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@Andre Quinonez It’s relative. Monkey mind, diet, exercise, meditation, etc. It’s rest we need. One person could sleep 8 hours and wake unrested, another could sleep 5 hours and wake fully rested. Sadhguru (YouTube) is a great resource for this.

@BjarkeT Prioritize life over taste. Without junk food, taste buds change neuropathways, and a simple grape is the greatest tasting food in the universe. Paradoxical. Transcendable.

@Aimblack Open mind. Trip “plans”, as well as thoughts about what to expect, or what “you’ll” “experience” are in the dream. I understand you have not experienced outside of the dream yet. Excited for you! Please whip up a report to help our closed minded friends. They are invaluable. ❤️✌️

@electroBeam Had a trip once I was a dolphin and me and my friends passed around a puffer fish and tripped balls, pretty sure I’m the human now but can’t be sure.

@wakeel55 https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/anger-management.htm https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/anger-management/art-20045434 https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/friendship-20/201404/how-control-anger-seven-quick-tips Anger can not harm you, you are it. 20-25 is rough af. https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/17747-nonduality-meditations/#comment-181291

@KenDo This is over active thinking due to identification with thought. Meditation, every morning, and again in the afternoon helps to experience the ‘space’ between the awareness that you are, and the thinking. God is much more easily fooled than you imagine. Self inquire. Be aware of the thoughts and the processes / cycles running. Observe them. Detach from them. Here’s some resources. Godspeed! You Kendo it. Consider giving this movie a watch: The discovery of the territory is on you. But a map, we have.

I feel for ya. Rely on the practices. Nobody ‘has’ the truth. You are the truth. It’s the real-I-zation that some have and some don’t. The Truth is not relative. “Absolute” is getting dragged through the mud by amateurs lately. Careful. It is not helpful.

@mohdanas The theme is always self discovery, which is love. The main character of every movie, every story, ‘defeats’ the protagonist, the villain, etc, but that is not what is emotionally celebrated, what moves us - it’s their discovering of their self, that they could do ‘it’ - what they’re ‘made of’. Every human relates to this, as each is made of the same infinite love. So you courageously ventured vulnerably into this relationship, and discovered your love (self) more deeply. The misunderstanding (duality) was that this love you experienced came from her, as if she emailed it to you, or blew it in your ear or something. It did not come from her, it all transpired in You. It is still there, it will always be. The love in you is bottomless and ever-present. Ambition: She, possibly, does not have resistant thinking to success like you do. For some, the simple life is genuine, bliss, and utter peace - the way. For others, the simple life is not genuine, a denial of self, a failure into one’s own resistant thinking. This lack of self, lack of courage, and barrage of ego can ruin marriages, parent - child relationships, undermine financial success, etc, etc. There is no reason you can not discover the truth, self actualize, be wealthy, and live in love with the universe - unless of course, you think there is. Then you have resistance, self doubt - and the ego will invent a complete repeating cycle of justification to keep the life you desire at arm’s length. It will sacrifice everything, ever person, every relationship you hold dear, to support the false sense of “right”. Careful not to fall for any of that. You can have, do, be, achieve - anything, OR, you can be right. Just be sure you pick. Life goes by fast.

@Shanmugam Feels good doesn’t it? ?❤️ ? ?❤️

@Shanmugam Well? Can you?

@How to be wise The past does not exist, but neither does the present. Present is a relative term to past and future, present is a term that describes you. You, exist, and are nothingness, nonexistence. It is the formless appearance in form. Spacetime is a form. Light is a form. Etc. Quantum erasure is useful in opening this freedom.

@egoless You can be authentic or not. You can’t know if anyone else is. Some of the most charismatic convincing people in the world are dishonest and motivated by money, ego, or the gruesome combo of both. —You are the only one, the only being. You are everything.— See what I mean? That’s the truth, right there. It doesn’t help though. It wouldn’t matter if everyone used the same words or not, because that’s all illusion. The guru you like and agree with & the guru you don’t like and don’t agree with, are equally, completely, illusionary. Illusion hides the truth, it doesn’t convey it. The level of hiding is literally unbelievable. Truth is only experiential. Only direct experience will do.

Can’t stop laughing at the timing of this picture from the other post. Thought I’d share it here. (Cause I think it’ll make you laugh too)

@Truth Addict prefect pic at the perfect time for me. Thank’s Truth.

@Shanmugam Can you accept, that everything word you’ve ever said or written, every practice you’ve done, all of it, amounts to nothing? It’s very freeing. RIght and wrong is duality thinking. It literally amounts to nothing. I know you know this. Well, I think I know you know this. Lol.

@Shanmugam I accept that I am wrong. This is like the millionth time. Old hat. It amounts to nothing. If the subject is enlightenment, every word is wrong, every word is a lie.

Another post suggestion - brutal honesty - like roast style ripping each other to shreds- hold no punches. . That’d be funny, fun, and bonding. Might just be my flavor though, not sure.

@Shanmugam Hey. Wow. Sorry. I’m realizing ‘funny because it’s true’ humor does not translate online. I apologize. We’re the same being man. We both know this. I love ya. I do see how poorly that came across. It’s not that I think those gurus are wrong, or that you’re wrong, it’s that it’s an illusion, it’s now, and it’s infinite. I’m coming from a much different place, we all are. Paradoxically, you are the only being in existence - knowing this - why would you think there is anything objective at all about gurus? This reality is subjective, it doesn’t exist. Lighten up man. I have read the authors you’re referring to, but it was over twenty years ago. It’s like a past life to me as the realizations thereafter from quantum physics, practices and psychedelics show the literal nonexistence those gurus were pointing to. This nonexistence includes them. Maybe you realize that maybe you don’t. Who cares though, right? It’s a dream. It’s play. There is nothing serious going on here. Again, I fully apologize as I see I offended you. I suggest, if we’re all gonna keep jerkin on enlightenment, that we make a post, and each personally define what the hell we’re even talking about - and we don’t comment on eachother’s comments - just on that thread. It gets it out. We see where we’re coming from. Of course, at the same time, I’m wrong, and doing this amounts to nothing. That’s the pure freedom of the dream. Nothing amounts to nothing. Sorry again. I think more highly of you than I have exemplified and I’ll be more mindful.

@brovakhiin nailed it.

@Deep @Shanmugam Yeah. Osho is God, Sadhguru is a fake, Leo is wrong, you’re enlightened, no one else is. We got it. Would it be “seeking” to simply move on, a little, something new maybe?

@Big_D That took me back man. Thanks for posting.

@egoless Growth can be difficult, the life integration is completely ignored by most, no reason to conflate though.

@egoless Thanks! I’m suggesting what they share is nonexistence, that consciousness work sheds the programming, the belief in past and future, the actuality of now/god/absolute/everything/nothing/source/love/the infinite, limitless one - you. ?

@UDT Create the life you want.

@MarkusSweden Consider not that which you give your attention to, but what you give your attention to, this creates your reality.