Lyubov

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  1. Pure clickbait... I was hoping for something on concious porn production
  2. Finished made it my desktop background
  3. I think girls and guys on a spectrum don't have much of a difference in their sex drives but I think in our culture highly sexual women are stigmatized while for men they are more accepting of it cause they have been told guys are like this.
  4. I always wondered if stage blue countries have an edge fighting the virus because the citizenry is used to authoritarian measures thus it is easer to enforce stay at home orders. Then again countries like South Korea and Japan did a decent job so my case study may be flawed. Seems orange countries are having the worst time handling it.
  5. yes it's normal and if it's the way you are love it. various levels of sensitivity in people. some desire sex more than others. befriend it. no need to fight the desire but embrace it and find ways to release it. masturbation is fine and fun. I love masturbation and while I used to feel kind of lonely doing it back when I hadn't had as much sex but now it doesn't bother me anymore. the repressing of it is what builds the tension and negatives feelings. find people you are interested in and feel safe having sex with. can also put it into art work, writing and a mental process of releasing it. Nothing is wrong with you.
  6. ugh don't even remind me ._. I would hope at least congress would check him on this but knowing how republicans fall into rank and file I think he could absolutely get away with it
  7. Making a new dream board I still have some more stuff to add to finish the composition. When that's done I'll add some text/logos for the different domains and some effects
  8. By accepting yourself fully. Inner child work is great for learning about self love if you feel lacking in love from your parents. I'm currently dealing with some family issues as well with my parents and it is indeed painful. You're not alone here.
  9. queue the curb your enthusiasm theme
  10. I was feeling this way today as well. Feel like they are unconscious and don't love me enough or how I wish they did. I even sometimes have that wish for them to one day say they are sorry but I think they are set in their ways for not wanting to say so and they have their reasons. I think that sort of love you and I both want we can achieve by practicing self love.
  11. Is it possible to trip regularly and not fall into a fear/insanity loop or spiral? I keep falling into these without every really releasing them much so I' backing off from anything big for a while until I feel I'm ready to release and go beyond.
  12. let's be real here though... knowing silicon valley and how their smart cameras have a biased at only recognizing white faces the police robot will probably just target minorities "by accident" like that other scene where that one robot shoots that guy in the business meeting.
  13. Without highjacking another recent thread here with my question I started to reflect on myself and noticed the women I like and honestly really only want to invest time into are orange-green and above. I feel basically no connection to ones lower than this. I may find some physically attractive but it's really hard for me to see anything working with someone who is less developed than myself. Is it possible for instance for somebody who is a solid blue to marry someone who is solid green? To me that would be like a fundamentalist Muslim dating a hippie. Doesn't seem plausible and in such instances usually the person who is less developed seems to make quite a bit of advancement towards the higher stage when this happens. Can anyone think of any examples of relationships where two people were so far apart developmentally?
  14. those two links are red pill garbage
  15. Absolutely nothing wrong with this. I love melting into the flow of the night, having a great time and meeting a woman at the club, making out, that wonderful build up of anticipation then having sex later that night/morning and then sleeping it off then next day. Some of the most pleasure I've ever had. I wouldn't build my life around it though... it's just fine doing this occasionally
  16. we should make this a forum meme I drew my dream board but still need to color it
  17. Cool thread I will look for some stuff later I am INFP
  18. I have never listened to Sam Harris but judging by some of the responses in this thread I'm gonna just delegate this one to yall and avoid him altogether
  19. What do you all think? I feel much better smoking an ecig than regular cigarettes
  20. ok from this perspective I think they did an ok job with some tough love. I've just seen these situations handled differently and they went better. I don't see a reason for the cop just coming up all aggressively and yelling him to get on the ground and freaking him out. I've been in some cities in Oregon where the cops have been trained to handle people like this and they are much more gentle approaching people wigging out. I also don't know the back story behind the video. If he attacked people and was acting aggressive before some tough love may have been needed to ensure safety of the cops but if he was just called in for blabbering loudly and acting odd I don't think they needed to rush him like that so quickly and aggressively. I realize it's complicated and messy however.
  21. just give it time. no need to trip again anytime soon or rush things. you are in a country that is pretty good with psychedelics so you can perhaps make new friends that are into them and find someone to work with or watch you. I can see how this might look like it was handled well from a place of fear and no frame of reference of what more developed policing looks like.
  22. meh, I don't think so. this is all just models anyway which can be defined however and people change quite a bit over their lives. everything is always changing.
  23. also I'm glad you aren't in the US. The cops here are downright cruel and lack training when it comes to handling situations like this.