Pallero

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  1. I don't know much about it, but I know it's not "bullshit". Maybe there's an energy healer here who can answer your questions.
  2. I have started a blog. It's not successful though. I can still give you some tips that I've heard around. - Make sure that the platform that you choose can support a lot of traffic. - The best design is simple but also personal to you. - Share what you write. Provide links so that people can access your site as easily as possible.
  3. Will wearing a mask make you less fearful?
  4. Do you feel like your consciousness has made you absent of life? I don't think that's the purpose of enlightenment. But I don't know much about it.
  5. Create a safe space for her to talk about her emotion and then love her unconditionally. That is a good way. But you can't force it.
  6. There is no contradition between spirituality and self-development. They are two different things on different levels. But there is a danger of spiritual bypass. Spiritual bypass is when you use spiritual knowledge to make yourself rise above your self-development, because dealing with your issues seems too difficult or scary. So for example when you have a fear, instead of dealing with the fear, you use a spiritual statement like "fear is an illusion" to make yourself think that the fear isn't real. That is not a good idea. It will make you a "zen devil" in Leo's terms. In other words, a person who is deluding themselves that they're spiritual.
  7. Everything is spirit. At first, you can make yourself suffer a lot by trying to be "more spiritual". Then in time you realize that you were spiritual all along. This realization has made me happier, yes.
  8. It seems to me that there is a value conflict between money and health. Having to sacrifice your health to keep your father happy. That really sucks, man.
  9. Hmm.. interesting. So your intuition told you to tell the truth and you felt relief about the idea, and then you actually told the truth and nothing bad happened?
  10. Do you mean to say that these veterans would be given the opportunity to integrate trauma through gameplaying?
  11. Is Leo's full name really Leonard? I'm sceptical.
  12. You could also start doing both at the same time, and then you would naturally gravitate towards one of them perhaps. Or maybe you just need both. That's fine too.
  13. Oh my God, I'm so sorry you had to go through all that! From my perspective it looks like it would be best for you to move away, yes. At least until you are ready to face him, which may never happen. Moving away is just the first step. The physical distance may be necessary in order for you to even start to heal from your past. If you are too close to him, you can't relax enough to heal.
  14. I would like to see more topics that focus on emotions (especially the very difficult ones), feminine ways to practice spirituality such as witchcraft, sexuality, releasing the shame around the female body, and also history. Topics like witch trials and why we are where we are right now. I would also love to see men openly talking about their fear towards the feminine, embracing and healing it by bringing the feminine closer. That kind of discussion would be very healing for all women who have been forced to reject feminine aspects of themselves by their parents. Of course we would also talk about moon rituals, yoni paintings, herbal teas, dream work, the book Women Who Run With The Wolves, and trying to get our boyfriends to come to tantra festivals with us.
  15. What bothers me about locking threads is that a locked thread is a rejection. It's a pushaway to that person who started it. On the other hand, even if a thread is left unlocked, the comments might also serve as a rejection... I understand that we don't want this place to be "low quality". But wouldn't it be better to respond to "low quality" posts with high consciousness answers? Wouldn't that be more inclusive and actually create change? But I also understand that mods are not therapists and it might not be completely realistic to do this. I just wouldn't want to completely reject people. Maybe if you lock a thread, send that person a PM with an invitation to contemplate and rephrase their post in another way? And then the person could also talk with a mod about what they were trying to say and why it breaks the guidelines and how to say it differently?
  16. Well, what do you mean by intimacy? Love and intimacy go hand in hand and you can't really gain one without gaining the other. Complete acceptance requires complete intimacy.
  17. People who "transcend" their sexuality actually completely disassociate from it and reject it. That is the opposite of spirituality, enlightenment and onness. You cannot get rid of your sexuality and sexual needs. It is impossible. As long as you are human, you will have them, and there's nothing unspiritual about that. I'm sorry. I know this makes you feel angry and powerless. But the only way forward is find a way to meet those needs. There has to be a way for you to perform step 1. If there is a need, there is a way. Even if you can't see it right now, there is a way. You don't need to do it now and you don't need to do it alone, but you will be stuck forever if you don't do it. And of course, you have free will so you can choose to be stuck. But you will be miserable.
  18. Maybe this video will shed some light on Teal's relationship to money: Leo himself has said many times that he has spent a lot of money on his spiritual growth, and he also encourages his followers to do the same. Do you think he would do that if he believed that charging money for spiritual services is wrong? I would be interested to hear @Leo Gura perspective on this issue. There's nothing unspiritual about money. Money is a tool that can be used for both good and bad. You can do a lot of good in the world with money. A person with money is powerful. A monk who lives in a cave somewhere probably won't influence many people through his teachings. If we want positive transformation in this world, wouldn't you agree that we need money to do that, and it would be preferable the money was in the hands of highly conscious people instead of low-consciousness greedy environment destroying people? Would you have given Mother Theresa or Gandhi money so that they could have influenced even more people than they did? So many spiritually inclined people have this belief: "money is unspiritual", "money is bad", because we have seen so many bad things done with money. But it's not the truth of money. In reality, spirituality cannot and will not become mainstream (and consequently the world will not become a safe place) until spiritual people are willing to embrace money. Yes, it might be true that Teal is interested in creating social global change, whereas Leo just wants to understand everything, but I predict from my crystal ball that in a few years' time Leo will also want to be an even bigger part of social change than he is now. Of course, he's contributing so much already, but he might want to do even more later. After all, wouldn't we all benefit from highly conscious influencers? And Leo is definitely in a position to be one if he wants to.
  19. Thanks for sharing! I'm also gonna try Kambo, so excited!
  20. You can't live with someone who you have this sort of unsafe relationship with. You do live with him, don't you?
  21. This is precisely why I asked if there is a certain kind of sex that you want. You need to have the exact kind of sex that you're craving the most in order to be fulfilled. Just any sex won't do. So maybe take a look at your fetishes to find the answer there? Just a suggestion. I'm not a sex expert.
  22. You said that you want sex. Does it need to be with another person? EDIT: Also, is it some specific kind of sex that you want?
  23. Does masturbating help? ?