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yes relationship is dependency restriction neediness you hitch your wagon to another and you each assert you need one another and have to receive certain things from them this is a losing proposition for someone of consciousness how about one explore relating souls assist the other to become the best version of their self but do away with expectations and requirements support one another in truth with no need on either side to restrict one another's freedom other necessary relationships are maintained as obligated

yes ultimately all bad energy will resonate and afflict but preferences are private essentially and so we don't condemn people for having them even though like i said they are dumb

all racial preferences are racist (and a sign of ignorance / low consciousness) only to the extent that they explicitly hurt someone in that video in that country no harm so no foul preferences are in fact dumb too just showing narrow mindedness but we all need them since we are spoilt children with too much choice and few ways to filter so we opt for dumb stereotypes

for me it is all to do with level of consciousness when i understand you inside and out then i understand myself i need to understand every manner of human being they are a missing piece of my consciousness that needs integrating so for me trans people are the new persecuted minority and i need to align with the truth they are revealing namely that sex and gender and not fixed biological constants all this work is part of my personal spiritual growth there is no wrong in life there is only lack of consciousness

yes i know ... two hours a day won't kill me is my logic and since i don't follow any news / current affairs, it is one of my few links to the real world

i do like to monitor it, am not triggered but it does sadden me all the hatred i witness and how powerless i am to help

trans people need and deserve equal rights imo we can say the trans rights struggle is the new gay rights struggle

getting more and more significant, more trans identifying people every year now and so it is becoming more polarizing and dangerous especially for the involved parties this topic is like life or death in certain social media circles i hope we can solve it somehow

many woman will say it is just more male oppression and now they don't even have the right to go to the restroom in peace it is a tricky question

it is one of the explosive issues of the day, at least here in the uk namely can we deny trans people the right to transition (and therefore use the restroom of their choice)

a majority of them or all of them and how do we find out and when did these women get given the right to decide who else is a woman

it is the only matter this thread is contemplating lol

she knows the trans person was born male and she believes it is impossible to change even though the person looks just like a woman

and what if the trans person looks just like a woman ... has the woman the right to prohibit him

same but it seems that many women don't want trans people in their restrooms and i can sympathize there

true except 50% increase in space and costs and less space more time required for non-trans people who will be footing the lion's share of the cost

so you are on the side of, keep trans people prohibited from their preferred restroom if i am not mistaken

how about transsexual then

no i believe transgender want to be able to change their sex from one to another ... gender is some continuum that is more fluid and subjective while sex is identifying as a man or a woman

it is a choice not a surgery yes means trans are allowed to change from the sex they were born with and so now they can use their restroom of choice

the way i defined sex is being born with either a penis or a vagina which as you pointed is true for 99.98% of people can a trans person change from one sex to another and therefore use their restroom of choice yes or no

it is opinion not fact therefore i seek the opinion of others

everyone has great opinions and experiences what we are asking is can trans people use their restroom of choice

so you are saying correct me if i am wrong that you can change the sex you are born with

so you are saying correct me if i'm wrong that you cannot change the sex you are born with