Jacob Morres

Actually I've read a thread recently about reddit about how girls use it to get off and then block you. A large part of it might be impersonal

honestly i feel that. im not model status but for the longest time i thought i was ugly. i'm maybe above average and needed a few girls tell me i was attractive before i really started to believe in my looks Lol

It's true. But if you're broke and want a good job or even be rich. U got no choice but to grind babyyy

@Tahuti ik but ur hypothesis was just rly pro white + tall. But I can think of many other examples in my life of non-white ppl getting w white girls

@Tahuti yeah dude but he's 5 4 and indian

@Tahuti ?? Check out Justin Marc on YouTube. Dude is 5 4 and indian. Yet he gets cute white girls. His wing is 5 9 and indian and also gets cute white girls Conventionally yes, tall and white makes it make 2-4x easier But that doesn't mean, you can't have good success without that

@Tahuti Ur right sorta its just that I think it's largely a limiting belief U can find tons of examples of people who don't fit conventional beauty standards attracting beautiful women Women don't only look at conventional physical beauty standards. Lots of other factors, and other things that draw women in Get that limiting belief out ASAP. I've had that limiting belief for a while so I get it. But it will only hurt and limit you. Write and take on some powerful and inspirational beliefs and challenging your current ones limiting beliefs starts at: 1:14:00 imagine what you want, tackle any limiting beliefs, overcome every obstacle, achieve it conceive believe achieve

pickup could even be done with sex not even being an interest @Leo Gura

Can't believe twitter got this fked I wonder what it's stock price would be if it was still public

Thing is leo says the reason the community has issues is due to the forum being public But I've been In and I'm in other communities that are not as toxic as this one can be. It's strongly a top down approach There needs to be more love and community and also higher and stronger Boundaries for toxic and cringe behavior. Leos way too lenient. Or in his words idiot compassion

Totally agree with leos perspective Take a shadow perspective For example, when we consider something like mysogny, and you consider that evil .. When you do shadow work you see that even you yourself are a mysogonist. When you integrate that in your own psyche, understand where it comes from, what it is, why it's there, you'll be more compassionate to others who support that belief -> and even help those people from a place of love That being said -> certian beliefs can do harm but you can set boundaries with bigotry while still seeing the human behind the belief When you attack a "bigot" often you're being a bigot yourself when you use demonizing language, calling them evil, bad people, racists etc. And forgetting the human behind the belief But you still need to set and strongly enforce rules. With respect Some of the biggest feminists I found were actually also the biggest mysognists. Projecting their own internal mysogny. I have cousins like this and I was shocked when I noticed some of their speech was hateful towards women

Agree I've no idea why she's allowed here? What are the standards

For sure But like it doesn't matter from one sense because you can solve the issue relatively quickly for most people

Like what lol How much of it is actually practical and usable in terms of self-dev?

@Tyler Robinson take ur own advice stop putting pussy on a pedstal

Your belief on pussy is one belief that creates a pedestal for women ironically

Same problems as everyone else, but with a different set of values Spiral dynamics doesn't measure happiness, fulfillment, effectiveness etc. Way better models for that stuff In some sense dare I say spiral dynamics is low key pointless. There's some decent (perhaps key) insights there you can apply but outside of a basic understanding tbh it feels more of a philosophical pursuit than a practical one Don't waste your time with SD too much outside of the basic understanding. there are probably way more higher leverage pursuits for the avg person

Bro finish the ones u started like 5 years ago man Ayoo I'm so insensitive lol

Great questions man got me on a good thinking exercise

I realized that most people are not very good at this. Rarely do I meet someone who can listen really well, empathize, provide unbiased advice, have patience, have good tools to provide etc. It's not easy to find tbh! I felt like I'm lacking in this area too and could really use some training tbh

Oh okay gotcha

finding passion for meditation and mindfulness can be helpful. they become opportunities to deepen your practice

Can sorta agree.. tho purpose can mean anything. To me purpose is just being happy

Good post. Maybe another way of saying this is to have self respect, and purpose so girls don't take advantage of u

Bro profanity is not a big deal imo Profanity can be said gently, in a fun manner, jokingly, non insultingly. It's the way you use profanity, not profanity itself. But u prob know that This sounds like a deceptive way of not actually changing But I take the strategy of >Not saying you have to change , but it seems you to prefer to want to