NoSelfSelf

Getting rid of social conditioning traumas insecurities desires

Examples of positive and negative motivations ...

Its basically what i experience i couldnt do anything going for a job or girl or something because you feel bad inside why would you go for something if you feel awful inside fix that first find yourself and what you want to do thats all this forum and actualized.org what i found is when you are experiencing those bad things you unconciously think i wont and i dont know how to get out, thats bs more you become concious about yourself and world you will now whats for you and whats not...

@John Iverson do you know what life purpose is in leos context?

It will bring you alot of suffering before joy

They dont but i see what you are trying to say ...

@fabriciom do you try to control things?

Something is guiding you in the right direction everything is happening for a reason use it to get to your ultimate goal...

You are lost because you still didnt see what you are and what you are not...

Why is there a need to be completely selfless ?

Men are not intuitive?

This is what i finally found out in present moment is that confidence around people is a skill and to achieve it you should do things that are not challenging at first but challenging enough to make you grow so there is no magic pill you have to put yourself in uncomfortable situations but gradually. thing that kills you is your pride i can do it in all go you say(its like i can lift 100kg without going threw 10 then 20etc) no thats a trap baby steps just by saying hello at first until it becomes normal than other stuff "harder" for you you will know if its too much or too little in a situation...

@Mikael89 Spirituality and religion is the same thing pointing to the same thing

Thanks! First example is nice representation of existence...

All that things you can do but you should leave if they are low concious but you can make it high concious if you can...

@B_Naz i came to realization in present moment that i gave myself life its sounds absurd

@rothko if you are fully awakened you dont need my tips

I think its a good guidence to what you are looking for...when you disappear still there will be a mind whos saying im everything infinite etc...

Chiken

@rothko how long are you working on this ? Lets just say im dead

@B_Naz you are the univers to experience it you should give up all thoughts giving atention to sensations and remain in the space of yourself to "find" the space you need to get rid of ego/thoughts control neurosis etc you are watching automatically there is no active watcher just attention jumping around giving birth to experience

Guys dont get distracted by red herrings

You are percieving the sensations and the univers and its all one" thing" ...why do you care about phenomena if you care about whats being watched you will never be free you need to be in neutrality and ignore all phenomena appering for awhile...by neutrality i mean the space of yourself

If you want to go alone go nothing wrong ...

That is still ego runing a show,you will know when you come to realization that there is nothing outside of yourself you will look at your parents or tshirt and see connection/that you are your parents and tshirt