Being charming does not mean you will charm 100% of people. It means 1/3 of people will hate you, 1/3 will REALLY love you.

If you got decent game, about 1/3 of girls should hate you, 1/3 should love you, and 1/3 should be indifferent to you.
Train yourself to only care about the right 1/3.

@Don Wei Bro, that's the entire point of learning game. It allows you to hold your poise and cool with the hottest women.
Attracting the hottest women requires being like ice. And they will shit-test you to test your iceyness and detachment. If you fail the shit-tests -- if she can break your poise -- she will immediately lose interest.
The bottom line is this: you will only be able to keep a girl who you can be icey with. If she can de-center you, you won't be able to keep her. If she is the prize and not you, you won't be able to keep her. You must be the prize.
You can increase your cool by lots of experience dealing with shit-tests and rejection. It's also important to raise your entitlement to have the hottest girl. You must feel like you're fully entitled to it. MASSIVE ENTITLEMENT. Like you are a king. This means slaying all your insecurities.
Hot girls are attracted to massive confidence and huge balls. You need to be the most confident guy in the room. Not through fakery. But actually.
The hottest girls are basically attracted to sociopaths, narcissists, bosses, and ruthless scumbags.

It's very important to distinguish between attraction vs relationship.
A relationship of course requires emotional availability. But that's NOT what women are attracted to.

I look forward to deep intimate relationships with females.

45 mins of shamanic breathing is very trippy and powerful, but it is nowhere near as powerful as a DMT breakthrough. Not even in the same ballpark.
A DMT breakthrough is beyond anything the human mind can imagine is possible. It is literally the impossible made possible.

@legendary I have a tip for you. Next time instead of looking outward at some object, look inward as your self. Recognize the God looking out your eyes at all objects.

I think college is mostly a waste of money and time. There are much better uses of time. College is good if you want to be an academic, scholar, doctor, laywer, or STEM field. Otherwise, it's not very useful.

Do nothing/concentration on nothing.
And DMT.

@innerchild Your issues are not spiritual but basic material. You just need to work on finding a job and moving out from your parents.
You're still like a bird in the nest. Leave the nest and fly.
Once you move out you will feel a lot of freedom and a sense of autonomy.
How you move out is up to you. I would look for a job that can pay you some money and gain you some of the experience you'll need in the future. Or a job that gives you free time to work on your own stuff. Some jobs are less demanding than others. You'll have to get creative and see what opportunities are around.
Once you have a job to pay basic bills you can work at night on developing new skills and upgrading your career.
Work 40 hrs at your job and then another 20 hours at night on your skills.

When I was in full God-mode one time, I looked at a candle on my countertop and said, "Okay, let's make this thing levitate." And I tried to do the whole Jedi force levitate thing on it. Then I instantly realized, "Wait! Why am I being such an idiot?" and I just picked it up with my hand and smiled as I realize that this is how God levitates a candle. And I just laughed at how obvious it was.
People are always looking for God in some miraculous event while overlooking the fact that EVERYTHING is a fucking miracle already.
The way God magically eliminates hunger is by grilling a burger and then eating it. THAT is the miracle!

Sitting with the suffering, feeling it mindfully, rather than trying to escape it, avoid it, hide it, distract from it, or numb it out.
And contemplating the root of your suffering.

I took the 16personalities one and long time ago I had a professional evaluation done. Both results came out the same. It's very accurate for me.
But you're not me.
Sometimes it takes a while for your personality to mature and for you to really start to understand yourself before this test becomes meaningful. Especially if you're young.
You can try other tests too. There's hundreds of them.
You can also try to do the process backwards. Rather than taking a test, just read descriptions of all 16 personality types until you find which one resonates with you the most. I find this more accurate than answering silly ambiguous questions.

@GroovyGuru You just need to burn through some karma.
You're young. Go enjoy life. Come back when you're exhausted chasing material rewards.
Spirituality requires high maturity and ripeness.

The more feminine she is, the more drama she creates.
Feminine is emotional and floaty. Which is why the highly feminine seeks the highly masculine to ground itself, and vice versa.
That's why the hottest girls are often the most batshit crazy and not worth the hassle to keep. But alluring like sirens.

ALL women are willing to sleep with a cool guy. This is not some special slutty subset of women.
There is not difference between what attracts a woman partying at a club with her friends vs a women sitting at home reading books and shopping for groceries once a week. The only difference is that the one sitting at home is harder to reach. And to get her during that narrow window at the grocery store requires serious practice in settings where women are plentiful.
It is not possible to get a long-term girlfriend without first attracting and sleeping with her.
I highly recommend long-term girlfriends. But before that happens, the man has to build himself up and fix his internal weaknesses and learn how to attract women in general.
No. The city is irrelevant and the kind of woman is also irrelevant.
I rarely meet psychologically or spiritually healthy humans.
Most women are nuts. But hey... you can't live without them, and you can't live with 'em. So here we are
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Keep in mind, this conversation is not for you. You are looking at it from a woman's self-biased perspective -- obviously. But a man has a different survival agenda than you. The man has no obligation to explain or justify his survival agenda to women, just as women have no obligation to do so to men. Most women have zero interest in understanding a man's survival agenda. So unless you're truly interested in that, its best to stay out of this discussion because it's really not about helping you, it's about helping guys.
If we were having a discussion about helping women find men, the tables would be turned.
The mistake is trying to impose your survival agenda on the opposite sex or expecting the opposite sex to surrender their survival agenda to suit you. Women are not going to surrender their survival agenda, and nor will men. It's called "game" for this reason. It's a sophisticated game of chess and both sides are playing to win.
If you act like you're not playing this game, that's precisely the game you're playing. Whether you know it or not, or admit it or not, the game is being played.

Don't act like women are not looking to score with the top 5% of guys.
It's just that since a woman's survival agenda is different, her standards for what "top 5% of guys" means is different. It's not about looks, it's about all the other factors relevant to a woman's survival.
Really, what the best form of pickup does is turn a guy into the top 1% of guys, making him highly desirable to women by default, without any tricks.
For example, after all the work I have done on myself, I know I'm in the top 1% of what women want. And a woman who sleeps with me will know it and fall completely in love. This didn't happen by accident. This happened through 20 years of constant labor. But you ladies care nothing about the labor that went into it. You just want the end result and never to wonder about how the sausage was made.
Pickup is NOT about tricking women into sex. Pickup is about becoming an exceptionally valuable man.
In a sense, pickup is about outshining all the other lazy wolves.
Here's a story:
 

My friend and I have come across a 'declassified' CIA document known as the 'Gateway process'.
It mentions things like hypnosis, meditation, consciousness, and absolute infinity, however it seems rather quantified / materialistic. 
Still, I am extremely confused as to why the Central Intelligence Agency would be researching such things. 
If anyone would be willing to give it a read, or if you know anything about this 'gateway process', feel free to reply!
https://www.cia.gov/library/readingroom/docs/CIA-RDP96-00788R001700210016-5.pdf
( By no means do I believe what is being said in the document, or expect anyone else to, I just want someone advanced to give me a quick analysis  ) 

@LovingYou That's cute, but you fundamentally misunderstand what psychedelics do. They are not about seeking pleasure.
There is no internal mechanism that you can open which will give you the consciousness possible on 5-MeO-DMT, for example. But you can only understand that by doing lots of it. Which of course you will refuse to do because you think you've got reality figured out.

Of course developing internal pathways is crucial to our work here.
Psychedelics by themselves will never be enough.

Well, game is very much misunderstood and demonized by mainstream culture. So of course this is what people think.
Learning to consciously attract women is considered taboo.
Well, that works too. Approaches are approaches. It does not matter where, when, or how many.
The mall can be a great place to approach.
My first success came from a mall approach. It was a thing of beauty. Hot 25 year old girl was walking and talking to her mother on the phone. I stopped her and told her to hang up on her mom. She did. We talked for 5 minutes. A few days later we got a coffee and she slept with me. Amazing girl.
It's not ironic at all.
Taking 100% responsibility is the foundation of our work here.
My criticism of libertarians is that they shirk collective responsibility.
You must be both individually responsible AND collectively responsible. That's what I teach. Just one or the other is not good enough.
Yes, in this work I expect you go above and beyond what any normal person is willing to do. That's the key to becoming an amazing human. You must be willing to do what others are too lazy to do.
I am giving advice for guys who are SERIOUS about becoming great. If you're happy with mediocrity, my advice isn't for you.

The money shot:
 

All identity is relative, subjective, and self-constructed.
Whatever you think you are, you're imagining that. Whether you think you're a human, a 30 year old male, or whatever.
The reason you feel some of these identities are more real and less constructed is because society happens to reinforce your imaginary identity.
So, for example, if you were born into a society/culture which believed that all humans are aliens, you would identify as an alien and you would feel that this is your true biological identity.
Your actual identity is Nothing. Which allows you to pretend to be whoever you want. But the added wrinkle is... since you are addicted to the approval and authority of your culture, you only tend to take seriously those identities which your culture says are valid and real. So when some college kid tells you that she's a unicorn, you think that's stupid. Because your culture tells you that people cannot be unicorns.
Who is right? No one. It's all relative.

To be fair, there is a progressive rabbit hole as well.
The only difference is, the progressive one is much less toxic and actually helps advance society to the next stage.
But progressive/Green ideology and group-think is still a thing. So be careful. If you watch too much progressive YT, you will develop blindspots.
It's important diversity your sources and not just get all your info from YT.

Libertarianism is good against a severe authoritarian state, perhaps like that in China.
But libertarians always act as though the government is oppressing them -- no matter what size government is -- so they cry wolf even about sensible regulations which are not really oppressive.
Stuff like Medicare For All and Green New Deal and Civil Rights is not oppressive or authoritarian. It benefits the vast majority of people. Yet libertarians will oppose it. So they become useful idiots for corporations and plutocrats who want as little regulation and public services as possible.