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  1. Posted · Edited by no_name

    12 minutes ago, mr_engineer said:

    You should thank your lucky, privileged stars that people are taking your racist opinions seriously. 

    Like I explained, I thought the guy was the same guy who made a post here about Indian guys struggling to date in US.

    Again, that was not a racist comment, nothing to do with race, but with the culture. It’s important to learn to distinguish the two.

  3. Posted

    3 hours ago, NoSelfSelf said:

    @no_name If both people are underdeveloped why doesnt that make it more likely that guy or girl overpower one another because they dont know any better?

    Because growing up children have been taught to listen to adults because they are older and thus know better. You were not told to listen to your younger/same age sibling. Being older has a natural authority to it.

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    Just now, Jannes said:

    I think more female user could enrich the forum a lot, especially because a lot of people on this forum suffer from mental health issues, traumas, etc. and women are often better at going about it. 
    I also think that if more females joined the forum the balance of power would swing. It’s easy to overtone a 10% minority, even if most don’t intend to, or don’t intend to to a high degree it just easily happens. I do think though that the average user here is more respectful then the average men in society and I see a lot (not all) of women hate getting called out right away. 
    I think your post is good because it raises the awareness for men that some female user do suffer on this forum which isn’t all that obvious if you are not the victim. 

    There was a lot of really good women on this forum, really wise and their advice was always gold. They didn’t want to tolerate this abuse anymore, no healthy woman would want to be a part of this toxic community for long.

    There were multiple posts similar to mine too, nothing changes. 

    I feel the opposite though, I’ve never met men who would be as bad as they are here (some men here are also very wise though and give great advice, but majority is toxic and abusive). After being on this forum my view of men declined drastically.

  5. Posted · Edited by no_name

    3 hours ago, Eyowey said:

    I predict that the age of consent will increase to 21 and eventually 25. There will be some kind wearable device that everyone is forced to wear that keeps track of who you have sex with. The device can decide if you're allowed to sleep with them or not. Even if they are legal age. For ''virus reasons''. The real world will gradually be made less fun so people will plug themselves into virtual realities. Finding someone to have sex with will become increasingly hard because almost nobody will be leaving their house. 

    Why was the age of concent 18 to begin with? Why is it that in US you aren’t considered responsible enough to have alcohol until 21, but yet it’s ok for a 40 year old grandpa to date you? 

    Or why is it that you can’t even rent a car until the age of 25? But yet you are considered wise enough to marry/start a family/ bring in children to this world.

  6. Posted · Edited by no_name

    4 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

    Like come on! I am trying to be as nice to you as I possibly can even though we are arguing right now. But you just have to throw one hurtful comment after another at me. Do you really think that this is okay?

    More moralizing. 

    See my post 10 comments ago about how you’re harassing me and how I am not going to be NICE to someone who is constantly harassing me. 

  7. Posted · Edited by no_name

    4 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

    Cause that dudes opinion was just too cringe to even discuss it. And no, I didn't do it after your comment. I was following it since the beginning and had a strong urge to start an argument with him, but was able to hold back, of which I am proud to be honest.

    As I already said, you general views and arguments are kind of valid. What triggers me so much about you is that you just have to call everyone names and use personal attacks. If not that, I think I would actually be friends with you.

    Edit: also, I do call people out oftentimes whenever they post retarded red pill comments under my own threads and discussions.

    That is my style of communication. It will never change. In fact, you being a pain in the ass makes me want to call people names even more. 

    See you do it, so maybe instead of trying to teach a grown woman of how she’s supposed to speak you try and change yourself? 

  8. Posted · Edited by no_name

    4 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

    You could have addressed his arguments without attacking him personally. Just like he addressed yours without attacking you personally.

    But I do agree that what he was saying sounded misogynistic and probably even hurtful to you as a woman.

    Again with the coulds and shoulds

    Do you make everyone in your life say exactly what you want or otherwise you throw tantrums and lecture them for hours? How does anyone keep tolerating you at this point.

  9. Posted

    22 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

    @no_name I am not really obsessed with you, but your posts often blow up because of how controversial and polarizing they are so it's hard to not notice them. And, to be honest, people like you trigger me a lot because of how hateful you are towards others.
     

    I am all for regulating men as well when they are crossing the boundaries. It doesn't mean that you specifically should now have a greenlight for abusing others

    So why aren’t you commenting under a thousands of posts like this that men make? Why aren’t you reporting that?

    You’ve patted yourself on the back for not participating in the “women are run through” open discussion we’ve been having - interestingly you’ve commented that also AFTER MY POST.

    Or because I am a woman I am not allowed to be “controversial and polarizing” not to make entitled “centre of the universe” males like you “triggered”? 

  10. Posted

    1 minute ago, Something Funny said:

    @no_name you can put me on ignore if I bother you so much.

    @Tyler Robinson I understand your concerns about this being a male dominated forum with a lot of toxic male users. And even her being angry is valid in part, in my opinion. I am not arguing about that. I am just making a statement that it's not okay to attack people simply based on their race / nationality / enthnicity. And I am only commenting here because she obviously created this thread after I called her out on it.

    Blocking you won’t make you stop making noise and throwing a tantrum reporting my posts every time I post. Leave me alone. You have some extreme issues with controlling your emotions - aka «истеричка».

    You’ve done this multiple times on this forum already, and then you come back and apologize. 

  12. Posted

    @Something Funny I’ve had to delete my posts in the past because of you, because the second I’ve posted it you’d comment with your annoying moralizing.

    What more can I say at this point? What kind of decent treatment do you expect when you keep harassing someone with your lectures? I don’t need you to teach me right from wrong, I didn’t ask to be schooled. 
     

    In what language do you need me to write to leave me alone? 
     

    If you see my post, just pass by it, don’t comment. Or do you have a disease I should know about that makes you comment under my every damn post? 

  13. Posted

    Just now, Something Funny said:

    @no_name when was the last time that someone used hate speech against you specifically and wasn't punished by it?

    What you did wasn't even some general remark, you direceted it at a specific user, trying to shut him down by using his ethnicity.

    What if you were commenting on something and I replied to you saying:

    "Are you Ukrainian? Ukrainian women are basically undatable because most of them are prostitutes and gold diggers, only interested in your wallet."

    And used it to invalidate your opinion. Would it feel nice?

    Dude leave me alone. I actually thought he was from India, because I thought I saw him make a post about how hard it is for Indian men to date in US. I made this comment because CULTURALLY in India it is accepted to be a misogynist and in US it’s not.

    You don’t give two shits about me offending anyone. You are literally commenting under every one of my posts here even if I ask you not to because you got butthurt that one time I asked people in their early 20s not to reply to me. 

  14. Posted · Edited by no_name

    I wanted to make this post long time ago, but always decided against it.

    This forum is 90% male dominated and the dating section is always full of misogynistic comments that no one reports for days. However, the second a woman writes something that remotely offends a male, it gets reported before you even get a chance to change it.

    Mods, is it possible for you to keep this in mind already that posts from a woman will be reported way more? 

    It is already very hard as a female to express yourself, god forbid if you’re a witty one and not tame, the boys here just can’t handle it and have to stalk your every post the moment you make it in order to aggressively dismiss and state that a woman is wrong/doesn’t know anything/is jealous/masculine/hostile etc.

    Leo himself is letting all the abusive misogynist posts last on here for days and days to have “open discussion”, but I remember how when I made post about men paying for dates, he closed it the next day. How is this fair?

    @Leo Gura is this forum meant to be a sausage party? Or is it possible to give women freedom for an open discussion without being attacked by 18474918474 heated boys and then, reasonably, perhaps getting angry back in return? 

  15. Posted · Edited by no_name

    3 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

    Gosh, you are so toxic, calling people names left and right...

    Also, how is it okay to speak to people like that?

    @integral doesn't it fall at least under one of two points from forum guidelines?

    - Verbal abuse (she actually directed it at a specific forum memeber on top of that...)
    - Hate speech: racism, sexism, homophobic slurs, threats, harassment, or excessive profanity

    @Something Funny I think you are obsessed with me, you follow my every single post and can’t stop yourself from commenting.

    @integral please keep in mind that this forum is heavily regulated towards male users. Women on this forum have to endure all kind of abuse, but god forbid you offend men in any way.

    Also it has nothing to with racism but with third world culture where it’s still normal to be misogynist towards women. 

  16. Posted · Edited by no_name

    2 hours ago, integral said:

    Ive tried to make this point before with out success, but younger women abuse older men as well. Many older men are needy, lonely and desperate and are easily taken advantage of by a pretty thing. 

    There is a wide range of diverse situations people can fall into. 

    One is expectedly inexperienced, the other is unwilling to learn. I feel 0 empathy towards the other. 

  18. Posted · Edited by no_name

    9 minutes ago, Raze said:

    What you are saying makes no sense. If this was the case the only couples that would have abuse would be age gapped ones, but that isn’t true. People can and are taken advantage of at any age.

    Young women do want love, but they don’t want love from just anyone. They are attracted to specific traits such as status, resources, confidence, etc. which older men tend to have more of.

    Not a myth, it’s well established scientifically.

    https://www.eurekalert.org/news-releases/849423

    Women are clearly jealous because they are constantly flipping out about it even when there is no indication anyone is being abused. See the anger at Leonardo DiCaprio only dating younger women. Once again, people can also be abused when dating someone of the same age bracket, so it doesn’t matter.

    You are legally an adult at 18 and the female brain is pretty much done developing at 25.

    Being misogynistic or entitled as a man doesn’t necessarily make it harder to date women, if it did than we wouldn’t have issues of women ending up in relationships with bad men. No I’m not Indian but I’ve never seen any evidence Indian men are “non datable” in the US. If anything Indian men who struggle, struggle because they are too nice and shy.

    I didn’t say it only applies to women. 

    What I am saying makes perfect sense but you need to be smart to understand it.

    I was a young woman once and I’ve had many friends so I know better than you what young women want. 
     

    A random news article is not a valid scientific paper. 
     

    Women are not jealous they are creeped out.

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    There’s 7 years between the age of 18 to 25 where the brain is still not developed despite being of legal age.

    There is a chance of being abused when you’re lower, but it’s much higher when you’re younger. Did you take statistics in school? Do you understand likelihood and probability? 

    I’ve been approached by Indian men more than any other men in my life. The “shy” ones hold very misogynistic incel values.

  19. Posted

    29 minutes ago, Raze said:

    In addition from my experience another reason why men go for younger women is because a lot of older women are bitter and actually have worse personalities and more entitlement due to all the attention they got when they were younger and insecurity from aging. Plenty of men would actually be fine with a woman their age or older if they weren’t constantly running into that.

    Would be more interested to hear of your ACTUAL experience.

    Also are you from India? Indian men are non-datable in US because they are probably the most misogynistic and entitled men on the planet. 

    Also, becoming bitter with age is a phenomena both genders may face if they are regressing in life. Men who think it only applies to women are usually bitter AF themselves.

  20. Posted · Edited by no_name

    27 minutes ago, Raze said:

    The idea that all men who want younger women are predators is pretty clearly cope coming from older women who can’t handle the reality that their sexual market value has declined. In other countries were even more extreme age gaps are normalized you don’t see as many of these complaints because there aren’t as many single older women. In the past the complaint was men who wanted younger women were “immature” and can’t handle a mature woman, but now it seems the stereotype is escalating from immature to predatory, but not really based in any logic either way.

    That is again garbage being spread in your incel misogynistic circles. Trust me that no woman is jealous of an old creep who keeps chasing young pussy all his life. What women feel is disgust and worry for the young woman, because they know these women are just being used and traumatized - they were these young women before.

    Age gaps is also a totally different thing, if you’re 50 and dating a 35 year old, it’s ok, you’re both mature adults. But if you’re 35 and date someone under 25 and who’s still on college, that’s just sick. 

    Watch the video before commenting.

  21. Posted · Edited by no_name

    35 minutes ago, Raze said:

    Plus male brains mature slower than female brains so an older man would actually relate more to a younger woman on average.

    Take note that this narrative is exactly the reason why young men struggle with women so much, because women are constantly told this bs and brainwashed to ignore men of their age. Show me valid scientific studies on this.

    A 0.5 second google search disproves this BS.

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    If you’re just going to spew nonsense and use bro-science don’t reply to my posts please.

  22. Posted

    17 minutes ago, Raze said:

    You can be taken advantage of at any age. The simple fact is on average men value youth and beauty so they go for younger women, while women value money, status, and personality so they go for older men.

    That’s BS. You can take advantage of unexperienced people, unexperienced people can be older of course, but young = 100% unexperienced. If you’ve had experience and are still being taken advantage of, you’re just an idiot.

    Yea that’s the BS the society is telling you. Young women want love, majority couldn’t care less about money and status at that age… if anything it’s the other way around LMAO. And people in their late 20s and 30s are just as beautiful, if not more.

  24. Posted · Edited by no_name


    In the video the girl talks about how she was 19 and dating a guy 15 years older than her. She was taking a bus to see him, but was running late. He called her asking where she was and when she said she was just getting on the bus, he replied “didn’t we talk about your lateness before?”

    Can you imagine a grown mature woman taking a bus in the middle of the night to go to some dudes house like a free hooker to then have him be an ungrateful lecturing douchebag to her? Neither can I.

    This reminded me a lot about a recent post here by a dude who is 30 and says he only likes young girls, because women his age, as he said, “sorry not sorry”, but were not attractive to him. This dude posted about how a girl doesn’t have a car and has to take a bus to go to HIS place, she “hinted” (didn’t even dare to ask directly) that she wanted this dude to pick her up since he has a car, and the dude was whining here how he didn’t want to do it. 

    Note that this dude goes out of his way to put down “older women” (aka women his age) in his post, he could have stated his preference without putting down women over 30, yet he writes passive aggressive things like “sorry not sorry”, “older women are desperate”, “older women have more testosterone”, etc. MASSIVE RED FLAGS of an abuser.

    Also, I am 30 myself and I cannot image dating a 20 year old guy, or have a 20 year old friend, I can’t even talk to 20 year olds here on this forum because they are saying nonsense and often are really arrogant/snappy about it too (aka, the donning Kruger effect). People under the age of 25 don’t even have their brains fully developed yet. 

    Obviously, many 30+ year olds can be just as stupid, and just because you’re older doesn’t mean you are wise. BUT the reverse is definitely not true, every young person will not have experience, and therefore, be an idiot. Especially if they’ve had trauma/difficult childhood - that stuff takes years to realize and years to heal. 

    I’ve then looked through some comments under the YouTube video and saw this and it blew my mind. I went to catholic school and had to wear uniform to school every day (grey pants and blue school top) and I would get cat called by older men all the time! It very rarely happens now that I am older. 

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    This video touched me especially bad because I’ve been in this kind of relationship myself when I was in my early 20s. I believed everything he said because in my head he was older and therefore “wiser” and must know better and I should just listen to him and everything he says and we’ll be happy (that’s also what he would tell me). This relationship took me years to recover from.  Heard this before too.. lol

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    Some of my friends had even worse experience with older men when they were younger, ending in really tragic ways, so I guess I shouldn’t complain. 

    The power balance in these relationships is extremely twisted. And the damage this kind of relationship can do to someone when they are just starting off dating is also incomprehensible. As you grow older you develop thicker skin so you can withtand relationship heartbreaks and you won’t let anyone abuse/gaslight you and have strength and knowledge to walk away from these toxic MFs right away.

    Is it just abusive misogynists who go for those innocent young women? Ones that just want the woman to shut the fuck up spread her legs and eat his dick without much complains/anything in return? Ones who don’t see women as equal partners but rather someone they can dominate, rule and train?