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I regret not trusting myself more. I wish I had gone fully for what I want always, and learned to listen to myself instead of pandering to the expectations and demands of others.

Sick idea. Me aswell!

For those pursuing & that have achieved financial freedom. What is the strategy for conscious investment that actually benefits the world ~ instead of funding warcrimes ~ when you reach 6-7 figures in the bank? Thank you for your insight.

Here's a reframe that's helped me. Simply enjoy socialising with EVERYONE. Forget about pick up. One of the biggest blocks I've had with the frame is the state of neediness I've had come up from trying to/having an expectation for "more to happen," whether a number or sex or whatever. I've found pickup has also conditioned this distinction of hot girl / everyone else, and there's programmed behaviours that come with that perception for me ~ hot girl, i choke, everyone else I've learned to vibe hard Especially if you don't have a basic social foundation of regular socialising/social flow, this will help A LOT. You're just starting from a way better fucking state than whatever blocks you're coming from that you believe you have so you came to learn pick up in the first place. Learning to just fucking enjoy socialising, is a massive win ~ not only does it take pressure of this chasing sex game/frame. But socialising in of itself becomes the win ~ which means you'll do it more, and WANT to do the process of mad approaches, because you're there to vibe and see what happens NOT to get anything. Free is becomes my mind instead of being caught up in a percieved zero sum win/lose game of, oh I did/didn't get laid tonight ~ I'm great/I suck. Too volatile. Learn to enjoy the ride, this time can also be used to become conscious of your social ticks as you do it ~ am I comfortable holding eye contact? Being the center of attention? Leading group dynamics? Being vulnerable or honest with strangers? What do I/how can I most enjoy socialising with everyone? Practically in bar settings for example, if you know you're going to talk to everyone anyway, you also know you'll open whatever girl you noticed but feel too intimated to go and talk straight up to. If you can get fascinated in the whole picture of inner work with socialising, your patterns with women become part of the mission ~ not the whole mission. Takes the pressure off. You have fun. You come off as more attractive, very social/lots of friends/learning deeply about yourself... you get the picture. TL;DR: relax bro.

Meditation might be an easier in than Kriya yoga ~ Christians can have a block (the bible says you can't) practicing other religions, yoga may be percieved as having stronger connotations of having religious roots where meditation has/can be white washed enough by the western lens to be percieved as more dissonant from the religious connotations. If he has this block, try offering meditation.

Sounds cool. Create systems of accountability & iterative visioning to keep inspired with taking daily action. Post some links to your work here too.

Now, now. There's infinite daddies.

No. I'm in a lucky spot to go max self-development for the next two years. I study at university and want to nail my life purpose & a complimentary start up ~ I have a lot of inner work to address with dating & relationships that overlaps with my life purpose hence this being a priority area.

I do. The 3-4 days spent recovering/being in suboptimal consciousness which I want to minimise.

Ideally, I want to practice night game 2/3 nights a week consistently without it knocking me out for days after. Any way to minimise the sleep cost is ideal.

Hey! What practices: habits, supplements, beliefs etc. Have had the biggest impact on your health mental clarity & energy levels? I want to have killer energy levels & mental clarity going forward. I hit an amazing flow state playing piano a couple days ago that made me realised how fried I feel on average by contrast which is a state I have been completely unconscious of.

Any tips & tricks for practicing night game/being able to be consistent & not crashing out so hard from lack of sleep? My brain feels fried after 2-3 nights, the cost with other self-development practices & pursuits seems too high to make it a consistent weekly thing.

What brand do you use? I use loops but I can only use them 1 day max because they mess with my ears. RIP because my dorm has a fucking bar 5m from the front window.

How does this help you?

The thing is, you can learn to enjoy the challenge more than any cheap thrill. I think for me it's a mindset thing of loving myself for taking on and being with the challenge. Jumping in the deep end & seeing if I can swim is rewarding. Perhaps question why you desire things to be easy? OR What would the reality REALLY be if you really got exactly what you wanted? Boring, surely. Victory is earned. And you can learn to appreciate taking on the challenge as it's own victory. Start small & build momentum ~ do what you can, until you can do what you thought you couldn't.