Rishabh R

Your doing one of the toughest thing. Goodluck.

@NoSelfSelf and @Kksd74628 thank you.

@Leo Gura and people let me know what you all think about it and is it counterintuitive?

Thank you @Inliytened1 by the way could you please move this topic to the personal development discussion area as I wanted to put it there initially.

@Leo Gura So , I was once contemplating that what truth I am avoiding facing then an insight came that present moment is all that is. So how it is connected with the episode of Avoidance of truth and assumptions episode? And a question - Is truth happiness? Isn't running away from present moment which is getting lost in fantasies of our mind an avoidance of truth which makes us suffer ?

@Leo Gura I was wondering that your mind course would be about basic topics like success etc. ?

@Yimpa yeah but I was wanting to know about the mind course he will be releasing in future.

@SoMe @somegirl I also have this problem at the back of my mind . By the way sorry for tagging @SoMe.

@somegirl you will find a good guy and just believe that you are capable of it.

@Leo Gura Please keep doing the videos and courses in the future cause one of my long term goals in life is to continue my self actualization journey which you can help me in. By the way sorry if you feel offended.

Thank you @Leo Gura .

@Andrey I think it's part of the process .

@Zion Truth is the foundation of good life. And people including me think that truth will hurt us but it turns out that truth only hurt in the short term but serves positively in the long term .

@somegirl Ya it happens with me too cause I am single too. Going to herbivore mode 1st hurts for a couple of days then it becomes mentally healthy.

Same here @Leo Gura

@MarkKol that's a great experience.

People and @Leo Gura could you all tell me ?

@Benton ok.

@Benton yeah.

Sorry , tried remembering it but can't successfully recall which video was it maybe it is Implicit vs Explicit understanding - Not sure .

Hi, a 22 year old engineering student here . I have been mistreated by girls a lot since, my school days . Even emotionally bullied .Any idea people as I have been rejected a lot and they treat me like bullshit . However , I have worked on my dating life , got abused both by girls and boys , got threatened girls. How do I move on ? How do I get over the trauma of being rejected by girls in the past ?By the way I am thinking that after bad good comes in life and I am responsible for getting jealous of those girls who are dating guys. Yesterday , I consulted my psychiatrist and he said that I am being succeding in my life beyond his imagination . And also a final note - Am I making an assumption that good things won't come in my life ? Is cognitive behavioral therapy suitable for this situation ?

@meta_male yeah thank you.

You could either focus on quality of relationships rather than quantity of relationships like most people do . However, as @integral said each relationship is a learning experience there is a lot to learn from even from simple day to day relationship like ( non romantic) most of the relationships in life end however there would be some relationships that would last throughout your life .

@integral Yeah I never had a gf but I attracted many girls . I said -I love you to 3 girls in my life and all those 3 girls are with somebody else . I approached many girls that is more than 50 girls in my college campus and in one case I was kicked out of campus abusingly by a girl whom was I was talking to . Once I remember that I was near to sex with a married maid of mine however , I said sorry to her cause I knew that she was married and she said ok. By the way I don't want to have sex with a married or already committed person . Majority of girls in my college batch call me brother as they are committed. I also feel jealous of girls die to the fact that they are dating and I have nobody ( sorry to all the females present here).However, this is a good solution .

Maybe by cognitive behavioural therapy , letting go etc.