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Thanks for the insights man!

Thanks brother!☯️?❤ your insights are invalueble.

Thanks Leo! Your guidence and experience/ insights/ understanding is your ultimate form of love you can to us. Its very much appreciated

Never had any problems

Gold man! Thanks. Ever since I was a child I was obsessed with the idea of having sex. Now I realize that it was a projection and not what my soul was looking for. Sex is amazing but it won't fullfill you. It's like any other need. You need it and when you don't have it its the only thing your mind is seeking... but when you do have it, we take it for granted and look for the next thing to fullfill us. Now I want to built up a new way of viewing sex and see and experience sex for what it is, not for what my mind projects about having sex.

???? Exactly, that's exactly it and the whole issue. I wasn't turned on at all and there where no real passion. I wonder if I need to have an energetic bond with someone if I'm going to enjoy sex?

I meet a lady today that is animus possesed and I had a very hard time relating to her. She scared me and made me uneasy. Her energy affefted me so much. Why is that? Any ideas what my kinks in the wheel are? Am I hesitant to my masculinity or is it because I still haven't integrated my femininity? Thanks in advance, love

I say it again. Be careful. If you are not ready and take to much it can fuck you up. I had an amazing experience, but it still was a lot to stomach, and I only took half a dose, half a tab. Start of slow.

LSD healed my low self esteem. It can be very dangerous If you are not ready and don't know what you are doing though. Be careful. As a general rule of thumb I like the the quote. " Don't go looking for psychedelics, let the psychadelics find you "

No. Hedonism doesn't give happiness. You need to realize Love.

@Emrie Lol. Had the same happen to me. It was actually quite funny. She flaked on me but I know that If I had been making better moves ect the possibilty would have been there for me to sleep with her. She was attracted but logicialy said " I want a guy who drinks " and I was like, sure but you know it doesn't matter cuz you're attracted to me. Then later she went to the bathroom and I lost her. Moral of the story: Don't let her use the bathroom ( XDXD) + more importantly, learn how to close. It doesn't matter, attraction is all relative. If you push the right buttons she will get attracted - generlly speaking, atleast if she hooks.

In practical terms, should you lie that you are not a virgin and say that you have slept with lots of girls or should you say the truth that you are a virgin. I mean, will it fuck your chances? Maybe its best to say that its a secret. What do you say? Lol @Leo Gura

Lmao

Okey got it, but lets say she asks. What am I supposed to say then? @Leo Gura

@Michael Jackson https://isha.sadhguru.org/us/en/rudraksha-diksha Try getting a rudrakah. Sadhguru gives them away for free. I don't know if you can still register though. I have one they are great. Also helps with clearing your aura and with meditation and stuff like that.

Red flag ( also congrats on your infinte love realization) I'm happy for you

Yeah your interpretation is wrong. What girls are attracted to is not avoident attachment style, what they are attracted by goes beyond attachment theory. One thing that they are not attracted to however is anxious preocupied and that is becuase those guys appear needy to the girl. See it doesn't matter what you are, it only matters what you are to that girl in her eyes. Secure attatchment style is the best because then you don't need to fake it to appear not needy and secure - you just are that. On top of that secure attatchement style also is not afraid of intimacy.. which girls want aswell. If you are avoident you will encounter other problems later on. Sure, it might help because you become so independent that you become not needy but it will also be your downfall. If you're secure you can play the game however you want and still give her the emotional highs but conciously and without manipulating her to much. Lastly, when you're avoident you're fundamentally disconnected from other people - that's not an ideal place to live life from. If you attract girls by being avoident - you will attract your mirror trauma. The girls that you will attract will not be compatible to you.

@PurpleTree Psychedelics is the easiest way but otherwise deep contemplation, meditation and stuff in that mannor. Anima integration/ possesion is another topic to dive into. Taking LSD healed me and changed my life. Be really fucking careful tho and take in it in the right setting and at a low dose. It can also fuck you up haaard. I know what you mean by not liking the wording but it litterly is the case. Its possible to to get direct experience of the fact that what holds you back is your hatred and distrust for your own femine side ( for yourself) I'm not saying its the case for everyone.. I'm saying its the case if you feel like you're to feminine and repell girls over and over and over again and struggle witth putting the femenine on a pedestal. You don't want to submit to who you are and if you don't do that - no woman will submit to you. If you want me to explain more, shoot me a Pm. Would be glad to help.

It's a lot more than an idea, it is a truth. You can discover it yourself from direct experience.

This will sound super weird and will probably irritate but the way to solve this is to integrate more of your femininity. I struggled with the same thing before but then realized that I didn't resist my masculinity, I resited my femininity. The reason why I was " feminine" was because I had shadow feminine elements which acted out subconsciously. I didn't control it. Remember, what you push down becomes stronger. I realized that the reason why I wasn't masculine and cared what other people tbought of me was because I didn't trust in myself, which is a femenine quality. I needed to submit, to myself.. and because myself is God I needed to submit and trust in God/ the universe. I realized all this by taking LSD but you could probably go other ways. When you realize that you are good enough to be trusted - your masculinity will flower. Your problem is not your lack of masculinity, your lack of directon and conciousness.. its your lack of trust in that direction. It's your lack of trust in the feminine... and if you can't trust the feminine, the feminine can't trust you and you are seperated from the creation - aka Love. Your love for a feminine woman is a projection of your inner femenine side that wants to be integrated.

@Julian gabriel Yin and yang = The masculine and feminie that together makes love - aka a child. Notice how two forces creates one force which is the yin and yang symbol. That's why 3 is an " important " number. Also notice that christianity talks about 3 facets of God. The father, the Son and the holy spirt. Seems kinda sus huh? it's cause its the same thing - you just need to replace the holy spirit with " the divine feminine" Maybe that's why they did the same with the pyramids - to arrange everything in one direction to make Love with capital L.

Bro, I Love you for using fornicate My 2 cents is that Sadhgurus advice is relative to the hardcore spiritual seeker. He has said, that if you follow him; he will assume that you want to go all the way, but what if that's not where you are at atm? Sadhguru fulfills a purpose, so does Leo. In life we can do whatever the heck we want - its just that it has consequences. Some people need to go thorugh a highly sexual fase.. some do not. Is it better or worse to sleep around a lot? It depends on your goals and your desire. God's love is wanting the thing, that you want. Not what God want, because if god gets to decide what you want - than that is not Love.

@Forza21 I think it depends on the context. If you awaken, God gets to experience how it is to awaken to itself which in itself is a pretty cool experience. This puts more depth to the experience.. especially if you later forget that you are not God again, while still conceptually knowing the truth. ^^ that's the experience ^^ That said.. I agree with you. I awoke to God 9 days ago and all I wished for was to go back and just experience the game how it's supposed to be played. In fact, I think I activly conteibuted to me forgetting so quickly. I'm not ready to see more I don't think, I want this reality to be as real as possible, get a cool GF, kids and do LP stuff. I love being an ego, I love the struggle. The truth will always be there, when I am ready to experience it, but I wanna seek it first. I want to live life. Then maybe next life I'll be a monk or something like that. Enjoy the game, but I also think that an odd way of enjoying the game, is enjoying not enjoying the fact that you can't enjoy the game.. I mean, that's also a part of the game. (:

Boys boys boys, what are you all talking about. You are all imaginary - only conciousness exsist, which is me, God But for you, which is me - I am imaginary. How did this awakening change you?@Someone here