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real simple, find a person on the same porn frequency as you are they are out there all else is bringing imbalance and pain ... it is not fair to bring that to any serious relationship porn on the down low is exactly the same as cheating, your partner objects but you go ahead and do it anyway, get over yourself and leave the person to someone who is deserving

seriously what woman wants to be with a guy who just wants pussy? does the woman need to have any body parts above the waist or just below? this is abject commodification and you probably are not willing to tell the woman it is just her pussy you are after, and not just that but to hit it and quit it so this makes you a disingenuous disagreeable maladjusted person that no self respecting woman will want to go near put yourself in the woman shoes and see this clearly woman want sex just as much as men do but not when the latter brings to the table what you bring got to work on yourself so that you walk out of the house knowing you are a god among men and any woman would hit the jackpot to get the merest sniff of you this is all your world, it is all for you, start to live like it already

you have only so many units of energy, you give it to the porn actor or you give it to your partner, trying to do both sounds like sloppy seconds meaningful relationship means you give them the respect and decency they give to you ... it means reciprocity ... if they want something you try to meet their wants and if they don't - for example porn - then you abstain

i am talking of meaningful relationship not hookups or pickups

child in a man's body more like ... a conscious person has no interest in such base degeneracy and bringing such energy into a relationship is despicable ... fix yourself then go love someone

i argue that porn is stunted development due to unhealed pysche, you do it since you don't relate effectively to the opposite sex, if you could relate properly you'd be having all that sex with them, women don't want sex less than men, they want high quality high quantity sex with evolved menwho don't need the screen version ... unless perhaps to watch some high quality movies together from time to time ... some women will enjoy this ... so find someone who has the same taste for it as you do

your partner is allowed to choose a non porn dynamic besides porn is a life drainer, takes away your vital life force leaving your depleted and dysfunctional at dealing with real people

you are engaging other females if only virtually ... go heal your trauma and wounds and then get involved with someone on your level ... an evolved person doesn't desire that in their life, they despise it ... besides you don't need to do what the 99% are doing

watching porn in a relationship is giving a certain percent of your resources to an internet sex worker it is akin to polygamy - yes i enjoy my steak at home yet i will eat fast food outdoors whenever i please be honest about who you are and if they are annoyed at you draining your resources this way, be the man and pack your bags porn represents stunted development so find someone more on your level

life is desiring pleasure despising pain desire all pleasure imaginable - when it comes don't desire it stays - since pleasure is the birthright of humanity despise all pain imaginable - when it comes don't desire it goes - since pain is the transcendence of humanity this is being happy

silence speaks, it's free on his site too

math finds whatever works so we find something true in the physical world; math deduces what else must be true based on that; so we are unravelling our universe; our eyes and scientific instruments are too paltry to see the majesty of how the universe is but math sees clearly how it ticks

math is language to describe what is; its genius is it makes something complicated explicable in one page; its elegance and simplicity makes further discoveries obvious and straightforward it doesn't do any more than tell you what's there; it hasn't inherent truth but is a good tool for uncovering such

i'd trade with you in a heartbeat, worst mistake of my life coming back to the uk, us was the happiest quarter century of my life mired in inescapable narrow minded stupidity here give me life liberty and the pursuit of happiness any day politics means nothing to me, i just do me and live life to the full

good stuff ... sounds like you are ready for it and raring to go ... don't have huge expectations of breakthroughs and peaks rather look at is as putting in the heavy hours so existence can do its work on you ... what i am learning is, i can't do anything except trust be willing be present each day ... existence wants me to get out of its way by not having preconceived ideas about what's ahead and it will do the heavy lifting on my behalf ... everyone's path and needs and unfolding is wholly unique and personal ... whatever anyone tells you is a description not a prescription, so remember you be the light unto yourself hope your retreat is successful and a life defining experience, wishing you every boon and blessing

how's your shamatha practice going? this is what is taught in the book TMI and the book The Attention Revolution this is the prerequisite for vipassana namely you have to be able to sit still and focus ... you don't have to be stage 10 but the better you are the more insight is attained while you have time work on it else the retreat won't be a pleasant experience i liken it to getting the body ready to undergo some major surgery, your body will thank you later am also doing my first one starting the 27th

we can even practice being god when we sleep every night so next day we can do a better job at being it

so one day you realize you're god and then you suddenly realize wait i have a mind body i can use for its majesty's pleasure let the reign the game the love train of god commence

that's your good self you are explaining, he doesn't do that one bit

in short, love is to trigger the other's god consciousness awakening to as much or as little degree attainable all else is prolonging the blindness

am crying, thank you ... for some reason 3 songs sprang to mind as i read bless you for sharing this uplifting word with me

The Spirit Domain Is Jubilantly Ecstatic This Very Moment - And It's All Thanks To You You. Yes You. I want to let you know that on your account there is thunderous cheers and sincere applause, with each morning that you open your eyes and rise from bed. You keep right on living. You keep right on giving. You keep right on growing. The onslaught of harsh trials and the internal pains keep striking. You have been hit by blow after blow. Some of them have even knocked you down. It was reported you were were not long for this world. Somehow you got right back up. AND YOU KEEP GETTING BACK UP. Even when you are not feeling it. Even when the blood, sweat, tears consumes you. You are waging an epic war of wills with life. And sometimes life lands the cruellest blow. But today I’m here to tell you my sweet friend that you are absolutely crushing it. I know the odds look stacked against you. At times it seems the battle is hopelessly rigged. You look around at times and it seems the bystanders are just waiting for you to say - RIGHT I'M DONE. You feel deserted and abandoned. Afraid and anxious. The judge and the jury even seem to be mocking you. But you have continued to stand your ground. Each day you choose to get out of bed you take your stand. And you leap out there in this ring we call existence. And you fight like none before. Each day is making you better. Stronger. Wiser. You, my lovely friend, are the epitome of the divine warrior. While all the world around you is a stage and acting out their petty roles you have chosen to live the full YOU the pure YOU the authentic YOU. And you hold on steadfast. You sit with yourself daily. Reflecting and pondering the deep truths within. And for that the spirit domain is saying with one voice, we honor you. Thank you for finding yourself and being yourself and knowing yourself. Thank you for walking the path less traveled. Thank you for being the one in a trillion miracle that you are long awaited long heralded long anticipated. Thank you for making your one precious life count. Even when you are beaten and battered and bruised. Today as you go about your habitual tasks that seems mundane and inconsequential, know that you are being celebrated wildly right now. You, my beautiful friend, are SEEN. You are FELT. You are NEEDED. You are APPRECIATED. You are LOVED. Now carry on.

meditation is the journey of realizing you are not the limited being looking back at you in the mirror, you are all indomitable god/dess you don't do anything, the all does it all, you put in the time it puts in the work who among us can endure tiresome taxing thankless utter timewasting?

be you to full

to call someone lazy shows a deep rooted long buried culturally approved fear of being unproductive end of truth though, EVERYONE is lazy ... no person wants to lift one more finger than they have to it is human nature but don't feel bad you're not a bad person, k?