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Stop focusing on trying to be " high value", that is what makes you " Low value". Be who you are and focus on healing yourself and getting to a place where you can be who you are. You don't actually want girls, you want to fully submit to yourself and untill you do that, no one will submit to who you are because reality is a mirror. If you want to get good with girls, follow Leo's top pick up advice which is " Become more like a girl". Think about it law of attraction wise.. you are what you attract. So go become a girl Practically speaking you have to own the fuck out of your virginity. That doesn't mean that you should find opportunities to tell her. It just means it's a non issue for you and that if she asks ( which she won't untill you have had sex with her btw) you just tell her the truth and own it. Stop trying to be something to woman, just be yourself and go for whatever the fuck you want.

I have no idea If this helps bro; but I think that you have been afraid and tried to fight the darkness and injustices outside which in reality is a mirror that displays how you're trying to fight your own evil inside. I had and have the opposite problem where I was afraid of the light and kind of " liked" the suffering and darkness so much so I counterintuitively trusted that more than my own light. The darkness was my light. I think for you, you might have to go the other way around and love the evil, the darkness to death.

Be yourself is the ultimate daiting strategy. The only problem is that it's very hard to get there which is quite comical. You need to learn how to stand up to who you are and be there for you, before you can be there for someone else

I I am going thourgh something similar right now. I had to let go my absolute best friend becuase he was toxic and projected onto me what he was not. My friend helped to push me, and when I pressed the call button on my phone, I experienced my first awakening to my higher self and that all I ever wanted to be was myself. You don't owe anyone anything man! All you can do is be yourself. Some people will hate you for it and not understand why you are doing it and for some it will seem like betrayal.. but don't break down. You choose what you stand for, you choose your sacrifice. Either you sacrifice them, or you sacrifice yourself. Devot yourself to yourself.

Yeah but its also a representation of your bias and what you want. It's both at the same time. The goal should be to allow yourself to be homosexual if you want to, but that doesn't mean that you have to become or be homosexual. It's about acceptence and allowing it, which then also means being able to let it go if you want to.

Interesting perspective! Thanks for sharing.

Because it represents the infinite and that love have no bounderies. If you do the work long enough you will realize why homosexuellity is a " sin" and ultimately merge with it. And for the record, No it's not a sin. It's just that it >>points<< to one aspect of love that is the reason why everything divides and why everything has to change and that itself is the "sin". That is the life force energy, that is the suffering. Becuase why do you have to be something else if you are already perfect? Your disgust mirrors your disgust to fully accept yourself which per definition includes homosexuality. Becuase you are everything.

You need to sleep with her

You mirrored me perfectly brother.. again. Holy fuck

Hence your problem. You need to get some more pussy. One hooker experience is not enough.

I agree. How many sexual relationships have you had?

For sure and I agree with that but i´ts only true from that perspective. If you are a typical horny dude that is unable to get sex and a girlfriend it will make you miserable, and that´s not because it will fullfill you. It´s that you belive you need it to be fullfilled that is the problem but you won´t realize it untill you have it. Don´t kid yourself. Go for what you want shamlessly instead. If you want sex and see it as your highest desire, fucking pursue it bro.

Who get´s to define what´s important? If sex is important to you it´s important to you, if it´s not it´s not. We all want to get love in our way and I think it´s important to be humble about the fact that we all have different needs and hangups in our system. What is the most imprtant thing to a herion addict? Herion. Is it the answer to their healing? definitly not. Yet it´s still important to acknowledge that Herion is what´s most important for them, otherwise we per definiton can´t understand them and help them. The same goes for guys who are fixated with sex. Will it fullfill them? No. Do they have to figure out themselves? yes. Is sex fucking important? Yeah, and if not for you or me, it is for them. Lying about our needs, is not spiritual - its ignorance and even per definiton untruthfullness to yourself.

It really depends though. I ran heavy physical game on a girl at a club while her friends were watching. Maybe I got lucky. Culture aspects are also important, in my country ( Sweden) girls are less sexually repressed then USA för example.

This is my fav <3 a true masterpiece

Richard Dawking is hilarious ? his atheistic perspective is refreshing eventhough it's flat out wrong

No, it would just create problems in the future. Imagine 40 kids showing up at your door one day telling you you are their father. Fuck that! I think it's crual for the child aswell. Every kid deserves to know their father. Then on the other hand, I don't see anything wrong with it objectively. If that's what floats your boat then go for it.

The answer depends not on you or your age, it depends on your desrires. I started following Leo at 17/18 but in the beginning I mainly watched his other personal development stuff. Actualized.org is a goldmine, not only for spirituality but also for practical self help advice and wisdom. If you feel like it's too much though, I think you should follow that hunch and atleast postpone watching his deep videos about spirituality for now while at the same time watching his more practical videos. I had a period where I litterly said, fuck this scary shit but then my curiosity made me come back to it when I was more ready. Follow your intuition bro, let that be your own guide but also be aware of how your ego can trick you to never come back to this in the future. Keep spirituality as a possibility for when you want to pursue it, don't close the door entirely if you decide to close it for now.

Mahasamdhi lmao?

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Can you move to another country?

What is stopping you to have a physical relationship with a girl?

As the title. @Leo Gura

Yeah for sure. It's called building state.

Raising conciousness = you expanding your identity by deconstructing what you identify with