Carl-Richard

You are not separate from other people. And I'm not being facetious by referring to non-duality again. I mean in a systems theory kind of sense (e.g., your mind is very much a product of your environment). Also, it's not the person that is supposed to grasp anything (maybe you're using "person" in a broader sense). Grasping will happen irrespective of a person or people. Still, there are external indicators of whether grasping is likely to occur or not, and that can be related to the person or people surrounding that person. But then again, there is nothing special about the person (singular) in this case. On the contrary (and I'll make the point again): external indicators are much more likely to occur in a place with many people. And that is why spiritual people gravitate towards other spiritual people. You can't help but unite with other people in the search for existential union.

Take a break for 10 days. Highly recommend it.

Let me be ironically extremely non-dual with you: I don't believe in the distinction between personal work and collective work when it comes to spirituality. In the end, it's all just spiritual development. You can be just as stuck in your spiritual development "going it alone" as when you are in a group. In fact, I believe it's even more likely that you get stuck doing it alone. Consider why virtually every super-genius in history received aristocratic tutoring from an early age. Consider why the people who "go it alone" have already been heavily acculturated in some spiritual worldview prior to "doing the real work". Consider why you're here and not in a cave somewhere. The only people who didn't receive any external influences that seem to be relevant to their awakening are one-in-a-hundred-million saints who were born awake. Even Sadhguru, a supposed "spontaneous awakening" person, was taught how to meditate at an extremely early age. The direct experience didn't come "despite" that. Him being taught meditation wasn't for nothing.

@AerisVahnEphelia

What is a spiritual meaning of something?

Trendy New Age lingo for "wake up!" with some eschatological undertones. It's what happens when the cool people at school get into "spirituality".

Ask cultures that have lived in the cold for millennia.

Nah.

Show me the heaviest music you know about.

Ideally, they help facilitate communication between different worldviews. The problem with this conversation was that there was a language barrier, so the two camps couldn't meet each other properly. Wouldn't it be good to have people who can translate well across the different worldviews? That is the purpose of people like Bernardo Kastrup, John Vervaeke (and hopefully me some day): tying together the knots of spirituality and science. Again, truly good translators are not mainstream, so current attempts look futile, but at least attempts are being made. (You could argue more promising attempts at translation have been made by people like Jon Kabat-Zinn, the creator of "Mindfulness-Based Stress Therapy", but these were highly reductionistic, spiritually sanitized and culturally appropriated versions).

Well, the way he puts it resonates for me, as somebody who feels that indeed there are things that I'm attached to that keeps me from relaxing into Being. It's not that I'm not capable of relaxing into Being either. It happens quite spontaneously on its own. But when that happens, I'm quickly reminded of why I don't want that to happen (yet).

Having a PhD essentially just means you know a lot of theories and facts, and that you know how to structure your thoughts and use precise language. And of course there is value to that, and seeing it synergize with a spiritual understanding is quite interesting.

A conversation between a spiritually illiterate person and an academically illiterate person 😆 That is unfortunately the best the mainstream can come up with at the moment. It's a start, but it's a quite clumsy clash of worldviews rather than an insightful dialogue. If you want the latter, you need more fringe people like John Vervaeke, Bernardo Kastrup. They can use words that Pinker brings up like "phenomenal vs. access consciousness" (and beyond) while also not beating around the bush when it comes to mysticism.

I have an energetic radar for these things, and he certain has something going on I don't think the "good vs bad thought" thing was recommended as a sort of practice of actively parsing out good vs. bad thoughts. It's simply an insight about the nature of thoughts: some thoughts are self-referential while some aren't, and it's just the self-referential thoughts that will go away, not all thoughts. Some people hear "no thoughts" and fear that they will become a dysfunctional rock, and he is dispelling that notion. You'll only lose thoughts that constantly tell you stories about yourself, as a consequence of doing proper spiritual practice. Yet when you investigate this root (in meditation), the branches may pop up as thoughts ("here I am!") and seem to obscure your path towards the root. If you then remember that the branches are just in the way and you need to keep digging, in a sense you have to "drop" each attachment, or not be discouraged by their emotional salience (that is, if you're consciously confronted with them, which is probably not always the case). In other words, the thoughts that pop up in meditation will have the ability to distract you from finding the root, and you just have to let those thoughts go if you want to find the root.

Back when I discovered some of my Red blind spots and was exploring emotions like anger, I discovered a neat conceptual distinction: reactive aggression vs. proactive aggression. Both concepts are useful to learn to recognize and integrate if you struggle with a Red shadow. Reactive aggression is when you're able to say "no" and to react when somebody disrespects your boundaries, and to use the accompanying emotional energy that arises as intended. In other words, if you start to feel anger, then be angry at the person that made you angry. Don't instinctively internalize your anger, bite your tongue or run and hide with your tail between your legs: externalize your anger. In other words, don't be a doormat. That said, obviously you have to do what is appropriate in each situation (as externalizing is not always appropriate), which can be a learning process. Proactive aggression is when you're able to approach, confront, claim, assert. For example, it's about approaching a girl, or confronting a bully, or claiming what is yours, or generally asserting yourself in the situation. This requires tapping into a much more visceral and persistent type of energy that doesn't just arise in the moment. It's always there. I identified it (cornily) as "Red Andrew Tate" energy. It quite literally feels like a burning fire in your abdomen. It can be tapped into consciously, but it can also be harmful if not done carefully.

I get it. I just want someone to give me a black and white answer that probably doesn't exist: name a principle or mechanism for why medium heart rate over longer periods should necessarily be associated with better cardiovascular health than intense heart rate over shorter periods? (or vice versa). Is there such a thing as a golden "rep range" for cardio? (like the 6-12 rep range for hypertrophy).

Have you tried it? The type of contractions your chest makes after a proper sprint is unmatched. The 4 minute rest is not really rest. It's 3 minutes struggling to regain your breath, and 1 minute to get ready to explode. The idea that the most optimal form of cardiovascular exercise must necessarily involve keeping your heart rate at a constant medium pace for a long period of time seems like an unquestioned dogma to me. Why do we understand that this is not the case with resistance training but not cardio?

I'm offended by your lack of relevant answers.

Hedonism doesn't work, because the world and the self is multi-faceted and constantly changing, and "pleasure" cannot be harvested infinitely from one single source, or just a few favorites. It's not in alignment with how reality works. On the other hand, when what you derive nourishment from is aligned with reality, it's called "meaning". Meaning is the basis of "eudaimonia", which stands in contrast to hedonism. Meaning requires that you face pains, fears, conflict; generally what the hedonist tries to avoid; because that is what reality craves out of you for you to exist in reality. Meaning is not anti-thetical to pleasure or desire either. It just recognizes that pleasure doesn't last, and that you have many desires to tend to, both higher and lower, and that you can't afford to get stuck on just one limited strategy. You have to be constantly moving in flow with reality. Reality is movement. If you stagnate, that is depression. If you chase just one thing, you stagnate. You need to do everything that makes you a full-fledged human: eat, drink, sleep, have sex, talk to people, be with friends, be with family, go to work, buy groceries, take out the trash, go for a walk, work out, enjoy hobbies, engage in rituals, seek understanding, connect with the sacred. You get so much more by doing these things to the best of your ability than to just sit and eat cake or watch porn or inject heroin.

Just practice, don't be so serious. Or be serious, but ask yourself in meditation why you're serious. Dive into that part of your mind. Make that your practice. Your mind constantly gives you free practices.

From a cognitive science perspective, maps are created by your ability to manipulate information from current sensory input and information stored in your long-term memory, using your working memory, a.k.a. your own inner cognitive workspace. These maps may consist of simple and concrete representations like mental images, colors, sounds, shapes, spatial qualities, etc. (like when navigating a familiar building in your mind), or they may involve abstract representations like language, symbols, mathematical operations, logical reasoning, etc. (like when remembering the multiplication table or Hegel's theory of dialectics). When people say "the map is not the territory", they often refer to the more abstract kinds of maps.

Confusion is a state of (often conscious) mental conflict brought on by uncertainty, ignorance, lack of control, etc. Getting rid of confusion may involve accepting uncertainty, ignorance, lack of control, etc.

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