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Saying it's another realm might be taking it a bit too far. You may have some skill related to intuition that happens to go off on it's own, or then it's just daydreaming. I wouldn't obsess over it and I don't think the things you see are in any way important, or it doesn't sound like that at least.

Learn about law of attraction! Sometimes wanting less is the answer. Also, if you think you're advanced, then surely you might be compared to some people. But every time you realize something new it also feels like a fresh start to something new. Then you will learn that there is much more to discover.

They don't talk to you because you assume they won't. You can also increase being sexual to attract them in you know way. But hey, at least you don't have to have girls in your life to realize enlightenment. You may also have emotional trauma you need to process

Increase self love by valuing criticism less. Meditate to see why you would be less critical, or maybe read about it

It is generally more difficult, not impossible by any means. Minimizing it might take it a bit too far, as many people are difficult to change anyway. But we can confront etc to make our environments better. Often things related to just us can be fixed already in the moment by standing back up to someone, even if the situation wouldn't look super spiritual.

If life coaches tell us to get rid of something then they must have some idea why we should do that. By meditating and learning we can come to deeper answers and see for ourselves why one were to do it. I do agree with Leo on that it is a good idea to become a guru yourself. Only then will you have deeper understanding, as words and thoughts can only reach so far. For people it is generally difficult to let go of negative habits if they're around negative people that constantly reinforce them. We build up shame and the same negative habits as others easily and it can become difficult to see what is outside of all that. We do not have to run away from negative people, but if nobody tells us to get not be around them we usually stick to the things that keep us close to them. When we haven't mastered ourselves, dealing with other people in a smart way is very tricky. There is no arguing with many people and that's all they're willing to do. Of course we can accept rudeness and such. Do you think then we will just put up with it? We will then surely make it so that people will be less rude to us. How one goes about that is another question.

More about law of attraction, if you think you have a lot of things to fix, then you will have a lot of things to fix. Sometimes we get very caught up in thinking about what we should be when if instead we assume ourselves to be pretty good then we will be exactly that way most likely over time. If we think our life is perfect, we attract perfection. We attract things that are alike with our beliefs so if you think "I wish I wasn't attracting someone negative" you come from a place of believing you are attracting that. Why else would you be afraid of it? Please take some time to understand that you won't get away from your issues by avoiding them. You will only create a circle of rejection inside of you by pushing the bad away. For how to be happy without a relationship, you have to be happy in general. This is a tough task for a person in our age, but ask yourself if all the criticism and worry makes you happy? Should you maybe stop believing it? If so, again, pushing things away gives them more power and therefore attracts more of it. You don't have to be all super friendly with negative thoughts and such, but there's no need to give them more power.

You are much more than the thoughts

Yup, law of attraction works

I mean it can but it's mostly pointing out the obvious

Doing and understanding law of attraction correctly will probably get one pretty far.

It might be easier to understand as "If you hate a person, you would hate yourself if you were the same way or did the same thing (in the same position as they're in)."

Believe that you are good with girls and you will be good with girls. Boom. 5k value right there That really is the biggest factor for it, the rest is how to get to that place easier

Give up on finding meaning and you will find meaning everywhere

How can you do one without the other?

If you assume that you will suck, the chances of you sucking go up dramatically. So instead start to get used to the idea that you're actually almost so good that you wish you were awkward at times. You may have some memories and emotional trauma that enforces the negative belief you may have to process. Just slowly start getting more used to the idea of being able to talk to girls, especially if that's something you really want

It is ok yes, I'm similar too. No need to go to any extreme about it, but you don't need a girlfriend by any means. Relationships have pros and cons and if you don't feel like especially looking for one now is a good idea then you don't have to. Changing your life's direction is a brave move that more people should do. In order to change things you have to change things. It would be stubborn to stay on a bad path That being said a person who thinks "If only I had a girlfriend" is the least likely to get one. The person who thinks "I wish I didn't attract so many girls" has the most girls attracted to them (generalizing). That's how law of attraction works, thought there's a bit more to it.

Whichever is easier to visualize. Third person is probably easier to visualize.

Different planets have different energy and astrology says that their placement has an effect on how your life will turn out. Those things are not set in stone. 4 elements can be 4 useful concepts with some things. I can for example make myself cold or hot by invoking fire or water. I'd say listen to what he has to say. You don't have to take it all as fact but it doesn't hurt trying out the things he teaches.

Forums when Leo is meditating..

If you want someone to be interested in you sexually then be more sexual in the way you feel (and maybe act). Honestly though I like what Quanty said. Just get your own stuff together, although good relationships can help you accept yourself more quickly etc.

Not that I'm going to tell anyone to do this for now, but this is actually very good and refreshing advice to feel strong enough to not live up to the previous image you gave other people. Sure they might think you're weird but otherwise you can't be yourself all the time.

This might be a mindfuck, but even if it all happened and is predetermined we can still change things, enjoy chasing things and there's no need to follow a determinist view. See how you feel good about it and go with that. Generally the future can change

Probably he has some ideas preventing enjoyment and sexual ideas or you're not his type at all/he is gay

Heard a bunch of people talking convincingly about it. I assume it's legit, but it doesn't change much probably