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Not going to work well. Your fear is there to protect you from danger. For example, you are afraid of venomous snakes, afraid of speeding, afraid of height? Why would you want to box up your fear? It will get you killed.

I am not so interested on whether Napoleon Hill is a fraud but I did a check on his life. before. Napoleon Hill was born in 1883 (around 100 years before you) Year 1925 at age 42, he published his first famous book series The Law of Success. Year 1937 at age 54, he published his most famous book Think and Grow Rich. He continued to give speeches at age 60+ and 70+. Maybe 80+ age too. He passed away at age 87 in Year 1970.

Congrats Man. That's a good success rate!

That's true. That's just an exercise to gain back some self-love. The truth is you should unconditionally love yourself. You can check out Marci's book, Love for no reason.

Love yourself. Exercise: Go to the mirror and say 'I love and accept you exactly the way you are.'

Hi @StarStruck, I saw that you did a lot of gaming and you have definitely amassed a lot of numbers. I did some thinking and felt that maybe you need to ask some easy questions to get replies. Eg, Hi Cindy, did I spelt your name, right? First, the girls don't have to think so much and some will just reply. 2nd, it will be rude not to reply and then the conversation can flow from there. Thanks @Roy for your answers.

Go to wordpress/wix or other blog sites to start a blog first. After that, you can go to godaddy website to buy a domain name . A domain name can cost typically from $5 a year to over $100 a year.

Wow that's a lot of dates. What do you normally do on your date may I ask? Hard to come up with anything due to pandemic.

Just tell the people about your fear of dogs.

Udemy or Skillshare. Resources are everywhere!

Why don't you take the life purpose course by Leo? Then you can find out if engineering is truly your main purpose in life. In the meantime, you can also read books like The Power of your subconscious mind to know more about your inner wants and also search for more answers.

No matter what, stay strong!

Feeling blank can be good. It is an accomplishment to reach a state of no mind. There are many people stricken with pain and diseases or blindness or leg amputation or stuff and they are constantly thinking about their problems. If you are in a state of blank, it means you have little things to worry about just like some kids when they are growing up.

haha you are damn funny

How can you destroy the ego when you keep talking about the ego? Just let everything flows and love will come by itself?

Become a counsellor. Then you can counsel the bad guys in prison and make them good people again.

You have to be grounded and you must love yourself first. The best way to stay grounded is to turn to God and ask God for help, strength and direction (This is 'bad advice' in this forum because everyone is saying you are already God here). You have to be wary of elite PUAs. Puas who meet up with a lot of girls constantly. They have no problems showing their masculine sides and they will escalate the relationships very quickly. If a guy escalate the relationships within one to three dates. it is a red flag that the guy just want to take advantage. (Everything however has pros and cons so if you reject a guy, obviously this also means the relationship cannot continue well). I am also like that but in reverse. I am a guy so whenever I approach a girl, I will get all flustered and needy. So I try to be less needy and talk less. But then, some people say I am too quiet and need to talk more. So it's still a balancing act.

I used Google docs to jot down my points. You can also use a mind-mapping software. It will keep your points much more organised. But I never really used them also as I dislike the need to rely on one program or to keep paying.

She already stated that in the initial stage, the man must take the lead. After that, the lady can also start to initiate plans.

@lmfao not sure why you use 'glamorous'. But the Chinese did unite a vast piece of land with a huge population and managed to get everyone to use and write the same language thanks to the draconian rules used by former emperors. If you read Black heart, you will know that what the former emperors did practically save China from becoming a land with many split states. which is why in the movie 'Hero' (fiction), Jet Li sacrifices himself instead of killing the emperor because he knows that killing the emperor will lead to even more chaos in China. Or the emperor has to kill the hero to save the world. 'Our Land' should have been 'Our World' if it directly translated but as you see, China is not the whole world so they change it to Our Land.

You pull both your ears for 30 to 60 seconds.

If a fish is selfish, it is a selfish fish. If a shellfish is selfish, it is a selfish shellfish.

It's a better book than 48 laws of power and 33 strategies of war. But you have to research into the examples that the author referred in the book. If you do not understand Chinese history well, then it may not sink (absorb) in that well with you. The prince (book) is quite simple. It is when people expanded on the philosophies in the book that made the book incredible. Other books that you can read are Atlas Shrugged, The Fountain head by Ayn Rand and The Satanic Bible by Anton Lavey. This is called going down the rabbit hole.

lol Let me give you some advices. If you find that guys are just trying to take advantage of you/sleep with you, then you need to love yourself and simply decide that you will say no to sex until both of you reach a very deep stage in your relationship (because you love yourself). I think you have a lot of issues. You seem to be confident in certain areas of life (like self-help) yet having extremely low self-esteem in other areas. You like to test other guys but have you ever thought how guys test you? Most guys (with lower morals)'s Modus Operandi is this: Either a life partner or a sexual partner. If they can't see a good lifetime with you, they will settle for sex. Or goodbye.