is you living Leos principles and not having your own or picking his to turn it into yours because everyone will interpit every principle in his own way anyways... Point number 2. ofcourse it can hurt you but you made that choice conciously to eat shitty food and not healthy ones so its your choice if you gonna eat healthy or not... Self improvement for me is about expanding on what you decided to become not what you should be doing to be something... Im not asking anyone anything that would be againts what im saying on the post...ofcourse its a long process but you have to start somewhere if you dont have any definitions then you are in bad spot in the game.. You are always expanding on what you defined yourself as but if you dont have that what are you really aiming and improving here in survival context?

@Jannes What about the firtst part of my message ? It sounds you want it all like every women ever its like coca cola trying to get into car market ok if you that big and wanna dedicate to be everything that every woman wants and who cares about you and who you are, go do it ?...

@Jannes That's exactly it! but why does it matter if thats who you are...so you are afraid they wont want you or leave you then why would you care about those women... This dating game is like how should i be for someone, selling my soul and who i am just for a little bit of love or whatever you gonna get its pathetic in my eyes...rather being completely you and find someone who likes that not changing or manuvering so they like you artificially...(you shouldnt even want them to like you but its same principle)... Core belief who i am cant be accepted or loved by anyone ?

By blaming someone else for your problems,mistakes you name it... Not having 100% accountability...

Mindset from title is why shes not attracted and why would you even care to be attracted to women? you should be attracted to yourself im glad im out of that hell...