Loreena

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  1. The earth is indeed round
  2. You are a wonderful woman. try to be strong and let go. Don't allow yourself to break down. It takes so much to be a mom. You could tell them a little later when you begin to feel more balanced and alright. Just let the dark clouds pass away. Focus on your emotional healing right now. if you are strong and if you keep yourself strong, only then will you be able to keep it all together and take care of your kids. Best wishes on your journey.
  3. Really good thoughts. In fact different roles help us to discover different facets of a personality. They bring out genuine self expression. Sometimes we may remain buried under too many roles. In that case it may be difficult to discover who we really are. But once we have identified and separated that role from our original selves, it can be fun to play it again. You could even use it as a theme in your life, donning a different role each time and experiencing the fun in it, the way you do in creating art. I feel its like looking at a prism from different angles. Exploring your alter ego and defining it for yourself. When you identify your natural roles, you understand yourself even better. Its like expression, like art. Your desires, feelings, instincts, experiences, all colouring that blank canvas to form a a distinct art. Now freeing yourself from it is another thing. Someone may look at a vampire or dracula as negative and you may look at it as something protective or positive. You bring a fresh perspective to that role. Exploration of different roles can be fascinating. Otherwise, sometimes we just get stuck in a dull mundane life. Thats why movies or dramas, plays are interesting and catch our fancy. Because we get to live different characters through a myriad of roles. If all characters were same, we would be bored.
  4. Get into a positive state of mind. Once you feel confident, you could explore stuff that you can discuss about. Read books, articles, watch movies, hang out with other friends. Once you get more social and creative, ideas will pop on their own. You can then find interesting topics and ideas to discuss with her. Keep your mind open.
  5. Gimme Gimme Gimme I waaaaaaaant this toooo
  6. All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players; They have their exits and their entrances, And one man in his time plays many parts, His acts being seven ages. At first, the infant, Mewling and puking in the nurse's arms. Then the whining schoolboy, with his satchel And shining morning face, creeping like snail Unwillingly to school. And then the lover, Sighing like furnace, with a woeful ballad Made to his mistress' eyebrow. Then a soldier, Full of strange oaths and bearded like the pard, Jealous in honor, sudden and quick in quarrel, Seeking the bubble reputation Even in the cannon's mouth. And then the justice, In fair round belly with good capon lined, With eyes severe and beard of formal cut, Full of wise saws and modern instances; And so he plays his part. The sixth age shifts Into the lean and slippered pantaloon, With spectacles on nose and pouch on side; His youthful hose, well saved, a world too wide For his shrunk shank, and his big manly voice, Turning again toward childish treble, pipes And whistles in his sound. Last scene of all, That ends this strange eventful history, Is second childishness and mere oblivion, Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything. Maybe God wrote the code, who knows ?
  7. @renegade_bee Don't do it. Hope you're still here and I'm really sorry you're going through all. But it's not worth it. When I was going through a similar phase, prayer was the only thing that helped me. Life is hard but you are only 18, you have your life ahead of you. If you are worried about getting laid, your life is more precious than any girl/boy/friend in the world. We don't live only for romance and sex, there is so much more to life than stuff that you see other people doing/enjoying. Stop comparing yourself to others because comparison is the biggest self-esteem demolisher. Everybody has their own problems and their own stories to tell. There are millions out there who suffer, at least just like you if not more. So you are not alone. You got to find your own 'sea of hope' where you will find your inner peace. Even in the worst circumstances, life is still worth living because you get this chance only once. Suicide can never be the ultimate option. Even suicide has a big drawback and that is the risk of failure associated with it. Many people end up handicapped or permanently disabled when their suicide attempts fail. So it's extremely dangerous. Try to heal yourself emotionally and spiritually first. Your problems may either go away one day or they may no longer be relevant from an existential perspective. May you find peace in your hour of trouble. Take care. (plz don't do it).
  8. Yeah, the final truth lies in just being.
  9. list of things - travelling good food music art family funny jokes and
  10. @Wouter Evernote with the elephant trademark. Its simple and nice.
  11. Follow Osho. I like Osho. His has some good stuff.
  12. Thought to share with y'all to lighten your mood if you are feeling bored. You can watch this movie in between your meditation sessions. I cried while watching it. I really like this movie, It is really nice and relaxing. absolutely brilliant
  13. Kekistan is now hiring.. https://www.reddit.com/r/kekistan/comments/5sy6qz/rkekistan_is_now_hiring/ After fleeing the States you have the option to go to Kekistan. But before you land there, you need to set it free. #FreeKekistan The hiring began 2 days ago. Hurry up hurry up.. move to Kekistan fast.
  14. Is FullyOptimized.org. your website ?
  15. I agree that resistance is the number one reason that holds back most people from living the life of their dreams.
  16. Well I get this feeling everytime too. I call them perfect people. They seem to be perfect in my eyes. Like the perfect girl/boy in the classroom or the perfect colleague at the workplace. They don't seem to be needing much self actualization. They appear as highly self actualized people. They obviously have differences that sets them apart from regular folks. A key characteristic which is found profoundly in them is 'balance.' They pretty much balance everything in their lives. The other important qualities they share are - deep intellectual awareness, general wisdom, quiet temperament, discipline, honesty, maturity(they begin to appear or show maturity at a very early age unlike most of us), empathy, and a very high level of understanding. They don't need (or at least they don't seem to be needing) any baseline coaching and they can handle tough complicated situations pretty well. They are what you can call 'lucky ones.' But instead of being jealous/envious of them, you can choose to admire them and learn a lot by being in their company. To answer the second part of the question, In my opinion they do have a greater level of consciousness. They being unconscious may just be an assumption. They may have better pre-emptive reasoning skills and analytical skills which may suggest that they are not that unconscious or unaware.
  17. I am reading this currently. I just love it.
  18. @Awomanaware Thank you for sharing. I need to pick up this habit too Will put it into practice.
  19. Sorry I couldn't stop..........................
  20. @Evilwave Heddy Glad to know that you are doing well now.