Pallero

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  1. Without experiencing the "negative" you wouldn't have any reason to give rise to a new desire and move towards that. Within fear there is always a personal truth that will teach you more about your life path if you stop to listen. Everything is energy and everything vibrates, but things vibrate at different frequencies. Like different radio channels. You have to tune your radio to a certain frequency to be a vibrational match to the music that is broadcast on that frequency. So you are a little like a complicated radio receiver. Law of Attraction states that like attracts like which means that energy that vibrates on a certain frequency gets pulled towards similar frequencies and pushed away by other frequencies. Things appear first as thoughts. Thoughs vibrate on certain frequencies. If you think a thought long enough, it becomes an emotion. Emotions are more "solid" vibrations. Then if you feel a certain way long enough, it becomes more and more solid until it manifests in your reality as experiences and other more tangible things, things you can sense with your five senses. So all the thoughts and emotions in you are vibrations and they keep attracting matching vibrations all the time: other thoughts, experiences in your outside world, encounters with people etc. You always know what vibration you hold by how you feel. Positive emotions vibrate closer to Source or God and thus, your highest purpose. More negative emotions tell you you are going against your highest purpose. But still, at the same time, you can't get it wrong. God does not look at any vibration and condemn it as negative. It's just a learning experience so to speak, and behind every negative emotion there is always a positive intention and message. I hope my answer made sense!
  2. You can't get in the way of Law of Attraction. You attract whatever vibration you hold. If something gets in the way of something you want, you attracted the thing that got in the way. It's not possible to be left behind. You are it. There is no behind, so to speak. If you are afraid, then it is your purpose in that moment to be present with the fear. That is your "destiny", that is "God's plan". If you feel that fear gets in the way, you are in resistance to fear and what you resist, persists. You will attract more fear. You can't feel that you have something with all your heart while you are still afraid. So face your fear with love and it will melt away. <3
  3. He's not entirely wrong. I feel like there's a grain of truth in there. People do need a community to belong to, and meaning. But I didn't like the video otherwise and I wouldn't recommend it to anyone. It's super easy to get caught in the fluff of what he's saying. He wants everyone to have certain kind of values, while in reality all people have very different values. And he's saying that the community to belong to has to be a certain way, which is obviously bs. He also probably wants people to subscribe to a certain particular form of religion as well. I also believe that people need spirituality, but they should be free to choose the form. And what was that claim that everyone wants to emigrate to the US? I don't think that's a statistic fact. Sounds like his own wishful thinking and idolization of his own country. Not to say that there's anything wrong with the US. I just don't believe what he said about everyone wanting to emigrate there.
  4. @Superfluo Yeah, I've tried them and they have worked for me too! I have "Heritage" hanging on my wall and over the last few months it has helped me manifest more meaningful discussions with my mother about our relatives and cultural heritage. I've also seen some old photos of my family that I've never seen before. <3 Recently I discovered that I need more safety in my life so I'm beginning to work with "Sense of Security". <3
  5. Your problem is that you think that there's something wrong with a need for attention and that you need to get rid of it. Why? How does it make you "a bad person" if you need attention? That's your shadow. You are meeting the need in toxic ways, because you think there's something wrong with you. What you need to do is accept the need and meet it in non-toxic ways, such as get on stage to perform or whatever floats your boat. Get up there and tell everyone, "I love attention".
  6. That’s beautiful ❤️
  7. The reason they don’t get what they imagined is that there are reasons why they don’t actually want what they think they want.
  8. See her in yourself.
  9. I have been wondering for a while if that's what you really want? Do you want to leave? Cause I understand if you do, I've felt the same way. For me personally, I had to face the fact that my growth is in staying and facing those demons that I want to escape.
  10. Also realize that "normal life" and enlightenment aren't contradictory. You don't have to become a monk to become enlightened. Enlightenment encompasses all life, it's not just about meditation. Chop wood, carry water. You don't have to choose. In fact, you can start building your life (like Leo said), but in a conscious way. Try to make conscious choices. Your awareness will naturally rise higher and higher.
  11. Hi, Leo! I love your videos on Spiral Dynamics, Lifestyle Minimalism, Body Awareness, Art and Conscious Politics. I would be very interested to hear your take on Covid-19 from how you see it raising our collective awareness and how it might change the society in a big way. What kind of value shifts should we expect, what kind of lifestyle changes might we face and what kind of opportunities lie here for us? I think this kind of video might help people see the big picture and bring relief and a sense of purpose. Thank you!
  12. I like this!
  13. Hi, all! As we all know, Leo is a proponent of mastery, becoming really good at what you do. That's great and very inspiring to me. But it seems that there are all these mixed messages coming from different directions when it comes to being happy and successful in your work. Some people say that it's not so important to be the best or even that good, as long as you provide value for other people. Someone who is the best at something that no one needs would end up alone and unhappy. Conversely, someone who isn't that good but focuses on helping from the get-go would end up having connection, feeling valued and needed. Another thing I'm trying to reconcile with mastery, is marketing. I just recently started my own business and everyone says that you should spend at least half of your working time on marketing. Around 20% of time would be spent doing business managing, such as book keeping, which would leave 30% of the time to produce the actual work. Does this sound strange to you? Do people with this schedule still have time for deliberate practice? I would barely have time to actually do the work that customers ask me to do! It just doesn't add up. Are all these opinions part of the modern anti-mastery mindset? If so, how does one reconcile mastery with providing value and marketing? Balance? What are your thoughts?
  14. Eat as much McDonald's as you want while being mindful and you'll naturally realize in time that you don't want that in your diet. It's not enough that your mind realizes it. Your body has to realize it too. How do you feel after eating it? Watch this (includes an actual example with a hamburger):
  15. If by "me" you mean your fears, then yes. But keep in mind that it's your life and your decision. They are also your fears. Unfortunately, you can't escape them. The only way is to deal with them directly. So for example, if you're afraid of unemployment or not having something to do, that's the fear you deal with. If I was unemployed, what bad thing would happen? Why would that be bad? Then you go into the emotions that arise from it, like shame for example. You'd think something like, "I would be a failure". Then you work with that. Go right into it to inspect it and understand it. Then you'll be free. Good luck.
  16. He didn't necessarily blur the calendar because he was embarrassed of it though.
  17. Well, you said you were struggling with lack of energy and tristesse loosely translates as depression, so I thought I'd give it a go. Also you mentioned lack of concentration and that's basically a form of anxiety. If it doesn't resonate, that's okay. Although you can see that from my perspective, I saw a connection there.
  18. There's this thing called "post-coital tristesse" or PCT. Maybe look into that? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-coital_tristesse
  19. I'm an introvert and I find people to meet online. Then you can join group activities, like someone suggested, if that is not too difficult for you. You don't have to be an extrovert to meet people and make friends. Just find ways that suit you specifically.
  20. It sounds like you don't know how to connect to people.
  21. Okay. I don't know what "play" stands for here, but it might be useful to consider that when a person's trauma memory is triggered, they might not be in a very playful mood. The people will have to be provided with validation and comfort, a safe space to process the trauma.
  22. I don't know much about it, but I know it's not "bullshit". Maybe there's an energy healer here who can answer your questions.
  23. I have started a blog. It's not successful though. I can still give you some tips that I've heard around. - Make sure that the platform that you choose can support a lot of traffic. - The best design is simple but also personal to you. - Share what you write. Provide links so that people can access your site as easily as possible.
  24. It would greatly help if you didn't see them as inferior to you. From this mindset, anything you do will be rejected.