NoSelfSelf

This is tough i think try to work on not being too serious and open your body language(be approachable) if you care for people some while care for you back..

Yes i thought im eyes who are watching then i dropped it because it sounded silly

Im planing to start doing serious research(to develope big picture understanding of life) and to start of i want to understand social behaviour,communication,relating,everything around people(interacting etc) what advice would you give me what traps to avoid what experiences to seek?

Hahah tnx @Nahm My own self biases,self deceptions, previous wrong assumption can make this alot difficult if i take your route...the game is how i see it? Then i can say for example im the most humble person i deserve to be treated with respect(how is this not delusion?)i want to know how it is not only how i see it...

@Staples Any link where can i start?@Dan Arnautu Yes thats the "right" way to look at it but what exact traps are in my topic?@alyra i know that but i always forget about it tnx

When?

@Nahm nice description tnx@Key Elements thank you i understand it better now

@cirkussmile if its a journey it has to have a destination what is the destination ?

@Joseph Maynor @Key Elements so enlightement is end of self actualization? I heared its just the beggining

Higher intelligence is when you get sudden insight about something and usually you dont follow it i heared(didnt reseach much) that you ask for something and then you leave it and in few hours you get that answer out of nowhere thats higher intelligence at work..

Trying to be charismatic is why someone is not charismatic...charisma imo is when you are 100% authentic expresion of yourself and you dont change for anyone because people are constantly trying to control how you think feel and act and if you submit to their way of thinking acting etc. you lose your authentic expression..

@Soulbass when mind work ends emotional work begins

You dont give gifts to a girl at a beggining of relationships ruins the mistery gifts are for girlfriends and wifes

You feel it but you dont suffer it...i think its not like alzheimer because you can still remember but you dont have interest in it anymore not real for you

If you dont put massive action behinde it its like a wind passing by..

Still everything like opinions have to be included in your life

Its not obvious if you are unconcious like so many people are some people cant even recognize their thoughts in direct exeprience its that "bad"

@Shanmugam i said it "SOUNDS" like a cult because hes preaching what should other people do like a leader like we are stupid to follow something blindly without testing it for ourselves..i know what hes talking about i agree but the way he said it is another story...

Everything is blind assumption until you prove it "true" or "false" to yourself or others

So there is good and evil :)?

Its sounds to me you are trying to start a cult

@Moreira so never ?@BjarkeT so taking control of action means i am self actuized?

How does businessman typicall workday looks like?

Everything we do is to make ourselves happy(others also but secretly for ourselves) but when you are happy without doing anything where can you find motivation to do something when you know there is no happiness or fullfilment in anything than being?

Lately ive been trying to astral project and i come to vibrations and i feel my "soul" coming out but it never pops out completely how to fix this...