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@CodyXarex Can a woman ever love a man the way he wants to be loved? No, but only because the former (her love) is actual and the latter (the man’s idea of her love) is conceptual, just an idea basically. Like the thought of water and the wetness of water, a woman can love a man far far beyond what he could conceive of or think up. I'm starting to think I just need to get out there more and be myself unapologetically and unashamed. That first video is exactly my thoughts and opinions on the whole, "game" thing entirely, and I've been trying to get myself to ignore my gut about it. I want to learn a bit of game and pickup, but not to try to pretend to be someone else, but just get better at openly expressing my thoughts about someone, to someone. I lean that way as well too. I’d even go so far as to encourage others to do the same. They don’t call it the sacred chakra for nuthin. Trust in that feeling. It’s infallible. “Make the stomach your best friend” - Osho

Yes it does. It’s actual & ordinary though, not metaphysical. And there already is no separation, just some beliefs that there is. Reality, experience, this, whatever pointing word, you are attracting. The whole experience. Without exception. Without one single exception. Ever. It is no trouble at all for the universe to deliver him or her to you, nor to reveal it’s metaphysical broader sense. It’s perpetual-reveal already.

@Wildcattt555 Nice try, but you underestimate my sneakiness. I was already on ‘your level’. (I’m not a levels believer ? don’t tell anyone ). No levels, no failures, non judgyness, no shame. Much love.

@Javfly33 Are we sure it’s loneliness, and not worrying about being alone metaphysically speaking? Like it’s gonna probably suck but it’s inevitable and so that also sucks?

@Yoremo Do you think, just in part, that you’re experiencing jealousy in regard to other’s moving ahead more easily, and then you’re essentially burying the discord of feeling? Feeling that resistance in the heart area? Does it feel like intense desire for passion & purpose, but the specifics, ideas, insights, etc are missing? If so, it’s alignable. As in, you don’t have to suffer anymore.

@Zeroguy Sounds toxic.

@Javfly33 To me it seems like talking to you like you’re stupid is a ‘color’ added after the fact, but nonetheless if I came accross that way to you I do sincerely apologize. It was certainly not meant that way. Quite the opposite. More of a let the discordant beliefs & perspectives go altogether and think for yourself so to speak intention. Look for love within yourself.

@Tim R ? That’d be more of the same though.

@Yali Not believing thoughts.

@Yali Nice work on the thought attachment front.

@Tim R Weird question . I’m not sure if you’re sure either.

The conjecture of solipsistic spiritual ego is now conditioning via one’s own spiritual bypassing. The absence of said conditioning, conjecture & bypassing. Increasing conditioning with conjecture via adopting concept vs inspecting what is actual and liberating of the concepts, ideas & beliefs. The conditioning & conjecture is discordant but rather than being inspected and dispelled, it’s being justified with an additional belief in some thing called “loneliness”. There isn’t ‘that thing’, there’s the the thoughts and how the thoughts feel, but the feeling is denied while the thoughts & concepts are believed. No separation is already the case, it is the divisive separative thoughts which aren’t resonating. Maybe you’re feeling the momentary relief from your own beliefs. Without any of these beliefs there isn’t any of this discord. You’re trying to make it fit, let it go instead.

Transference isn’t risk, it’s healing.

@Tyler Durden But you will be.

Would you be willing to share how becoming a parent has changed you (so to speak of course)? Maybe five specific ways? Simple stuff like ‘well I used to do this, and now I do this… I used to think this way and now I see it like this’.

@Tyler Durden Does becoming a parent change a person? If so, how, in what specific ways?

Who knows.

The one for whom there is a God’s will, is what illness is. I’llness.

@Mu_ Appreciate the response. ??

You can’t choose love anymore than the blind can choose to see.

Reminds me of some old & wise scriptures, of a man who was ‘lookin California, but feelin Minnesota’. Similarly, ‘thinkin Legolas, but living & feelin Icarus’. Wants to be yam I you go he says. This freakin guy.