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Even tho some people are enlightened does they still operate on limiting beliefs?

If its a pickup direct approach is best no goofing around tell what you came to do and what you want to do...

Im wondering the same thing but with little of self inquery i come with second hand solution you first need to go to places that you enjoy and be yourself then you will feel if someones for you by not even needing to talk to (we connect on the inside not with words) and try to talk to them or something find out what they like then invite them to do something idk i want the answer too

There is a love in us in every single one of us we care for everything too much we love even the evil people the planet the animals that could eat if we come close but because we have this huge love in us we become cold distant arrogant judgemental because we dont want to make anyone suffer do anyone harm see something getting destroyed ruined so we close down so we dont suffer even more(or something idk) or we are taught to not express it because its weak, under all of the bs there lays love hidden under everything...this insight i got and its shocking mybe its just me i dont know....thoughts?

@Leo Gura If you are enlightened is it still worth studying spiral dynamics or you are "above" it?

Being present is to realize nature of reality beyond thoughts and emotions if you are caught in that you are not present...

Arent you doing the same

Becsuse it takes sacrefice of your life

Sure way to hurt yourself and other person is try to help without need of help from another person or tell them how to live life big no no

You have to see in direct experience that the memory body sight emotions etc are seen in front by a observer

@Natura Sonoris Sound engineering or how do you call it

@Natura Sonoris This sounds interesting to me because im creative person where did you start with it so i can see if that is something i could do in the future?

@Viking Identity suffers if you go in daily life without identity you wont suffer if you do you will it all depends on level of conciousness we talk about...

You go to the university for sound engineer? My problem is that i want to learn everything but dont know that 1 thing to comit to....

This enlightment work doesnt have an ending there is infinite stages to it when you think this is it you find it goes deeper and deeper without the ending...

Is yoga like working out every exercise has it own purpose and for each goal and progress from easy to hard can you mess up somehow like in working out that leads to injury? Mixing techniques not knowing what you doing etc..

@Salvijus im talking about the states of enlightement i dont think you know what im talking about if you havent had one yourself

@Salvijus Thats nonsense there is noone who knows everything dont trust someone who thinks he knows everything there are million things that are not even discovered

@Highest no i meant stages of it doesnt end always another level

@B_Naz hmm thats hard queastion to answer i dont know whats happening exactly but you will know best when your need becomes want need is when you try to fill some hole inside yourself with something want is when you are full but want to give back or something...

You want her approval and acceptence and your body is reacting if you are not going to get her approval something terrible with happen they will kick you out from society your needs wont be satisfied etc

I have the same "problem" as you, i didnt find having a gf a big deal now its like you said on another level i think we crave deep meaningful intimate connection not just sex but all of the craziness that it brings but on the other hand why put yourself in that situation?

Yes and its hard to explain people what you are trying to say and later you found out they misunderstood you because you didnt say 50 other words under those you said

@Viking Then it seems to me that you are looking for a flow state where you dont control and let it all just flow...be water my friend

What is enjoyment of life for you?