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  1. Posted

    17 hours ago, Aquarius said:

    Didn't read the books but I'm not monogamous. I ended my last relationship because I was honest with myself. Many will hate on my for leaving such a "great" guy (he was actually boring af), but I have thousands of options soo. :) 

    I don't blame you. Live it up. I love bachelor life. No attempt at shame or anything of the sort will alter my interests in young and hot. Boring AF isn't a good time. In his defence, the advice men get is cuckoldry at best. Women get shit advice too. And Oprah. 

     

    14 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    Just be aware that pickup people have an extremely skewed and self-biased perspective on dating/marriage/relationships. A very immature perspective.

    You can learn things from the pickup perspective, but it can also rot your mind if you're not careful.

    I agree with you in that, there's a growing amount of groups selling guys on nonsense. Still, a bit judgey no? 

    Immature? Maybe. I think cuckoldry is insanity but normalised. 

    I am with @Aquarius with respect to monogamy. I don't believe in unconditional love which is modern day cuckoldry.

    For instance, you date and someone makes a "mistake." The modern era narrative is to pretend it didn't happen and accept cuckoldry. I would rather bachelor life and run wild. 

    I still don't know what the point of the thread? 

  2. Posted

    5 hours ago, Kalki Avatar said:

    @Onemanwolfpac Its hard to describe because many people here really don't understand the deepness of survival and how the unconscious/animal mechanism works.

    Is hard to even believe these things at start. Survival and the unconscious mechanism works silently and it is always active. It is the cause of our World situation. Yes, we are conscious and have "choice" but not everyone and to what degree. Most people live like animals and thats why this is important. 

    Look, I have trained with what I call "Devil PUAS". And these guys live by these nature rules. Its mind blowing, you actually need to see them for your mind to believe it. What they do is, they install all the scientific nature perspectives on attraction & and Survival by believing them, thus building a paradigm on it. Now, their paradigm is aligned to the rules that the flesh and mind demands. The same thing with the subcommunications shown in the "High Status" book. So, is this the best way to go? Depends on what you want. But, even if you want enligthenment you need to become aware of it because for example, if some alpha (and my country has alot of them) comes to mess with you in what ever way, you will fall under his level if one is not well established in one's presence/awareness, since he will also trigger your unconscious mechanism without him knowing what he is doing. It also helps you trascend it better and faster, because now you are conscious of the truth of the mechanics of survival/reproduction. Not just some theory. 

    I played this game of being alpha through all these principales described and it works wonder. You can really get what you want easily. I can make girls desire me just by thinking aggressive thoughts and having strong eye contact. They can feel that vibration and that triggers their unconcious mechanism without them knowing what is happening. I made other guys respect me too and skipped much bullshit. You can manipulate social interactions, persuade, sell what ever you want, get laid the same day. Its crazy man. But, to do this successfully you need to delude yourself into this paradigm I created my self. So, I believed these guys, tested it and it came out to be the truth. Just as enligthenment, lol. Gosh, im such a lucky dude. 

    And, the hardest thing to understand is everytime I say the "unconcious mechanism". Like wtf do I mean by that, right? You can only intuitively understand it. Since its "unconscious" it means you are not conscious. But that does not mean is not working on its own. Is a lower animal awareness. To become conscious of the unconscious is something else. This is the same as when one is trying to understand enligthenment. Is hard, because it lies beyond the mind. Even one of my spiritual teachers has taught me on this lower animal awareness. Rare, ppl on this forum dont speak about it. 

    The majority who see this post won't understand and thats okay. I know what im telling you, Its not bullshit. You can test it by yourself. 

    I am particular on sources i get info from. Survival is big. The preference in women for height is just that. I think its worth noting the physical attributes that lend to survival. It isn't the full picture. Not in clown world. Its a inversion. 

    I posted about fasting and the effects on my sleep. Its superb. I suspect its insulin regulation. I always struggled with sleep ever since puberty. Girls always got pissed when I left after the no pants dance. Years later, I learned a lot about sleep. The two hemispheres of the brain shut off in your own bed better than a stranger. Its notable when in a hotel or jet lag. In a strange environment, one hemisphere switches off. The other remains on. THREAT DETECTION. Its a fail safe for security. When tribal and in foreign lands. This is evolutionary psychology. It is dated and much doesn't serve us. Still, women prefer a male who can protect even if not consciously but unconsciously. Much of attraction and seduction is random like genetics. The things deemed attractive lend to better survival probability. I know a fella who is a midget or darf. Whatever pc term is. I don't talk jargon. The guy hasn't dated in decades. Darwin is one cold bitch. 

    I am not sure the point of the thread. I have hung out with a bunch of playboys over the years. The behaviour is what gets a fella laid. The combo of good genetics too doesn't hurt. 

    I still don't understand the reason for the content and thread? I posted a vid on activist shooting civilian in a mock cop scenario and pointed out that he changed his mind. He acknowledged that the cop job was harder than he thought. It counters the victim card and sheeple "cops bad" narrative. What do you mean by the thread and what do you want to accomplish? None of my experience leads me to believe in monogamy nor exclusivity. Unconditional love is a con job by Hollywood and hallmark. Its a great sell. Still sells. 

  3. Posted

    5 hours ago, Moon said:

    IMO, key things such as open mindedness, and being into self development (consciously or not) are key things in a long term relationship partner

    If they are stage blue but open minded to other ideas and growth, it could perhaps work...

    But I personally think "opposite attracts" works more in the context of different personality types or a few different interests rather than something like huge differences in spiral dynamics stages

    I don't know much about the spirals. I know from a short term perspective, opposites attract (at the very least). The majority of girls i meet differ significantly from political, spiritual, and any other way you will look at it. It doesn't stop two people from having fun. If i discriminate on iq, politics or the color of something may or may not exist seems silly. Why let anything get in the way of a good time?

  4. Posted

    On 21/06/2020 at 5:07 PM, JessiChell said:

    @Onemanwolfpac I will reflect on it, thank you

    Were you aware of it before you said that? As in, you knew that about yourself before? I had several out of the ordinary requests from girls. At that time, I was less present and not on the same journey as I am now. In retrospect, I wouldn't partake in activity that stems from something that plays in with shame or embarrassment and humiliation. The requests are so out of the ordinary. 

    Fine line between a good time and damaging i suppose. 

  5. Posted

    7 hours ago, Zak said:

    It has been a week that I have been contemplating friendships/relationships. How can unwanted and low-quality friends slow our process in actualizing?

    Most of the friendships, whether they were offline or online that I ruined were the people that I made when I was not in my path to actualization. They were the people that were just consuming my time and energy every day. I am an introvert kinda guy who has a limited amount of energy for the external world and for the people, that's why I dumped. 

    What about you guys, do you guys think it is a good idea to give up on people, classmates or even some close friends?

    Create a new social media from scratch and detox. Unless someone is toxic, i don't much care. I saw guys and girls who have drama, i unfollow. On girl i met years ago in the club district became a escort. I removed her. Around a election cycle its annoying as all hell. Lots of orange man bad followed by race baiting or identity politics. Even more annoying after he won. I remove annoying people and toxic but I don't associate with them in the first place so not a issue. 

    I heed caution. You are shifting the responsibility and ownership on other people for your progress. My progress is solely on me. No excuses. Own it. 

  6. Posted

    On 21/06/2020 at 3:04 PM, SirVladimir said:

     

    On 21/06/2020 at 3:04 PM, SirVladimir said:

    I make use of volatility and probability and approach charts macro to micro. Stop losses are essential. Bollinger Bands are a great tool, but greatly misunderstood by the public. I could teach saavy traders, but I feel nothing for it. 

    If you had a working formula, you would get hired anywhere but you would be fired ASAP and then they steal your formula. Its dig eats dog world. Its super volatile like btc and crypto. From the data and info I read, nobody beats the S&P 500 on a long enough time line. There's no get rich quick scheme or everyone would do it. Good luck bro. I am always trying to diversify my portfolio. Dems keep raising tax and love trashing your hard earned work. If you lose, you lose. If you win big, they tax the shit out of you. 

  8. Posted

    2 hours ago, Opo said:

    A person told me that minorities are having negative impact on us economy. 

    I want to give an argument backed up by statistics but i tried looking on google and i cant find anything about it, maybe i dont know how to look. 

    Can anyone help? 

    Voting for free shit is not helping. There's a lot of hard working immigrants who came legally and are law abiding citizens. 

    The argument isn't black or white. It's relative to the individual not group. You can take good and bad people from everywhere. 

    You wouldn't let random people enter your home. You would screen out crazy or violent. The country should be no different. The problem is that, you have people in government who cannot afford RENT using children and immigrants as shields for votes. Its gross. I remember fake pics about gas being fired off at the boarder. The reality being, if you endangered children by bringing them, you would be arrested for child abuse. 

    These sorts of problems and topics are best avoided in a era where you can be fired having a wrong opinion. I have friends who are first generation Chinese, Italian, and others who are hard working. I have seen others who look for freebies and whatnot. You can see that in our own citizens here who want free shit and handouts. 

  9. Posted

    18 minutes ago, Consept said:

    Yeah but when cops do legitimately fuck up, their colleagues cover for them, i very much doubt that of the 1000 police killings every year since 2005 there are only 35 'bad apples' (cops convicted). If a pilot crashed because he was drunk and his co-pilot and traffic controllers covered for him that would be a bit insane, might happen though who knows

    I don't disagree but NOTE, the narrative is police bad not less crime in the community. I think everyone can do better. If i was a cop (i am. Not and i wouldn't be), i am going home to My family. I will do part to avoid a point of discharging my weapon BUT, again, if it comes down to me getting shot or shooting, there's no hesitation. I don't care if people burn down the city. It's irrelevant to the scenario and those people should be jailed.

    Stun gun used on cops and two cops assaulted before bud is shot dead. The narrative is victim card. When we have seen his criminal record. The narrative is ridiculous painting him as a Saint when he is a criminal. 

  10. Posted

    22 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    But the point is, piloting can be done by a computer. Policing cannot.

    That analogy fundamentally misunderstands the challenges of policing. It cannot be done algorithmically. And the pilot's life is not in danger by the passengers. The pilot wants to not fly into mountains precisely because it aligns with his survival. A cop being nice to criminals is dangerous to his survival.

    If drunk people broke into the cockpit on a regular basis, pilots would shoot them.

    I 100% agree. 

    The video i posted ITT and another shows activist on the victim card do a 180 after stepping out into the cops world in a scenario. 33.333333% success rate in an arrest + 67.7777% failure rate where he shoots a civilian or gets killed. Its very telling. 

    It doesn't mean retraining is not important. It means, sheep should apply, and show everyone how its done instead of the victim card SJW rhetoric. 

  11. Posted

    8 hours ago, Spiral said:

    Working out the same muscle every day is not the most effective approach to building strength. It’s better to have a more intense workout once every say three days. Be it the pc muscle or whatnot.

    I am a meat heat. On a 6day split combine with intermittent fasting. The results are aesthetic. The gym is closed so, i am doing more functional training. I have gymnastic rings and I do calisthenics. 

    Thread starter, like anything, its all about reps. I think every single thing is a process and about repetitions. A gf or fwb is a good start. 

  12. Posted

    8 hours ago, Lyubov said:

    Without highjacking another recent thread here with my question I started to reflect on myself and noticed the women I like and honestly really only want to invest time into are orange-green and above. I feel basically no connection to ones lower than this. I may find some physically attractive but it's really hard for me to see anything working with someone who is less developed than myself. Is it possible for instance for somebody who is a solid blue to marry someone who is solid green? To me that would be like a fundamentalist Muslim dating a hippie. Doesn't seem plausible and in such instances usually the person who is less developed seems to make quite a bit of advancement towards the higher stage when this happens. Can anyone think of any examples of relationships where two people were so far apart developmentally? 

    You are over analysing. 

    Go date. Get laid. Have fun. Let things go. 

    Contrary to the nonsense that Hollywood sells, these things are not forever, and its monetary scheme. Why does anybody of any color need to be the same? Same isn't polarising. Its depolarizing. Its anti seductive. Predictably isn't seduction nor is routine or Dr Phil plan sexy times. Like wut? 

    Your biggest problem is that you are trying to rationalise a process that isn't rational. You divide on a imaginary color. Culture? Religion? Race? How about Iq? Socioeconomic status? Does education count? How many pieces of paper they got from a government institution? The following is what the culture tells the girls when guys tend to date younger which spells disaster. 

    Quit over thinking it. Go take action. Experience > rationale. 

  13. Posted

    16 hours ago, Kalki Avatar said:

    As promised from the book section, here are some links to open you into how animalistic attraction really works. 

    Don't just believe what is being said. You can verify it through experiments. And when you start to actually become conscious of how the unconscious works in you and others, it will blow your mind. Its tricky at first, but you will identifity it and catch it on. 

    1. The Lie of Monogamy

    https://satoripua.com/index.php/2020/04/24/the-lie-of-monogamy/

    2. The Mating Code

    https://www.thematingcode.com/articles

     

    Don't buy into anything fully. I read the mating mind by Geoffrey Miller, the blank slate by Steven Pinker among other books. The insights from these are fascinating but they are mostly theory. 

    Attraction and seduction are topics that nobody will actually indulge with in the pc times we live in. Anything that once did is removed on YouTube or scrubbed from the net. The biggest disconnect is tv and Hollywood. 

    I am always looking to upgrade my software and understanding. The culture is telling when you look into the way of things. Knowing is only half the battle. You are bombarded by culture and societal norms. Whatever is happening in society no matter how stupid, people follow the herd. 

    What is your point about the books? There's a lot of people who sell nonsense online. They are predators. 

  14. Posted

    15 hours ago, aklacor727 said:

    Stage blue & green in a romantic relationship...I've been contemplating this lately and trying to weigh the pros of the qualities of this person and what they would bring to my life, with the cons of the differences of values..

    We are not in a relationship, actually were in a long term back and forth relationship in the past, and just recently reconnected and talking about giving things another shot. Looking back,  it makes alot of sense why we didn't work out, as alot of him was in (unhealthy) stage red, and I was in orange/green. Had no idea about spiral dynamics at the time but now that I do of course I am weighing this....

    He is VERY heavy into stage blue now and I am pretty heavily green. This is a HUGE progress for him, but of course there are still huge differences in values, and looking at things in the long term, as he and I continue to progress up the spiral  there will continue to be more. But looking back it was the unhealthy aspects of stage red that really was a deal breaker for me. No doubt he is past that and fully in stage blue (hopefully healthy, I need time to discover that).

    How much value do you put in to spiral dynamics, and choosing a partner that is on the same wavelength as you in regards to that...?

    There are other aspects to everything that I am weighing as well of course, but wanted to at least get the opinions of you all in here in regards to the spiral and what may be wise to consider in this situation, if I am looking for a long term lasting relationship... ?

     

     

    You heard the old saying, "opposites attract?" think about two batteries. The same negative negative doesn't work. The same thing for positive positive. Let things go. 

    Pursue. See what is out there. If you want anything, you must go for it. If anything is off putting about the spiritual community, its sloth in the form of "i'll manifest it." not, i will go talk to the cute girl over there. It will fall out of the sky and land on my LAP. No, go get it. Whatever it is. If you want a job, more money, you must pursue. Don't complicate it. 

    One of the biggest kicks in the junk I have noticed is getting what I want. It could be a date, a job, a career or something i desired only to find significant disappointment. The girl is not a good fit for me. Wants babies yesterday. Wants to have kids but doesn't want to be a mom. Wants to get married but doesn't want to be a wife. The awesome job is just a job. I'm forced to contemplate some more and enjoy the experience. Not chase outcomes. 

  15. Posted

    On 19/06/2020 at 7:40 PM, Lyubov said:

    Can we just agree that the job should actually require several years oftraining instead of putting someone who did a couple years if community college through bootcamp ?

    Agreed. I would love to see those hating on cops try to their life on the job. Jocko is correct in more training. I think anybody who says yo remove choke holds is just not very smart. I think bjj basics is a good thing. 

    The activist i linked was critical of cops till he shot some civilian and got shot on training scenario's. It happens so fast. 

    Yes, cops need to be trained better bit s lot of states and community need reform. Seriously. 

  16. Posted

    5 hours ago, crab12 said:

    I think you are misunderstanding conservatives. Conservatives want a traditional christian society. You are talking about the people that are running your government aka neo-conservatives. Conservatives don't have any political power in America.

    Agreed. There is a different pattern of voting with respect to net tax payer and property owner. As a property owner, you look around to people want free shit and voting accordingly. 

    The unfortunate fact is that there's a disproportionate crime rate in Liberal states. Not shocking. I don't care how people decide to live their life. I am grateful riots aren't breaking out near me. I am not thrilled its happening period but the discussion isn't 

    1. Better police training 2. Less crime in communities. The argument is police bad. Orange man bad. Say, a pandemic happens and you want stronger boarders, progressives want to play the racist card not, maybe people want to keep safe. It occurred in the thread. Activist reconsiders his opinion. Its not common among progressives nor on the thread. 

    Its herd mentality. 

     

  18. Posted

    1 hour ago, Preety_India said:

     

    I'm not close minded at all. I'm against police brutality but you're the one supporting it. I'm against any form of violence and it's perfectly in line with my Green values. 

    Why do you support violence. Self defense is something else.. Being a cop should not be about killing people, rather protecting people even the criminals. 

    Criminals need to be tried and punished in the court, and not given the death penalty on spot. 

     

    That not the argument. Thank you for the virtue signaling. 

    The activist did like you. Virtue signal. When in scenario shoots civilian or is shot dead. 33.333333 % arrest rate. I bet you would do far worse. 

    Everyone has a opinion. No action but run to the government for free shit and the removal of more freedoms. 

  19. Posted

    11 hours ago, JessiChell said:

    This was interesting to read, guys. 

    @IJB063 You're right, it comes from trauma usually. Religious trauma or other relationship traumas but it can also come from societal norms, which, the individual may perceive as failure. However, I thought this work was about self-acceptance as you are. Traumas/failures included. I thought it would be healing to accept this part of you. 

    I thought there was no "right and wrong?"

     

    Its a defense mechanism to like shame and sexualize it. Go back to where it started and avoid psychos that started the process. Enjoying shame isn't self acceptance. It means something negative you are internalise as positive. Even more alarming is to sexualize it. 

    Tell that to Epstein and friends. 

    There's definitely a wrong. 

  20. Posted

    3 hours ago, Consept said:

    By their nature conservatives main thing is to keep the status quo, so they are not for change unless it was to enhance their interests ie tax breaks for the rich, unregulated market 

    https://www.cnbc.com/2018/11/08/alexandria-ocasio-cortez-cant-afford-to-rent-an-apartment-in-dc.html

    We have someone who is that incompetent preaching for free shit. She has no place on office when not even capable of balancing her budget. Cannot afford to rent a apartment and makes a lot noise about children drinking from toilets. The height of stupidity. 

    Shocking. 

     

  21. Posted

    1 hour ago, Preety_India said:

     

    You wanna know more about Fox News and their panel of experts. 

    Wanted to share this. Really funny. 

     

     

    I can do this with cnn and progressive news network. 

    CNN announced trump had won after China did. 

    The difference being, a rev activist changed his mind. You went on a rant about your green spiral. Still, very close minded. 

    You are more than welcome to join the police force with other activists and show everyone how to do it. 

     

    But, you and i know that won't happen. Its what's so off putting by it all. Rather complain about the problem then actually do something about it and be the change. 

  22. Posted

    12 hours ago, Epikur said:

    This forum is progressiv. Having problems with "reality" is the nature of the beast but there is no much alternative. 

    Progressivism in my understanding is fighting for a better world. The problem with this is that you like a scientist have to experiment all the time. Like Edison you have to basically almost all the time fail to find something that works. 

    Conservatists don't have that problem but they don't create much change.  Change is sometimes very important. I guess otherwise you would not be on this forum. 
     

    The forum is progressive lol i never noticed. 

    There's a lot of sheeple. Close minded and parroting about a color spiral and how spiritual they are yet, blindly follow whatever the mainstream media preaches. Imagine, thinking for oneself? The amount of virtual signaling online or bae on tinder app needing to promote blm which had no clue what it is a few weeks ago. 

    Change is part of life. Conservatism is dated. Still, throwing out the baby with the bath water is insanity. Movies are abomination today with progressive identity politics shoved down your throat. I use to love movies. I cannot bother anymore because of how bad it is. The lack of story telling is lazy. 

    The difference with Edison is that he FAILED. He did something. 10,000 ways not to create the lightbulb. Activists run to govern for free shit, ig clout, and their victim card badge. MLK made change and lost his life in the process. 

    There's a level of smugness that is repulsive. It's similar in the vegan community. 

    I don't think anybody denied the Floyd death being wrong or even demand better police training. None of the activists are willing to take the job as a cop. Nobody here is willing to risk their life but everyone has a opinion. Activism lol. 

     

  23. Posted

    On 19/06/2020 at 1:42 PM, Deano said:

    I am interested in investing in real estate and wondering if anyone here has that interest as well?

    I own a home. Does it count? My cousin and I are going to buy property in the future. We're minimalists. Bachelors. No car payments. We can live off next to nothing. 

    Unfortunately, with pandemic, it's held going forward anytime soon. The fact, there is no mortgage fairy meaning, the interests of the banks come and you cannot evict tenants but are held accountable. Instead of several before fifty, a single rental property and a surplus of cash reserve is ideal. 

  24. Posted

    On 16/06/2020 at 8:29 AM, Shiva99 said:

    I've been rejected so much, that i think i've created a complex around finding a job. At this point it's very hard for me to apply for a job, or even go to a temporary agency because i've been rejected so much. Whenever i go to a job interview, it always seems to be just fine, they say i'm a good candidate, but yet they always pick someone else for the job, or never call me back. My motivation to get employed is almost none existent at this point, and it's ruining me. I'm sick of being unemployed, but no matter what i do i can't get out of this rut it seems. Whenever i have to call now, or go to an interview something totally blocks. I can't do it anymore for some reason.

    Lmfao. Really? 

    Try dating in the modern era lololol

    I always look at my experiences with sales as a college kid. I paid my way through on purely commission base and crushing it with sales. Top of the country club on the regular. Do you understand the amount of rejections? 

    How about dating? Flaking? Hooking up? Ghosting? People dropping off and suddenly returning with some excuse of being "busy" which is code for getting run over and chucked. Its a shit show but such is life. 

    You must develop a spine and back bone. You will eventually get a shitty job and you will hate it. You will want to look for another. Combined with pandemic, the economy tanking, and consumer spending at a all time low, employers aren't hiring. If you don't have a STEM degree and marketable in need skills, its not a good time. 

    Consider upgrading your skills. Learn to code. Learn how to market. Your new job is seeking employment. Tap into your network. Check LinkedIn. Be strategic about it not bombing resumes online. 

  25. Posted

    On 18/06/2020 at 2:21 PM, SirVladimir said:

    @Chakra Lion Dedicated the whole 2019 to developing a strategy for swing trading cryptocurrencies. Found one. I'd let go of most of the arguments you have given. They sound to me like backwards rationalizations of the fact that we traders are not helping the world in any way. But I get it. Trading is a perfect tool for the hermit lifestyle one of my halves deeply wishes for.

    Agreed. ThrowING spirit into trading is a fancy way of saying some win and some will lose. ?

    Hermit lifestyle is the best. Good on any of you who found a formula to trade. I know of none who have individually made a career of it. Short term success before a horrible down turn.