Rishabh R

I am scared of how the interactions of mine with my collage mates go when I meet them. Obviously the solution is to face my fear and go through it . I am also scared that the girl whom I proposed( said I love you) online rejected me badly and whose friend called to threaten me how will the girl react when she will meet me .So I have to go through it.

Another update: -Getting a gist of things -Sense making using connections from reference of things

I think that you need to embody the truth that you will get rejected a lot in life and continue on the path just I myself need to embrace the fact that I need to be persistent in the game of dating and relationships. And also try to get out of your mind in the situation in which you are interacting.

An update guys : -Seeing that there is always a great opportunity present since there is infinity of opportunities present -Science is like breaking parts of infinity to understand a part

An update guys : - Making an unlikely move I request you guys to keep this post alive otherwise it would be lost in flood of posts. And @Leo Gura any thoughts on it ?

Sorry @Leo Gura I am fearful and worried about you too. And also about your health too as you have physical health issues . Is it getting better ?

Update : -Paradigm in mind is not the reality itself

@Leo Gura After contemplating what wisdom am I lacking I got the following answers: I am underestimating the importance of laughter I am expecting literally every person to be gentle with me ( which is a great foolishness) Only I am responsible for my own happiness as when I become happy it is only through me happiness flows Other's thinking are hugely different from me so their actions thereby many people will act below my expectations Bad things have good things hidden inside them as when they happen they show the true nature of something like is it hollow or of good value Also being a patient of OCD I already enrolled in a doctor's therapy in which I am on antidepressants and so forth. Any suggestions @Leo Gura and guys/girls what can I supplement besides my therapy?

@Leo Gura and people after contemplating a little I recognised that my epistemology is very poor. I absorb information from all sources and fear to question the information and the source too. So is the questioning a key for me even though I am recieving diverse perspectives ?

@itachi uchiha Sorry u didn't understand my question. My question was that are there any other things which I can supplement with my ongoing OCD therapy with my therapist and the medicine which my Psychiatrist is giving me? Also I have already found the field in which I can be master in and I am not talking about passion here ?

An update guys : -Recognition of change -Ingenous design

Thank you @Leo Gura

I have been contemplating this topic and I gained the following insights: -Intial thinking about the situation is almost always short sighted so are initial actions -Life is a revelation process of one's shortsightedness (unquestioned assumptions) Any thoughts @Leo Gura and guys/girls?

@Leo Gura After going out almost daily on the street I noticed that there are some very few girls who will look in the eyes back if made eye contact. Also I approached girls where I didn't reach the hook point but in very very few I reached. So when one can know it is the right to approach a girl if she ignores then ? If she looks back then is it right to approach her ? Anyways I also learned that rejections are a part of life. Almost an year back I posted a topic of getting rejected as I proposed one girl (which I did wrong) but now I am grateful that she rejected me a few days before I discovered that she has an abusive nature which I don't like.

@Leo Gura Can patient of OCD(on antidepressants) watch that video? I contacted my Psychiatrist after watching that video and he told me not to watch that video. He told me to discuss over next appointment of mine.

@lostingenosmaze Ya ? I know it. Searched it already in the past.

I have been struggling with OCD since past 2 years , I am currently on antidepressants.Can your heavy metal detox episode help me in supplementing it with my ongoing medicines? @Leo Gura

Ya @Leo Gura innovation is the key to understanding and success in life

I think that we have to go against the grail of natural foolishness.

Or it could be on the level a person understands a situation ?

@something_else Ya so the only solution then is to move on and nextzone the ignoring girl (I have put the answer in bracket )?

@Medhansh Dude you didn't understand my question like if I find a beautiful then I would approach her but before approaching her if she ignores me and walks past me then what can I do ? (Obviously the answer will be to move on and try on another girls)

Yup the girls who came to me in my past are the source of this feeling. Anyways I feeling greatful that the girl whom I proposed rejected me as (I have listed the reason in above post). @Nahm However your question is difficult to understand .

Nope I don't think so as I have got some (even though a very few ) results . And also I liked the idea of social circle.

An update guys : -Jumping upward and back -Going upwards in a 2D plane