DrewNows

It wasn't directed at you... There's a great quote or phrase i heard that regarding energy, that it cannot be taken from anyone, only given. You will never be complete or healed enough to brush something off, this is perfectly okay but it's only one aspect of you, don't we have more than just what we've been programmed with? This power is infinite and encompasses all the various aspects of our potential This is a blessing to be able to feel this pain. Pain can be overlooked and judged, but it deserves it's place in healing, i just don't see pointing the finger as an effective way to utilize such energy Please note, i think the journey can never be disrespected unless power is given away. Once i reached out to Nahm and asked why he doesn't think shadow work and delving into the past to be an effective way for integration, he said something along the lines of it can complicate the simplicity of being with 'what is' because of all the unquestioned assumptions (i don't actually recall what exactly he said) As for Moo-man (im a fucking genious ), i think it's important, literally, for everyone, to stop looking at others as being some kind of Jesus. Personally i follow the knowledge, and say fuck that to the ideas of who i imagine them to be, because i know they are me; judging others is judging myself, so i always keep this in mind, there's no settling in my experience of life

I met a woman similar to this last week, she was quite unstable, lost in her story, ended up being quite a shadow of mine I feel that it’s not just dating that’s ruthless, it’s life in general. The more we listen to how we feel the less tolerable and more decisive we become. The trick is not to become too attached to any storyline/belief system/external source. All the drama is guiding people back to the truth, a good laugh, a warm embrace, unity, reconnecting with themselves, expanding oneself

your transformations/insights are beautiful, melting profundity, thank you for being you My dad shared both calvin and hobbes and the harry potter series with me growing up , i feel inspired to do more reading and to do less flip-flopping in my behavior/attitude toward life, cheers!

@Martin123 it's sort of interesting, whenever i had my first awakening after/during my reading of the power of now some years ago, i actually just assumed all the fears and unconscious behavior could be dealt with by simply grounding myself in the present moment. Over time it became incredibly hard to do this and i found myself binge watching and rereading more eckhart tolle, taking ice baths and meditating, especially when/before doing things i'd usually be all 'up in my head' about. Eventually i found out the hard way that having a mere awakening didn't change anything related to my attachment issues with women, the deep seeded fears and beliefs that felt natural to express still found their place. After i'd learned about the attachment theory everything seemed to click, i was given answers and solutions to how "i and others" perceived various situations. This went so deep i remember crying tears of joy that "how sick i could be" was learned behavior for self protection and that digging deeper into these issues was the "how to" transform into a healthy secure individual. Forgiveness was possible it seemed but like any other tool, it only gave what i was willing to accept about the story i'd been told by my very own programming; so ultimately, finding clarity in purpose and vision is by far the path to true self transformation. Is attachment theory necessary for this? No, but it can definitely be helpful in exposing blind spots. Ironically enough it can also be just as much a distraction/hindrance to changing one's story/narrative because it puts limitations that are only really circumstantial on oneself and others I don't think Nahm was intentionally trying to exploit/attack your ass (or way), but i can see how you'd interpret his post as such based off your previous posts. Truth is subjective dawg, your interpretation of his advice is what conjugated the accusations. His advice is completely valid, step out of the story, rewrite the script. Only without the understandings in attachment, the rough patches could be more daunting/unbearable as i found to be the case

@Martin123 I’m just spinning my wheels if anything man sorry about that. I just feel that the need to know is exactly what keeps people trapped in separation and unable to feel free. If there’s a greater force than understanding, it makes more sense to work directly with it, so what I meant is simply self love/ compassion

If that is how you wish to see it. To me it’s the same ole patterns we work to transcend. There are no higher expectation than love. Yes we give power to the people not by holding them in contempt but by realizing our own true power, opening our arms and lending a hand.

@Martin123 Are you bringing the allegations up in relation to the value in understanding attachment styles or do they really concern you? Personally I learning attachment styles in the forum, partly from you, it helped me significantly in “coming to terms” with the past, gaining some understanding and finding self forgiveness/acceptance, so I’m definitely not knocking it haha. But I do realize there may be some ramifications to accepting the self referential knowledge as truth, like perpetuating the illusion, an undesirable story or victim mindset and even overlooking the value in attaining personal wisdom, indeed necessary for taking on the pain of the world

@Martin123 have you watched this one from the Moo man?

@Baotrader could you elaborate on your healing power?

Have you seen the Netflix series “the goop lab with Gwyneth Paltrow”? It’s good but specifically the third episode “The Pleasure is Ours”, dealing with woman’s pleasure, I think it may shed some light on this issue “a woman had to learn how to run the fuck”

Sure he is, I’ve enjoyed many of his podcasts

Another perspective: Unlock/integrate the divine feminine into oneself. Processing emotions, letting go of pain (shame, regrets, trauma) is part of the regenerative healing process. Sometimes changing diets helps with this as there’s less suppression happening, and ultimately it’s all connected, longevity is conducive to Love at the highest level possible

Juicing takes out the fiber, I don’t mean blending. Watched this the other day My prediction is the more fasting you do, the more of a morning person you may become anyways yw have fun!

Do it man. i don’t smoke but I hear it relieves stress I know it can be fun to play in boxes but thinking in them can get really burdensome sorry had to play the joker card, why so serious?!

@Anna1 you could do deep belly breathing, lymphatic dry skin brushing and meditation as a morning routine (meal replacement) although I know you said you don’t eat, still good to get the metabolism going I’ve also heard celery juice is quite powerful for getting the bowels moving in the morning and hydrating on a cellular level for easy unforced fasting. Personally I like to juice celery with grapefruit, sometimes garlic root and cucumber all together. This morning I added apple and beet root for the first time, interesting haha

@Dlavjr cool good luck. Hope you saw the editions

That would be one, and whenever I experienced the same as what you describe, it’d been after caffeine dependency. Something you might want to test, as caffeine triggered sweating for me. I simply observed my body on days when I didn’t consume but not only this, many other symptoms began occurring at the time, constipation, feeling more thirsty than usual, peeing more frequently. All this due to taxing the liver and adrenals, having weak kidney filtration, resulting in systemic acidosis

@Dlavjr do ya take any stimulants regularly?

how's that for a paradox... Take some psychedelics, but be prepared to get hit by that bus breathe and know it's just the mind

Cool does it cost anything?

practice self observation and reflection, notice when you're judging yourself and others. The key is to begin objectively seeing who you are showing up as, what your mindset and underlying fears and desires may be, as well as, notice triggers that cause a more constricted/self-serving pattern of interaction/communication socializing is definitely a skill so keep it up, i think it starts with self love

Consider your situation to be your current challenge, there’s nothing to do, be there fully, remain open for the next opportunity that presents itself, stay aligned and you will open doors you could never have imagined

@Leo Gura point of this thread? it seems like just an announcement....probably worth locking as you like to do. Be careful this could bring about a group of people who call themselves "the unbannables" but personally i'd like to put together a group and call them "the expandables"

@LfcCharlie4 I checked out Goji's channel, basically kept watching the other day until i no longer felt bias Plus there is a lot of good information he shares, but it became clear he doesn't understand how regenerative detox actually works (most dont), someone pointed that out in the comment section of a related video of his. Personally, ever sense i learned about breatharianism, it seemed like a total mindfuck to figure out how it could actually be possible, that is, until i learned about regenerative detoxification and the body's ability to adapt to change. Robert Morse is the best for this even though he tends to work mostly with the most extreme cases of sickness and "disease". He still breaks down how the body goes through the process on the right diet and explains the root cause/ how's and why's for all the diseases western medicine has invented. To truly understand health from the physical level is very powerful because there's no more living in fear, taking preventative measures by adding more and more supplements or prescriptions to your diet/lifestyle. It's all just basic physics and chemistry, correctly understanding how the great lymphatic (sewer) system works and learning what the various glands do, impact one another and our health.

Hmm sure and self inquire. I’d ask why, why do i meditate