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@zoey101 You’re awesome.

@zoey101 You’re right. And I hope he’s getting some help and or doing the work with regards to the root issues which led him there. Best of luck to you. Tough situation. ♥️

If what you want is to go to the temple, you should go. If it’s escapism, it probably won’t help. If you’re confused, and don’t know what to do, then go. That way, you’ll know, and you could always leave there.

@phoenix666 No. Btw, watch yourself around ladders tomorrow.

@zoey101 Keep on healing, and keep that great attitude goin! Tons of growth from this will be realized later. ??

@Paradoxisabichoflive ?? See, no problem...see no problem.

This morning when you awoke, you created your immediate perceivable vicinity flawlessly - not a single glitch or anomaly. An absolutely perfect continuum, including a choice to reload the continuation of yesterday’s thinking patterns. You did this so seamlessly, you probably didn’t notice you awoke in pure samadhi, as you do every day. So perfect, all of it is taken for granted. Unnoticed. You did this without any utilization of any concepts or materials at all. Without effort, without focus, without resources - but - the without awareness - that’s on you, that’s an option. That’s what you could look into. At the root of your college experience, your dream of starting a business, your desire for a girlfriend, and the friends you want in your life - is your consciousness - an appearance of now. These things you desire are not somewhere else, in a ‘future’, nor are they influenced by a “past”, they are all around you, in superposition which includes alll of you, recreating your experience in Planck “time”, in smaller changes than the eyes can interpret. This is how consciousness appears physical, but it is an illusion, a trick. So to think about these things, is to remain in a state of fooling your “self”. What you want is only contingent on your consciousness, in truth, that is all there is, your consciousness. So, it’s your perspective which you should contemplate, until all resistence in your perspective & emotion is realized for the falsity it is. You will know the right direction, because it feels good; liberation, freedom. Write these things down (for you, not here). Start with one, and make two columns 1) why I can do it, and 2) why I can’t do it. It will by eye opening, to the extent you are honest. You may realize a concept of ‘you’ is in the way. There is nothing wrong with the toaster, it’s just resisting 99% of the available electricity....That toast, holy shit. It’s delicious.

The Guru is not the territory.

Solid self awareness man. ??

Solid self awareness man. ??

@psychoknaut Someone somewhere is 10. Not categorically, but in approach to life itself. What are distinctions, differences between you and them?

@martins name Yes. You have not understood ‘fittest’ yet.

@phoenix666 I would tell you I already knew, but that would put you in a weird uncomfortable position with me. Let’s leave that for my wife.

Wherever you go, there you are. Sure it could help, but only because it could be a distraction which helps you to realize you are here now, but thinking about the past or future. You don’t need to think about the past or future, though. You could develop the habit of being present where you are. Aware. Eye’s & ears. Now.

@zoey101 omg! Glad to hear you’re ok!!!!

It is obvious. Maybe read what you just wrote. You might see you’re over thinking this.

@Deepu But you are not those thoughts, if you are what is aware of those thoughts. It is effortless then, to pick other thoughts. So pick other thoughts, write them on paper, hold them in front of you. Realize your power and just say, it is done.

@Deepu Are you aware of it?

@zoey101 ...what’s happenin? I feel like we need an update on this. ❤️

@psychoknaut How motivated are you, on a scale from 1 to 10? (To succeed at these things you mentioned, or one of them)

@WindInTheLeaf They’re very easy to spot. Usually in 1 or 2 sentences.

@martins name What’s that mean to you?

@Mikael89 Assuming you’re referring to a wanted change for yourself, and you thought positively about it, pictured it working out and feeling great - tomorrow, think about it for 10 minutes, then write down the smallest first step you can think of.

@Buddha Jackson Thanks for the share and very happy for you! ❤️

That is really terrible to hear. I’m glad you are aware that abuse means get out. Smart. What he’s dealing with is bigger than you, and you and him. You’re losing your energy, as you put it, because you’re looking at this as a you and him issue. It’s not, it’s his issue. You and your daughter can not be around him until he gets himself throug this. You realize, you didn’t do anything right? His actions are the actions of someone who is currently an addict. There’s no excuse for what he’s doing. If you try to help him, and be forgiving, IMO, you’re just making it worse for both of you and procrastinating the serious level of help he needs. I think you know all this. And we got your back here. You know, like, to the extent possible online and all. Emotional support wise. This too shall pass. ❤️