integral

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  1. This answered the question, shes loosing all her sexual tension after the first orgasm and its not being built up again fast enough for the next orgasm. Looks like its not entirely the mans responsibility. 1) Learn to build up sexual tension again 2) Pelvic floor exercises, learning to use vaginal wall muscles 3) Low every in everyday life = not enough energy during sex 4) Proper breathing, relaxation, letting go of trauma 5) Edging control
  2. Another complimentary option to the ones already given is to embrace sex toys, penis sleeves/extenders and make them an extension of your body. Then when revealing with a new partner explain to them that you want to satisfy them in every way possible and your going to use sex toys to help with that if needed. These sex toys should be common, normal and expected but aren't because of poor sex education and culture. If your good with toys all confidence and relationship issues from unsatisfied partners that can emerge in the future disappear. Got to be 100% realistic about this, not everyone has the same needs/preferences and if it is a problem you need to be practical and solve it. You got to work with what you have and part of what you have is a technologically advanced society. Its probably not going to be a problem, but it might make sense cover all the basses for a complete strategy. Making for flexibility and options. A note if your going down this path experiment with the sex toys on yourself in private until your used to them and can cum with them on. (sleeve)
  3. Not equal but balanced/fair. The pay out to a single employ wont exceed more then 1-3x. Company earnings would be held in a company account not directly controlled by 1 individual. Blockchain systems can do all this, where each company has its own delegate governance system.. There is still a head figure, but what gives him that power is delegated power from the employes. There are alot of issues that can arise from this, just an idea of how we could go about doing all this and maybe something that can be implemented/experimented with today.
  4. Changing company hierarchy structures to community holocricy structures will have a significant impact. They are already emerging, where each individuals contribution to the company directly matches their compensation. Company hierarchy structures that we have today is socialized slavery. Where we all work for scraps to make the head of the company rich. This needs to change so the wealth is distributed fairly through out the companys humans. Hard jobs, unapealing jobs, hard workers, top contributors/innovators, resourcefulness, managers, visionaries are all compensated proportionally, There will be a strategist at the head keeping things on track. This is a intermediate step that can form as society transitions from orange to green, because these properly structured green companies can exist and compete in capitalist waters. Its not about moneyless, its about changing how money is earned which changes the meaning of money.
  5. Unhealthy food is only unhealthy if your under chronic stress, your life span is not being effected.
  6. The only way to understand this is to not think like a human. The aliens will likely have abilities that are hard to imagine. Like the ability to know how impactful their presents is or an action will be. So these sightings are always minimal, because they are following a path of least interference. Meaning we will never catch them.
  7. @Fandango I always get dates on these dating sites? lol
  8. lol this is going to be interesting, if we all sign up we will get matched with each other.
  9. If the goal is to pure heartedly use pick up as a training tool, then there is no need to sleep with any of the women right? ahah
  10. Life purpose is a way of being as much as it is a end goal. Are you going to trample over everyone around you to fulfill a life purpose or to self actualize/develop? How does that work lol.
  11. wow MeetMindful looks promising.
  12. The only real way to gain weight on healthy diets is to eat when your not hungry. Gluttony.
  13. @aurum lol finally someone who can google.
  14. The healthy fast food market is growing, we will get there... There are healthy restaurant options, just google it, there is no reason to eat at mcdonalds.
  15. @Ethan1 There is a chrome extension that blocks out youtube recommended page and send you strait to subscription page. This solves the issue in a way, as long as what is subscribed to is tame.
  16. Very interesting perspective, i can confirm a huge part of my recovery was switching off the stuck traumatic stress response in my mind.
  17. That means its never filtered out of your system so the body can never rest. Better to take it once every 4 days.
  18. @Forestluv Blind world is such a great analogy! This is so interesting, open book will make the intersubjective plane visible. What a powerful upgrade. We could then use it as a subjective mirror, to make the subjective plane visible, by pointing it at ourselves. Not sure what that would be like, to Open Book your self, to see your internal as plainly as the external. It would be like Subtle Object vision or structure vision. Thats an insane boost in vertical growth. Imagine being born with subtle or causal object vision? We havent even upgraded their processing power, we just gave them another sense with this one tool, making their inner world explicit. I always wondered why human brains arent larger? Is it because its disadvantages to survival? So the size is limited, to limit vision.
  19. @Valach Its possible to love many people at the same time. If she is friend material and the only thing stopping you from long term dating is that you want to self actualize with pick up then find another way to self actualize. A natural part of self acualizing is going to move away from pick anyways, So long term you want to move away from it, better off doing it now and find new training tools. Maybe you and her can do something social together, explore possibilities.
  20. You like her, date her exclusive long term. 2 years. Experience all of that. Connect deeper with her. Have you ever loved a partner?
  21. 1) Consider expanding what a relationship means. Open relationship? Swingers? Polyamorous? 2) Do you actually like her? Do you actually see her as a friend with out the sex glasses on? Remove the sex and affection, would you spend time with her? If she was male would you be spending any time with him and enjoy talking to him as friends?
  22. I know so much fun Right this was what i was imaging would happen in the current climate. But if children are born with no filter in this way, these issues wont have the same weight behind them or they will be seen as normal/accepted. With open book emotional needs are communicated with the issues, so it should lead to better understanding of things like cheating. Deeper understanding and empathy and less demonizing, a vital layer is communicated at all times, there full experience and perspective. Its possible someone having an affair and it being public is common place in this scenario. Its nothing to be ashamed of or hide. To survive in this setting means adapting to these life conditions. The game of secrecy disappears because there is no one to want a secret. Incentivesed integrity? Or if people are incapable of this capacity then it will probably lead to strong oppression. Every little issue being punished. Filtered book will always be unwise, because open book communicates the full perspective that triggers deeper understanding. Maybe just speculating ideas. Its like forced empathy. lol but ok... you might not want to experience someones full perspective if they are suffering and its killing your vibe...