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Hi everyone First thing first I would like to thank Leo for all the knowledge shared with us and teaching things in a very clear/unique way. My problem is next: I am weed addict 24 years old man who does not want to stop smoking, lives with his parents appartaments, dropped out of high school and doing part-time job to buy weed, that’s it for life. i am feeling my life slipping away, my young years going down the drain and not being able to escape from it. This is very intimate thing so I can’t really share it with anyone. My everyday life has been the same for years, trying to make a rent is hard enough for my parents (rent prices are super high ESPECIALLY IN CANADA) , for immigrant people from eastern europe is not easy to settle here. I spent my young years not being able to afford anything, but money is not my main issue, my main issue is my mentality. I am stuck in boring weed smoking lifestyle and can’t escape. My life is drifting away, my parents are getting old, I can’t even afford to live on my own, dropped out of uni because I had enough of their bs and afraid of what is going to happen, I know it will be nothing short of disaster. I want to have a family, but I never had a healthy relationship, very few ones and none of them long term or serious. I don’t know where to escape, I am extremely, extremely afraid of death for no reason. every day negativity takes over my mind, and can never escape from it because weed does it… if anyone could give me encouraging words or practical advice if possible I would appreciate it. my ideal lifestyle would be living separately with girlfriend, having enough job to take care of my partner and my family . I don’t have a partner my family takes care of me. sounds funny, until it’s not…

Thank you for your response. Anyones word would be inspiring but even MORE INSPIRING WHEN ITS YOUR ADVICE because I have been following your channel since 2014 and I genuinely have huge respect for everything you taught me with your work. I tried to sober up but my problem is I get extremely bored, don’t have friends to “kill time” or gf to talk to . I have been doing part time job and workout in gym but that is pretty much it, besides that weed addiction keeps beating me… but I will not give up and be even more motivated now , thanks 🙏,

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@Cudin I assume you didn't experience enlightenment, otherwise you would not ask this question.

Simple as that, don't ask Leo, don't ask me, don't ask anyone about God. When you are ready to wake up, you will wake up. There is nothing which can change your mind afterwards. Get your own trip and listen to it. For me mushrooms and LSD played a huge part. I don't know if you can wake up without substances but you will find your way...

What is your opinion about the video above? For some reason I keep watching this every day, can't help it. I'm somewhere between getting lost and and the same time I feel like I found myself. Help please, it is very important for me to hear your opinion...(As sarcastic as it might sound)

@Koyaanisqatsi That's the question ''I'' is trying to EXPERIENCE. It's hard to grasp something which can't be communicated through language, is not it?

First of all, there is not such thing as ''special one.'' There is not a person who was born for you, or for me or etc. There are no specials. Everyone is different. Pickup is a good way to learn the psychology of the opposite sex. It helps you become master of relationships, that's when you realize that there are no special people. The relationship goes well or not. If you don't like it, you just move on, never create an idea that there is someone in your life who was born for you. It's a huge trap. Go out for pickup and you'll see thousands of perfect options for you...

If you ask her out, yes. if she asks you out , you shouldn't even bother buying anything, just wait what she does...

Women are always like that,dont ever let her make decisions, even the small decisions like that. You should make decisions, Be dominant, lead her.

Hi everyone I'm 17 years old man who is trying to improve in all areas of my life, dating is one of them. Well, There was an occasion when I had a gf-bf relationship with a girl and she decided to leave. I really don't want to think why, you know its a girl... anyway ,You really don't need to need why she left. The thing I've found out later after the relationship was over, is that I'd got attachment to her. I didn't feel as good as before. I was upset. Leo often says in his videos that in most of the times girls are the ones who become attached in a relationship, but not always. Seems like I spent too much time with her and I got attached even thou I'm a man. What I've done is that I focused more on my agenda. (I was doing it even when I was with her.) I tried to work more on personal development. I started living more in present moment. It really worked, she left just 10 days ago but I'm feeling much better. I'm posting it here, which means I haven't completely solved this problem yet. I still have to avoid thoughts about her sometimes, but I'm dealing with it well so far. Now, what I'd like to hear from you is the way to get full detachment. Next time I'm in a relationship, I want to be 100% in but 100% out. It means I'm gonna enjoy that relationship, but I want to be able to leave that if something happens anytime I want. I know it's not easy, I know its gonna take time, please feel free to write down some tips. Here are few things I did, and would like to add new suggestions. 1) I started enjoying every second of my life, started living in a present moment, only present!. I try to hear each word when I someone is talking to my, I try to enjoy each trop of my teacup in the morning and etc... 2) I took new programme for my fitness and I spend more time in a gym. 3) I 'm trying to talk more clearly, I like my accent, but I want better. 4) I try to do my school assignments (still lazy sometimes, tbh ) 5) I read self-help books which are really fun. 6) I meditate more That's my list, please help me add more here.. thank you in advance

@abgespaced What about ''badboys?'' They simply don't care who comes in their lives and who leaves...I think it's possible to get ''100% in or out relationship.'' I want to be carefree in relationships.

Hi everyone. I'm 17 years man and I'm just trying to start my sexual life. I've watched all of Leo's videos about dating material, but still got some questions.What kind of person is asshole ? I watched the video ''why women fall for assholes'' but I don't see any difference between an asshole and a confident guy who gets may girls. I know that assholes are confident too, does it mean that if I want to start getting thousands of women I need to start acting like an asshole? If the answer is no, then where is the line between an asshole and a confident guy who gets many girls?

@Pallero I didn't get the idea of that video, does he mean to act like a woman is some moments of our lives? @STC What if I want to act just like an asshole for a while to get girls, should I just start acting like an asshole to become it? I know it's weird but I just wanna know this field.... I wanna know what it feels to be asshole and fuck a lot of girls.

@Bob84 well, still there must be a line between an asshole and just a confident guy... @Callum Milner what do u mean respecting in woman? confident guys fucks a lot of women too and breaks many hearts... what is the difference?

of course, we are men and most likely we will have thoughts to have sex with our friends if we find them beautiful, but it doesn't mean we can't control it. we can, and we also can have many beautiful friends...

Just leave, follow your intuitions, use your senses. see,hear,smell,taste,touch-Even dogs have these 5 senses, but guess what, you aren't a dog, you are a human, it means u have imagination and intuition. Your intuition tells you to leave, so follow it!

I don't think your shape has anything to do with your dating stuff.(unless you are in a very bad form, but you wrote that you aren't) Personally, asa 17 years old man, I love girls who are confident and logical , I know that women have more likely verbal brain, but still, if a woman's logic is at least understandable to my logic, then it really helps to get in relationship with her. once again, your shape has nothing to do with this topic, just forget it.

Good question, I've got the same situation, still looking for a way out. I often get emotionally attached to a girl who I'm trying to date..

Life has no meaning, we give meaning to our lives... So yeah, whatever you think is a meaning of your life, it really is...

hi everyone I want to ask you very important question. Some say that it's always bad when you share your success to everyone. They think that there are jealous people and this is dangerous. They say that it's always better no to tell anyone about your success (unless that person is a family member or a close friend.) They think that ''telling the world'' about your success is always bad and jealous people always affect on our minds. In my opinion, it doesn't decide anything if you share it to everyone or not, because I know I can take full control of my life. But still, what's your opinion about it?

Jesus is it a serious question? you're lucky u have a penis, so just use it, don't think if it matters for girls or not.... Trust me, That's not a topic to think/worry about...

Hi everyone Today I had a conversation with a girl who I like and she suggested me a friendship with benefits. Well, I really don't love her , I just like her and that's exactly what I think I want. I mean, I don't need her as a girlfriend as soon as I kiss and fuck her. But I amn't experienced enough in this content. Does it mean she will have sex with many other guys ? Is it like open relationship? Can someone explain what kind of relationship is it? I was talking to her and I told to her that she would be my girlfriend or we wouldn't talk anymore because I hate friendzone. That's when she told me to be friends with benefits...

@Tancrede Pouyat Let's check ''the greatest training ground for relationship'' and let's see what happens. I'm going for it...

I'll learn everything, I'm just starting this kind of relationships. Thanks for the advice thou...