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@Aggelos Doulgerakis Yeah, sounds like you have some stuff to work through, but you seem very eager to solve your issue and that's 1/2 the battle. So, I'd say try therapy again. You may need to stick with it a bit longer this time.
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1 minute ago, Aggelos Doulgerakis said:I can't seem to get over the anxiety around money.
Have you tried talk therapy?
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https://exploringyourmind.com/emotional-gastritis-symptoms-causes-and-treatments/
Sounds psychosomatic and is called emotional gastritis. I linked an article for you. It suggests a 3 fold approach- medical, emotional and diet changes for treatment.
I do hope you feel better, sounds awful.
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28 minutes ago, JustThinkingAloud said:
and thank you for everything!
I'm sorry about the late response, I got distracted
Hehe, you used 2 out of 3, good job!
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@Alex bliss Zodiac signs often give a decent generalization of potential personality traits.
I ask most ppl I talk to their zodiac sign, for fun. My sign is the communicator of all the zodiac signs. I got in trouble for talking soooo much in grammar school, its not even funny. Ok, kinda funny.
Now I can control it, mostly, but if I set my mind to it, I can essentially have a conversation with the most socially inept communicator known to man.
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40 minutes ago, wk197 said:I've been seeing this trend lately on twitter and reddit with people acting like dating 18-19 year olds even sometimes if you're in your 20's is paedophile or borderline paedophilic? I am 22 it just seems absurd to me.
Well, in the USA if you're 18 you are old enough to vote and fight (and get killed) for your country.
Is it just your country?
Anyhow, do what you like, stop worrying about what others think?
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@Stratos Yes, do keep us posted and good luck!
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18 hours ago, DrewNows said:What is that which seemingly holds us back? Takes us away? Limits our love? Binds us?
Desires eventually lead to suffering. The amount of suffering depends on how strong the desires are and if they're prevented/blocked, if not blocked, then pleasure ensues, but then one worries the pleasure will end, which again has the potential for suffering. Since all things come to an end, eventually, then all desire leads to some amount of suffering.
It seems, to flow with life without suffering there can be little attachment to desire.
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@Stratos Maybe keep reminding yourself why you walked out (ie. It was toxic). Write down what was toxic about the relationship. Give your rational mind a chance to over-ride the emotional body a bit.
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4 minutes ago, Display_Name said:That's actually been happening to me a lot
Then, make them wait, if they want you for more then just sex, they'll wait.
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1 minute ago, Bridge to Infinity said:you're assuming all people are like you or your friend group.
I am assuming nothing. I had asked a question.
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@ADD Hmm, interesting. Must be a man thing.
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5 hours ago, Bridge to Infinity said:I was doing it 8-15 times a day until I stopped
How does one find enough time in the day for this much?
I've pretty much thought no fap was mostly for ppl addicted to sex or masturbation.
Would you feel you had to do no fap if you could only masturbate 1 or 2 times a day?
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54 minutes ago, saint_charming7 said:@Anna1 My field is finance/economics I was offered to work in the field of government relations for businesses. Not really my sort of thing, I'm more number oriented and into markets and stuff like that.
Ohhh, well, that seems really different. No wonder you aren't that interested.
Good luck finding what you do really want.
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1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:It's doesn't serve them to understand it.
Good point!
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" You are pure awareness disguised as a person."
- Eckhart Tolle
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41 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:Mating is an arms race.
Both sides manipulate to get the most they can while trying to minimize their survival risk.
There's nothing personal about it. It's just unconscious selfishness.
True, true...
Men doing pick-up that cry and whine that the girls aren't nicer or are being picky need to understand this.
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8 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:Imagine how you'd feel is every time you met a cool guy, he fucked you and left to pursue hotter girls.
And, this is exactly why girls, once they smarten up (usually they get used once or twice), are selective as hell and make the guy wait before having sex.
So, its guys ruining it for other guys!
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Oh, something just came to me from my past that you should NOT do.
I had a guy a million years ago ask me (would've been first date) if I wanted to go get pizza (it was a Sunday afternoon).
I said, yeah sure. He said, okay sounds great, have any money? I said, um why? He says, cause I'm broke and have no money. I hung the phone up on him.
Don't do that shit.?
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There's having tinnitus ... and then there's hearing Om (Aum). The calmer and more peaceful your mind the louder OM can get...if not calm/peaceful, but actually agitated or upset "OM" can completely disappear.

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@Aggelos Doulgerakis Not a problem, good luck