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YES. I don't know man... Personally, I don't think I could come in that position, my body isn't relaxed/grounded enough. Go ahead just try, lay on your back and do a child's pose (but without holding your feet or legs) it's not really comfortable, the mind and body are focused on the tension/instability of the legs (we can still enjoy this position though). Missionary or flat on stomach with legs closed is the best imo. Adding sweet light kisses on the back or neck can make us feel safe, taken care of, and fulfilled. It just gotta be a romantic mood you know and not always so fast. Slow down guys take your time. And again, y'all should not be doing all these amazing things unless there are feelings involved. I'd be pissed off if a guy fucks me this good, but isn't interested in anything more afterwards. Not necessarily an official relationship, but some sort of bond you know. If a guy makes "love" to me numerous times, naturally I think I'd develop some sort of attachment to him. But, if he just disappears from my life or only hangouts for sex then fuck off, thank you next. We will then see you as a weak/insecure man who needed his masculinity to be validated through being "good" at sex, it's a legit turn off. You either create something with me (for which I need to be super attracted to you or I'd think you're creepy and bold to "exploit" my body without knowing me -instant cringe mode) or you just fuck me. Don't give me the illusion that you are so into me and that we have a connection, if it's just sex for you. If it's just sex, then just make it about sex (can still be awesome sex). No girl wants hookup guys to make "love" to them, that's serious stuff; human biology makes it so.

The harder, the better!

@Value Ok then this makes things easier. You can make her come via her G spot if she is totally relaxed; like all of the muscles in her body sink into the bed. Often, when we (girls) are having sex our body automatically tenses up and that does not allow an orgasm to happen. Allow her to feel comfortable enough to just relax and be totally in the moment (as though she is surrendering). It also helps if you tell her you want her to orgasm, but don't pressure her. Just say you're going to take care of her and she can just relax and enjoy. Giving her compliments, caressing her (e.g. light strokes on her inner thighs, cute little peck kisses or even just putting her hair gently back in place) or saying stuff (whatever she is into) while she's on her way is very helpful too. The reason why you gotta let her know you want her to come is because most girls don't expect the guy to know how or to even try to do it, so we don't have the mindset to let it happen, we're just in a "i'm being fucked" mode. Also, don't stop until she comes, you'll know when she does. It takes time. If you are doing it right and she is loving it then keep doing that, don't all of a sudden change because then it's as though she has to restart the whole process to climax. Often, when I'm about to come for some reason at that moment the guy changes whatever he was doing which is so frustrating. As well, if she says don't stop what you're doing or she likes it, then she's sort of telling you that whatever you are doing can make her come. If you succeed, you could make her come numerous times the same night via her G spot. Another thing that helps is if you manage to get into a deeply connected scenario. Like both of your bodies are insync, you guys are staring at each other in the eyes with intensity, breathing heavy, holding each other etc... It can get so passionate: the best sex there is when you literally create love energy. However, be careful she might fall inlove with you! Don't treat her like a princess if you don't intend on loving her back. Another tip: To be penetrated slowly in and out, and deeply works wonders for me. It feels so good that it gets me into that synchronized mode.

@Gesundheit LMAO I'm dying! Note to self: read the post, and not just the title. Anyways... No most girls do not like assholes. Most girls do not like super nice guys either. Most girls like the in-between, so just be yourself. You'll only attract vulnerable and weak girls this way. Stop trying, just live your life day by day and let things happen to you. Don't obssess, you'll just end up in a self-fulfilling prophecy situation.

I'm a girl, so I'll give you my personal opinion. I do, but only if I have a minimum of feelings for the guy; in the sense that we are close and comfortable with each other. For hookups no way, that's never happened and same for all my girlfriends. It happens when some sort of relational connection is established between the two AND when the girl is into more than just regular boring sex. However, some women will never touch an asshole in their life just like some guys will never let theirs be touched.

@Value Do you have feelings for her and does she have feelings for you? Or is it just a hookup? I find this makes a difference in the experience.