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Sounds cool. Create systems of accountability & iterative visioning to keep inspired with taking daily action. Post some links to your work here too.

Now, now. There's infinite daddies.

No. I'm in a lucky spot to go max self-development for the next two years. I study at university and want to nail my life purpose & a complimentary start up ~ I have a lot of inner work to address with dating & relationships that overlaps with my life purpose hence this being a priority area.

I do. The 3-4 days spent recovering/being in suboptimal consciousness which I want to minimise.

Ideally, I want to practice night game 2/3 nights a week consistently without it knocking me out for days after. Any way to minimise the sleep cost is ideal.

Hey! What practices: habits, supplements, beliefs etc. Have had the biggest impact on your health mental clarity & energy levels? I want to have killer energy levels & mental clarity going forward. I hit an amazing flow state playing piano a couple days ago that made me realised how fried I feel on average by contrast which is a state I have been completely unconscious of.

Any tips & tricks for practicing night game/being able to be consistent & not crashing out so hard from lack of sleep? My brain feels fried after 2-3 nights, the cost with other self-development practices & pursuits seems too high to make it a consistent weekly thing.

What brand do you use? I use loops but I can only use them 1 day max because they mess with my ears. RIP because my dorm has a fucking bar 5m from the front window.

How does this help you?

The thing is, you can learn to enjoy the challenge more than any cheap thrill. I think for me it's a mindset thing of loving myself for taking on and being with the challenge. Jumping in the deep end & seeing if I can swim is rewarding. Perhaps question why you desire things to be easy? OR What would the reality REALLY be if you really got exactly what you wanted? Boring, surely. Victory is earned. And you can learn to appreciate taking on the challenge as it's own victory. Start small & build momentum ~ do what you can, until you can do what you thought you couldn't.

I believe the claim & value with Spiral Dynamics is in anecdotal experience ~ how can you actually use it, in real life, to inform your sense-making & decisions. One example for me: Never start a start-up with stage orange & below again expecting them to match or care about Green values.

You can do it. You'll need to get good at outreach/ networking, mastery at your craft & mastery at being able to market your craft. The deciding factor for success is enjoying the process & challenges that come with putting something out into the world more than anything else you could be doing.

09/12/25 God I feel so fucking insecure and needy with women, probably socially too - most obvious with women. I'm noticing the desire to find something to hide behind - "the right game," etc. I need to be dilligent around buying into external right answers without direct experience vetting. My biggest boon at the moment - facing, accepting, meeting my emotional spectrum in all it's chaos at the moment with love, and then letting go and moving on.

I will of course be contemplating this for myself - however I thought I'd pitch it here too because I keep seeing this phrase being thrown around. What actually is "high value?" I'm talking in terms of inner game and framing having just been on two dates with very attractive girls and having my frame crumble each time at a certain point - leading me to ask, what do I need to tap into within myself? Who do I need to be? For things to go right. Thank you for your insight.

Creating a network of international community centres to bridge gaps in the education system and vertically develop society is where I'm currently at with my Life Purpose (still a work in progress)