JessicaKatherine

@meta_male Appearance plays a big role if you’re looking for a partner. If you’re treating people like people it shouldn’t matter. He literally thought she assumed she was better because she does her makeup and I promise you there was more to that conversation because women don’t think that way. If I say “all handsome men are players” it plays into the same stigma because then I’ll approach them like they are and see nothing else. I wouldn’t be able to see that they worked harder than other men, I’d only see that I judge them for the end result. If he keeps making those incorrect assumptions he’s going to push away every woman he meets just like he did.

@bebotalk Women just don’t think that way. I couldn’t imagine thinking “I look prettier than that man” like there’s a competition. Men don’t look like women and I don’t measure men that way. I judge a man based on how I feel around him not on appearances so it doesn’t make any sense. You probably just had a bad conversation with someone you found conventionally attractive. That’s all.

@flowboy Also I enjoyed reading, thank you for posting!

@flowboy commenting on #1 the stress element. I’ve been tested for ADHD. In my opinion how you said “doesn’t know peace”. I know peace when I am accomplishing multiple things at once because there’s a measurable scale of things to do in an allotted time and it’s good for my self esteem. Stopping the flow is describable as there’s an important job to finish that you can quickly solve easily and someone tells you stop and watch your feet instead. You’re going to get nervous then. There’s too much energy and desire to accomplish the task at hand. Mentally I feel great when I am in my ADHD flow. It might appear I have to stay busy but it’s a nice way to stay present. I am calm in those times it’s soothing in that I’m suddenly not being overly stimulated by everything else. Busy=calm. Using up the surging energy that I am feeling. You might be picking up on emotional dis regulation which can overlap someone with ADHD who appears to be “doing too much.” ADHD is common in people with childhood trauma as mentioned so in the past I was projecting my demons while I was achieving things and I then felt overwhelmed and my tasks sometimes didn’t make sense. Working through some trauma has notably reduced my ADHD symptoms over the years so I do know in some cases it can be healed or lessened over time. I still have the same desire to stack tasks daily. Coffee is calming. I don’t take medication. I still zone out which is fine. Now it feels more like a superpower on my best days. Hope this helps

@bebotalk Don’t mentally compete with women we don’t view self importance the way men do. Compete with men if you’re using those kinds of mental measuring scales.

@Zedman Thank you for the video resource!

@Cocolove I’m doing it because *If someone tells me to worry about something I won’t be able to. *It feels and seems biologically obvious. *It feels wise to plan ahead *The current system we all live off of has shown over time to be unsustainable so it’s unquestionable to return to something more biologically harmonious. Also good luck with your community farming plans if any still! I hope your farm land has been thriving.

@ndm678 I agree on that it’s difficult to establish a good mix of readily willing and available people. At least not quickly. I ended up venturing more into homesteading following finding connections in a like minded group (FFHAMS) and surprisingly a lot of people in my community felt the same way about practicing more self substantial living. Thank you for the resources!

@Cocolove Thank you for the resources!

@Yimpa Thank you! 🙌🏼

Like anyone, my life, as well as my psychology, has been up and down. Now that I have grounded my relationships with others, created more foundational connections with friends and family, and have been working on myself, it’s proving to be extremely triggering. Although I’ve never come further in my emotional being, I feel it solidified sense of boundaries that come with a measurable level of pessimism.

I have a funny time back tracking and re reading some of the things I’ve posted here so I’m wondering where I am heading with this. Recently I feel like we’re being contacted, or I am specifically (and multiple people based on the type of engagement) by inter-dimensional friends? “Channeled” sensations and imagined contact even though I am not a psychic or channeler (I believe we all to a degree do these sorts of things biologically) and I’m not an alien chaser. I do microdose on shrooms regularly and had no abnormal experiences during those times. Is this something that is a fleeting symptom of people chasing self awareness or I’m wondering if there is anything to it. When I am not feeling the sensation of contact as strongly I really deny the feeling of having experienced it because the imagination is limitless.

@Leo Gura Good advice, thank you! Since I had posted last summer I ended up veering away from a group setting and learned more homesteading my friend and I. I learned I was looking for security in not feeling so dependent on a “system” I couldn’t control. I’m venturing into business and invested into my education for now and finding more balance in that direction this year.

So I’ve been recently moved to help create a forest farm. God (our higher self) connected me with a community of others who are going to begin a forest farm anti fragile community. We’re on phase one. We’re scheduling meetings and doing research now. I am curious if anyone else has been called to this direction and if so, can we begin to collaborate/share ideas? (I felt this would be a productive place to reach out to and see if anyone else feels called to this) Thanks!

@Zion there is such thing psychologically, when dealing with men and women. when you make the feminine energy feel uncomfortable and masculine, instead of protected and comfortable, that’s toxic masculinity. when you can get other men to compete with you outside of circumstances and women to fear you that’s toxic masculinity. As a woman I bring positive feminine energy when a man is confident and has him self together, I’ll surrender because men are smart and strong so if you don’t have your life together you can’t help me with mine. (As a woman perspective). When a woman has her life together financially physically and emotionally it is the same thing of a different flavor. She will show it in a softer and open way where as a man will show it as a forward and embracing motion towards life. So positive vs masculine energy manifests in different traits. Some are human behaviors some are male and female behaviors. So making categories after you researched the differences between masculine and feminine energy and you’ll get your answers. stop trying to make your girlfriends into your man friends and you’ll see the difference. Hope this helps.