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@SQAAD if you had a dream about you being poor and then you woke up… Would you feel bad about yourself because of a figment of your mind?

@Michael569 ChatGPT does a really bad job. Luckily I found a name on my own brain power.

If you are stuck, life is too short to not take risks. Death should haunt you.

I can beat up most men I can encounter so I guess it is not only physical strength they seek but also emotional and mental strength. The last things I mentioned I don’t have. I still have a soft underbelly and my traumas still have a toll on me from day to day. My niceness doesn’t come from weakness. I just have a soft heart. I can easily be 10x rude and be an ass but that is not in me. Perhaps I should try doing that. Because entitled, ruthless and competitive people get 10x the respect from my personal experience with experimenting niceness versus ruthless. I’m a boxer and people tell me I have a soft heart and don’t finish my opponent when I can. I guess I need to integrate that ruthlessness and killer instinct but I have trouble with doing it because I’m good natured but a lot of people treat me as crap for being like this. I noticed when I’m ruthless and show high competence people show me much more respect. People are so primitive but I won’t change this game. Only play the game better.

Everything is a solipsistic dream though. Never heard of David Chalmers. I will look into him. But I guess you are right. Now that I look at things that I’m good at that is exactly what I did. Using different teachings to create my own understanding.

LoL

Yea spirituality misses SD yellow structure. It is so confusing. Why is it hard for a spiritual teaching to make a scale from most easy awakening to most difficult awakening? Like first understand non duality, than understand solipsism and then understand alien consciousness. I do believe there are overarching principles in spirituality. These need to be defined and put together for students. Otherwise it is just a mishmash of ideas. It is no wonder that human spirituality is in such a dire state.

Leo is one

It has to do with your belief. People will treat you like you present yourself. If you believe young girls will do what they say, they will act like that. Girls are insecure by nature so they will treat you in the fashion you believe how things will work out for you. Having strong positive beliefs is important in all facets of life.

I thought your new course would be on alien consciousness ?

Elon Musk upper naked body should be illegal to post on the internet.

Are you sure they are girls? I don’t know man. Brother knows his niece.

I have overthinking problems when sober but last week during my psychedelic trip it became apparent. They say “hang up when you get the message” but I just couldn’t. My best remedy right now is special breathing exercises to lower HRV that calms the heart and mind but it seems this doesn’t fix the problem at the cause. How do you guys deal with the problem of overthinking?

Do two 6 rounds of Wim Hof breathing. Go to boxing 2-3 per week. Do 33 push ups, pull ups squats and you won’t have time for those funny thoughts.

We are aliens to aliens.

Fulfillment of desire doesn’t lead to happiness (in fact the absence of desire is happiness) so the solution for neediness is not fulfillment because that will lead to a hedonistic trap. The solution is recognizing you don’t need the external thing. Changing a need to a want. And feel gratitude for the now without being attached to a desired future outcome of having the object or state of your desire. In other words: loving the process (of the now) instead of the outcome in the future or having the desire the past would have been different. Imagination and desire is intimately connected so we have to be careful what we imagine by having a cap on that bitch. Overthinking and neediness are connected (I made a topic about that yesterday) That is what I understood from this topic and research on this topic.

I feel like it is an impossible cycle. If you don’t have it you want it and if you want it you don’t have it. So how to get out of it? Just noticing it and solving it internally is ideal but impossible. Neediness is bad not only in dating but also in business and other aspects of life. If people feel you are needy they won’t give you a good deal. In dating it is no different. Usually I hug a girl too fast after meeting her and I can just feel her cringe. Or if a hot girl offers her phone number I become all weird about it. Recently I got into a new business and the same thing happens when about to get a deal. I just my own doing. My neediness caused me so much suffering that I’m starting to hate it which causes the neediness to go into my shadow and even cause more havoc.

@Moksha I think it is healthy to rage if this happens. Freedom is not better than the opposite. If the well-being of others is important that is an enslavement but you are willingly giving your freedom away when you are having kids.

They were not smart because of it but despite of it.

@Moksha infinity is freedom but total freedom is not freedom. To be free we need to be defined.

I only meditate for 14 minutes per day but I really need to get into that shit and meditate. I’m not doing anything fancy. Just basic pranayama.

“Life is difficult or life sucks”

I don't get enough carbs so I eat rice twice a week. Some people say it is unhealthy but is it? I'm eating mostly veggies and different kinds of fresh cut meats. They go great with such diet.

I just got an epiphany. What we really desire is desire for the self, not the other person or thing. And because of ignorance we project our desire onto others and things. But this will never fulfill us on the soul level. Only on the body level. For example if you are addicted to a certain food and your body craves it all the time, there is probably some lack you have on the soul level and that is why you are using this coping mechanism to fill that hole in your soul. But it will never happen unless you find a way to feed the soul instead of the body.

Nicely put. It seems that my salvation is in spirituality. I feel stupid. Especially after today I hugged a girl too fast after day game and it was kind of uncalibrated and needy. Still got her phone number but I’m afraid I messed up while she was the girl I was looking for. Same fuck ups happened in my business because of neediness.