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11/10/25 I'm coming to terms with the fact I have absolutely no fucking clue what I'm doing. This has felt shit, but it's been what I've needed - all the self-doubt about how to build a business that works and create financial freedom is also the opportunity - I don't know how success works for me, but I can figure out how. This is a huge trap I didn't even know I was in, pursuing other people's model's of success. I've come to understand entrepreneurship is an alive thing - it's opportunisitic like hunting for survival, what once worked won't in the same way anymore because it has been done, someone else was first. I've been clinging to a linear path to success subconsciously, out of fear of course, stepping off the social conveyor belt, putting myself out there, being alive and intuitive and emotional terrifies me. I didn't realise how much I've been holding myself back with subtle fears. With not dreaming big or audacious enough. With not being openminded enough. Not being ambitious enough. I "know," a lot of the frames, ideas, principles around success - I'm aware of them, I need to actually go inwards and develop a deep understanding of what these things mean in the context of my life. I've been stuck in thinking, I need to get to the tipping point of massive fucking action, I've just felt too afraid and lost as to what execution actually looks like - what am I mastering? I'm afraid of choosing the wrong choice. I'm afraid of wasting my time, being critiqued, blamed, failing. What to do now? Stoke my ambition. Vision. Vision. Vision. Massive questioning too - I won't see or feel the opportunities available to me if I don't open my mind and let curiosity lead. I feel drawn to group facilitation, meditation, journalling, workshops - these kind of things, I have an interest in creating content, skateboarding, vegan food, coaching, NLP, Art, Languages, conscious relationships, conscious entrepreneurship & finances. I have many avenues to explore. I need to be dilligent, conscious and open to the exploration process. Add going through a breakup - lots of emotional work to do. I'll do it though. I accept the challenge.

Hey ~ forgive me if this is the wrong section to ask in. I want to clarify the copyright/approach with the booklist ~ my current understanding is the value of other people's books as a paid product is that I would never have found many of these myself or have as much clarity priortising their relative value. Reading and integrating the top books has added massive value to my life (for example the insight from one book fully saved my relationship.) My question is what's the ethics of sharing books with friends/family members that I can see would also reap massive value, but would be very unlikely to go out and purchase the book list? Access to these insights and information in an ideal world would be common knowledge and prevent massive suffering. Is sharing individual books okay? Is sharing collections of relevant books okay? Practically where does the copyright start/end, is it the whole compiliation plus the added value that constitutes the copyright where an individual recommendation does not? Thank you for your thoughts.

In my experience starting the thing is #1 ~ existing in the frame of "wanting to do something" is not the same as doing something of course. Where talking to people about doing the thing has helped is becoming known for doing the thing (this can also 100% be a trap) because I am known to do the thing I often feel inclined to do the thing to conform to my social identity/ role. For example my friends all know me as someone who eats healthy, I talk about this ~ they expect me to eat healthy around them therefore, to fit the image I have set with them I continue to eat healthy, this helps integrate the habit. Of course it can become very unconscious if you go by defining yourself via social perception ~ keeping integrity with yourself and honest about your desires is primary, I've just found this as a method that can help reinforce habits. The other value in talking with people is inspiration to take action if it's with the right people that resonate with you and the vision. Good luck!

The UK still sells weapons to Israel.

Can you identify the core principles behind your success? For example the principles for becoming fluent in a Language might be... ~Move to that country for a year ~Speak no English What do you think they would be for your financial success?

I want to get a sense of how you think exploring dating (or lack thereof) has impacted your life. I've been in a relationship for two and a half years, my first "adult," long-term relationship. I enjoy my partner, however with this being my first relationship I have this idea I should explore more while I am in my early twenties. I'm unsure of how important or authentic this is for me ~ I hope to gain some perspective as to if it's worth going deeper into this relationship or facing my fear and seeing what serendipity brings. I look forward to hearing your thoughts.

Asking ~ "Are you single?" Is perfectly fine. As you practice socialising you'll get a better intuitive sense of when to ask as you become more socially callibrated.

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I'm coming from the UK for and staying a year.

I'm moving to Germany for a year - a relatively small student city. For those that have travelled or moved abroad - what advice do you have to... Make the most of the experience? Things you wish you knew/had considered looking back?

I've been thinking about it but got scared off by poor reviews on glassdoor. Did you qualify through IPEC?

Many may be interested in seeing you model a highly novel lifestyle - you will have things people want, if you're very grounded for example because of your consciousness work - contemplate what you have people would bend over backwards to have that you probably take for granted now!

You don't need to work with everyone. What you offer needs to be desirabe true - but consider, desirable to who? What are the needs your products/services meet that are worth paying for - that people would be itching to pay for? And how are you going to reach them? A final two questions: what is the true value of what you have to offer? How are your customers/clients/viewers going to know it's meeting the expectations you've set for resutls? If you're clear on that, results should come. If you offer me a basic meditation course I'll probably scroll past, but if I see a meditation course that promises to break me through my procrastination and puts me in the position to live up to my highest potential, become financially free, be a present partner and find my creative expression - and lives up to the promise, I'll pay. What is highly desirable, that you can and want to deliver, or learn to deliver?

Create a video portfolio of amazing inspiring speeches that deliver a powerful message/story, and then coach people on how to deliver their message/story. Start a paid meetup group, eventbrite event, run workshops etc.

18/06/25 My main two blocks are decisiveness and maintaining clarity. I have too many competing priorities to meaningfully break ground on any one. On the brightside - I have defintely developed my level of impulse control to a profoundly higher level since one year ago. I've integrated a sustainable routine that covers my bases for health and self-development work. Career is where I'm suffering from fragmented priorities. I have value to share - I've missed a huge opportunity over the past four years of doing self-development work and entrepreneurship for the past two years - of actually learning to capture and communicate the value I've created in this time. I have inner game blocks around money - I'm needy. Simply. I feel I need money. This gets in the way of turning up for people and giving all I can to solve their problems detatched from outcome and in it for the learning. Neediness moves the focus from what I can give, to what I can get. Reconciling these frames I believe is found in having an artistic realtionship to creating money - it's one of the many canvases you can paint that make up your life. I think also I have a block around giving people what they want versus what I want to give - I don't want to hop on the stage orange explotive band wagon. I want to contribute to causes that uplift the world - education and environmentalism primarily. My path forward now - I see substack as a way forward - my decision: to create a retrospective toolkit that would have helped my past-self get to where I am quicker. One hour a day to write. One hour a day to create. One hour a day to connect and network. Daily, Weekly and Monthly reflection. What results have I created? I let go of unhealthy eating. I massively improved my imulse control. I have a consistent routine of daily excercise, affirmations, contemplation and meditation. I'm going into the third year of my relationship. I've led start-up teams to deliver profitable events and learned exactly what I don't want to contribute to the world and the importance of value alignment in saving you stress and hours of your fucking life. I've facilitated workshops on cognitive bias, team coaching, entrepreneurship, and tomorrow creative design. I've worked with 5 clients delivering pro-bono coaching sessions. I think my most valuable integration currently is my relationship with life - I have a grounded, creative relationship with life, it's my canvas, self-development practices are brushes in my collection make paintings with. I see, feel and am connected with a sense of beauty and purpose - even though everything's not quite clear yet. I have coped with, laughed off and breathed through a tremendous amount of stress working in start-up and integrating radical honesty into my relationship. What are these things worth? To my past self - years of creation. I don't know where I'd be or what life I'd have lived if I had these experiences at age 12. I know it would have been a much richer, more connected, fuller - fulfilled life than the one I led. I know I'd have been more capable and in a position to take on responsibilities that would have led to the thriving instead of the suffering of people around me. I want to learn to pay forward where I am, and break ground even further so I'm in the position to uplift those around me.