Most girls will not have sex with you without rapport.
Without rapport you will get lots of LMR.

Massive practice approaching with built up state, and listening to lots of in-field verbals. Study good in-field to have example of good verbals for you to emulate.

Going out and approaching consistently is like 80% of what pickup is. The rest is fine-tuning.
It can be a lot of fun if you're doing it with friends.
Solo tends to be really hard tough.

1) Then maybe raise your standards.
2) If you can find the girls outside the club, then why do you need the club? What is the problem?
3) Or you can just wait till you're inside the club to start approaching. Talking to girls on the street is often not logistically sound, which is why it's better to do it inside the club where the girls are actually standing around and not running off somewhere else.
4) When you approach you must take into account logistical soundness. It is pointless to approach a girl who is running off somewhere. You gotta approach in a way where you have a reasonable chance of hooking her and getting her to stop and talk to you. Don't just be a mindless approach machine. You must consider which logistical situations lead to success and which ones do not.
5) Although of course you can pick girls up off the street, so don't let that stop you. Usually the best thing is to wait till you're in the club to hit on girls, then once the night is dying down, you can hit on girls outside the club as they go home. It tends to be a waste of time hitting on girls outside the club as they walk into the club -- you are better off hitting on them in the club.

How about getting a car?
Day game in Paris should be amazing too.
You can often pull to the girl's place.
Paying for a motel or cheap hotel if you're pulling a girl is also doable and reasonable. See if you can find a cheap hotel in Paris that will let you book rooms late at night.
If you got a car, you can also fuck in your car. Get a car that has room to fuck.

Yes, a crucial distinction.
Awakening says nothing about how you will behave afterwards. And it will not automatically fix all your behavioral problems.

Actually the moral high ground is important in this case because now most of the civilized world and history itself will be against Russia for its barbarism.
Even if Putin wins Ukraine he will lose the long-term game of raising Russia's prestige and influence in the world -- which a great nation must have to be great. You cannot bully your way into greatness and love.
Putin's turning his back on the West is going to hold Russia back.

What you do in this situation is you talk to more girls.
A big part of dating/pickup is screening out girls who are not a good match for you. Just because she is hot doesn't mean it's a good match.
If a girl leaves you because you refuse her drink, that is not a girl you should be interested in sleeping with.
The lesson here for you is not about how to get such girls go stay. The lesson is to screen them out yourself.
YOU should be screening her, instead she screened you. This is your mistake. Learn to SCREEN girls.

Frame here would be: age doesn't even matter. Older girls want dick as much as if not more than younger ones.
A girl in her 40s still wants a man who will make her feel like a girl again. It's not about your age, it's about how girly you make her feel.

This is SOLID.
For more details see my video: How To Have Amazing Sex

Dude, if a girl is interested in fucking you she'd also be interested in dating you. It's a matter of logistics in many cases. Sometimes the girl is just in town for the weekend so dating is not viable.
If you can get models to sleep with you, you can certainly get them to date you. Not all of them of course. But it also works in reverse! Plenty of girls will date you who will not do a one night stand with you. If fact, most of your lays will come from dates, not ONSs.
A lot of girls have rules they set for themselves about not doing ONSs. So in a sense ONSs are harder than dating.
It's hard to pull consistently every week, it's much easier to set up 3 dates a week.

In this case make yourself into an amazing and exceptional guy who brings a lot of value to the table.
Have a life purpose, have a good career, have your finances in order, be well educated, be spiritual, know how to give her amazing sex, know how to build deep intimacy, be in good shape, have a nice wardrobe, have a cool social circle of friends, have a cool house/condo, have some cool hobbies like travel or photography, be well-groomed.
That above is basically every girl's dream bf/husband.
But really, if you just learn to give her deep emotional sex that will be enough for her to think you're amazing and get addicted to you. Deep emotional sex is the way into her heart. The rest is window-dressing.

The frame is:
My body is my temple, why would I pollute it with poison?
My other frame is:
Alcohol is for children. Adults do DMT.
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When I see someone drinking I look at them like at an ignorant child.

Of course girls will have sex with them if given the opportunity.
When you give a girl no other way to decide but based on looks, of course she will pick the best looking guy she can find.
But girls are not walking around hunting down the best looking guys to sleep with. That's not how girls get attracted in real life.

Mystical experiences of God's Love will certainly help with that.
Fundamentally you're angry because you didn't get the love you feel you deserved. Denial of love lead to hurt which lead to anger.

Drinks are fine, but you need to have drinks in a location where you can bounce around to multiple venues. My fave 1st date location is an outdoor shopping mall area, with cafes, bars, restaurants, shops, ice cream, park with trees and benches, scenery, etc.
Then you bounce around between those. Try to do more walking than sitting in a booth. Walking lets you escalate easier.
As far as conversation goes, you're just being too logical and boring. The core of game is learning emotional, nonlogical ways of talking to girls.
Also, if you are not sexually attracted to her you shouldn't be dating her. Follow your dick on this. Stop setting up dates with girls you wouldn't sleep with. This is a waste of your and her time.
Law Of State Transference: whatever you feel she will feel. If you don't feel excited neither will she. You need to be sexually excited by her. Then ride this excitement to bed.

Don't speak to her or text with her for a few weeks. Let her come to you. Let her initiate otherwise you come off needy/desperate.
You can also ask her to define what needing space means in her mind.
Also, if you're making out with girls you should be closing. Otherwise hold off the makeout. It can be awkward to make out and then not close, leaving an odd situation for later.
Make a distinction between a kiss vs a heavy makeout. Keep the heavy makeouts for when you feel the logistics are suitable to close. If not, deny her the makeout and tease her with short kisses. This is more classy, otherwise she may feel slutty.

What is she gonna ask?
"Are you a virgin?"
or, "How many girls have you slept with?"
Girls don't ask such questions. And if a girl ever asks you how many girls you've slept with, you say something like, "669".
YOU are the man, YOU control the frame.

Frame control is like 50% of verbal game.

Just gotta find a girl who is not so insecure and who understands that porn is to be expected for guys.
Also set the frame early that you watch porn and that this is just business as usual for you. It shouldn't come as a surprise to her.
You shouldn't be brutally explicit with women. You gotta learn how to set certain frames though in implicit ways, so she isn't surprised.
Then again, you should tell her that you jerk off to her too sometimes. This is pretty natural for me. Usually this makes them feel flattered.
One way to set the frame here is to ask her early on what kind of porn she likes, and then naturally she will ask you what kind you like. From this convo it should be implicitly clear to her that you watch porn.

That's the devil of pickup.
There is a tradeoff between growing with relationships vs growing your game.
If you seriously want to build your game you have to say no to relationships for at least a few years. But then again, if you find an awesome girl, it may be worth it to do a relationship.
I am not telling you what to do. The choice is yours. But the combo of a really well-matched and pretty girl is rare, so don't throw that away when you stumble upon it.

Of course normal dating will yield more relationships. But also normal dating is very low volume. You get a date once in a blue moon.
If you want to do normie dating, go ahead. But you will be in such scarcity, so needy, and the quality of girls you get will be meh, and when your girl breaks up with you, you will want to kill yourself because you know you will not get a new one for years.
It also depends on how social you are. If you're highly social without doing pickup, then you will naturally have decent dating opportunities. But most guys are not that social so they are screwed.
You have to decide how much abundance you want in your life. Most guys sleep with less than 10 girls in their entire life and the quality is meh. You also have to decide how high of quality of girl you want. If your standards are very low then you can be much more lazy about this whole thing.
It's also a question of how good do you want to be with girls? How much do you want to grow yourself as a man? Normal dating doesn't really grow you because it's too infrequent and random.
Your neediness for a girl's love will turn off most girls and make them run away from you towards a guy who doesn't give a shit. So even those few girls you manage to date once in a blue moon, they will likely lose attraction for you and break your heart because you're going to be the biggest classic "nice guy".

Sure, of course feeling unloved is a way deeper issue than sex. And sex alone may not even solve it.
Yes, there are some guys who have been abused by parents or grew up not receiving sufficient love. These guys need a lot of inner work beyond getting laid.
But also, I think most guys just need to learn how to get laid and get a loving girlfriend. This will auto-correct many problems. If problems still remain after that then they can do some deeper inner work on that. But the deeper inner work is not gonna help a guy who hasn't gotten laid in years. There is an order of operations here, and I don't like it when I hear people telling guys who haven't gotten laid in years to "stop thinking about sex and focus on finding love". That's BS. The sex must be handled first. Guys require sex. This is like food. Get yourself fed, then see what problems remain. Sex is the gateway to love in this case. Once you start getting laid you will feel like a brand new man.

Ahahahahahaha....
If you were clever you could have used this moment to deflect and also entrench your frame with a response like: "I was thinking about your mom." And then move on to another conversation topic. You don't have to engage girls in conversation topics which don't lead anywhere good. If she asks you who you fantasize about when you jerk off, you don't have to tell her. Which is not to say you lie to her. You just say, "Don't fill your mind with such things." and then change topics. Don't let girls lead conversations in lose-lose directions.
You should already know if your girl is too insecure to handle such a conversation.
For example, if my girl asks me to take her to the strip club and I sense that she's not secure enough to handle it, I will say NO. Because nothing good will come from that. A girl only gets to go to a strip club with me if she demonstrates that she can handle it. Many girls can't. Some girls can't even handle going to a nightclub with me. I once took an old ex gf to a Vegas nightclub and she ran out of there after 15 minutes crying. Because she was too insecure to handle the competition. I learned my lesson: I should have known she was too insecure to handle it and just refused to take her. BTW, it was her idea to go to the nightclub. I should have said NO. Because I knew she had insecurity issues.
A Vegas nightclub will make a lot of average girls feel insecure and unworthy.
Your girl is just too entitled and insecure.
You tell her you were jerking off to some pornstar as if you don't even think twice about it.
Your girl just sounds inexperienced with guys. She doesn't understand how guys work. Of course you jerk off to other girls. Of course. You and 4 billion other guys.
If she protests about this, you tell her that you would rather be inside her, but if she's unavailable you are willing to settle for porn. You're doing her a favor here by not bothering her with your horniness. She also needs to understand that you have a high sex drive and you're going to use it, either on her or elsewhere.
But again, this is about proper framing. She should sense from the moment she meets you that you're a sexual tyrannosaur. There should be no doubt in her mind that you have a high sex drive and that you own it and use it. Then it's her job to satisfy you if she wants to keep you. Again, this is not said explicitly, this is sub-communicated by setting the player frame vs the boyfriend frame. Of course you can still be her boyfriend and be committed to her, but she has to know that she is taming a player here, not some dickless chump, and that you are doing her a huge favor by going exclusive with her and that she should respect that rather than getting all spoiled and whiny with you about something as trivial as porn.
Setting frames in critical for your relationships to go well. Your girl must have proper expectations about you. Once these frames are set early on, they are very difficult to reset. So learn to set them correctly right off the bat.

Give it some time and you feel forget about.
Awakening strips life of all meaning. Because all meaning is a fabrication and a function of survival.
Yes, life feels empty without meaning because it is empty.