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Wow, I have experimented with Ho'oponopono for some time now, and I must say it is truly, truly, truly powerful! I have started a 30 day experiment, where I am doing 20-30 minutes of Ho'oponopono every day, and after just a few days of doing it, I can already see the massive change in my reality! I am also trying to manifest a camera, with this method, just to try out manifestation in a conscious way I have heard that it can release resistance, which is often the problem with LoA etc. My experiment is here for the curious ones. Have any of you tried out Ho'oponopono, and gained any benefits from it? I have noticed that my conversations with other people are more loving and more present!

There are so many stories online, with people getting into the psych ward and experiencing super trippy stuff, when they've opened their 3rd eye or have had a kundalini awakening etc. It seems like these people who opens these things, are most of the time not really able to handle what comes with it. So this made me curious, because I believe it's a part of the path to experience this crazy, sometimes paranormal stuff. If someone can help me answer these questions, I'd be super grateful! Is it possible to awaken 3rd eye or kundalini and stay sane, in our society today? What kind of work / "groundwork" does one have to do, in order to not freak out totally? An open 3rd eye and or a kundalini awakening, is not the same as a "real" enlightenment, but is it enhancing the path to real enlightenment or is it completely unnecessary? What are the benefits of opening the 3rd eye and kundalini? If the 3rd eye opens or the kundalini awakens, and you aren't able to handle it, what is the best thing to do? Thanks!

Hi all, I am currently struggling with creating new habits, as my schedule is very fluid and not structured at all. Do you know any good books, videos, courses or other resources to learn about creating strong habits, so you don't fall off track? Or any other tips, tricks or good advice, please feel free to share! Wish you all a wonderful day.

I have always been different, my entire life. I've been called weird a few times, but mostly, I just try to go under the radar, so I can fit in and be "normal" and accepted. As I was contemplating today, I found out, that my entire identity and ego is revolving around being better than others. And I figured out that I wanted to be better than all my friends, old friends, and all the people from my elementary school class incl. their parents. I want so bad to be better than them, in terms of personal development, to be more evolved than them, so that I can "prove them wrong" in a way, and show them, that there was never anything wrong with my "weirdness", I've just been a creative and clever kid. I believe I am doing a lot of personal development (mostly just buying books, reading them and posting them on Goodreads, but also meditating a little etc.) just for the sake of proving people wrong, so I can become better than them, and they can look up to me and envy me and all the work I've done. That's my egos fantasy. Now, luckily I know that this is a dangerous path to go on, and I have never ever in the last couple of months, felt so sad, so hopeless and lost, probably because I am not living for me, I am living to get acceptance from others, so they can see how good I am. The problem is, I am also intrinsically motivated to do personal development, but not enough, I really want to live a better life, be a lot more conscious, have much more self-acceptance, self-love etc. But I don't know how to flip this current extrinsic motivation to something intrinsically, so it comes from a deep desire within, instead of a desire to be better than others. Do you guys have any idea, on how to reframe my ego/identity so it's not about becoming better than others, and also, to reframe my motivation, so it's coming from the inside, rather than outside?

He always tries to hit the subject from many different angles so a wider audience can understand it.

So true mate, I feel like a lot of people are just skipping over Leo's content without appreciating it.

Awesome thanks blowfish!

Amazing, thanks :)!! Have you used this one or did you just find it randomly?

Hey all, Do you know any good blogs, youtubers, etc. who has some good content or primarily focuses on helping one with escaping the lifestyle of being a people pleaser / mr. nice guy? Thanks!

The book Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover, is also very popular! Awesome thanks bro!

Thanks mate!

Can you elaborate :)?

Hi everyone, So I don't remember what video Leo mentions this in, but he says that the biggest purpose for every human should be to pursue enlightenment. This struck me hard, as I don't feel ready to pursue enlightenment or spiritual awakenings, yet. Maybe later in life, but not now. Also he mentioned that the entire human race, is just god doing a colonoscopy on itself, which scared the fuck out of me. I feel like all my ambitions, my dreams, my hopes, my satisfaction and my inner fire, is pretty much closed down, after I've heard these statements from Leo. I see Leo as a very wise guy, with godlike passion, thoughts and I believe most of what he says is true, but I think i've been a kind of "blind-follower" of his YouTube channel, and I might not be ready for this high intelligence wisdom yet... But I just seem to be unable to handle all this right now. I don't really know what to do. How can I feel good and enjoy life again, when I got this knowledge from Leo? Is there a way to turn my perspective around? I feel like these statements he mentions, is closing down my horisont, I feel like there isn't much to life yet. I am afraid that if I even pursued enlightenment, my life would just get worse, because I wouldn't be able to handle to be a sort of an "outcast". I hope you understand me. I would really appreciate some guidance on this issue. Thanks! :-)

Leo never responded to these replies

I believe this is true, but do you know any books that mentions this? This is a major isssue for me.

That man is so off.

That books has a lot of mixed reviews can you give me a recap? But i'm not sure if I want to let go of my ego, I feel waay too vulnerable for this atm. I'm not sure what is right for me right now. I don't want to lose my girlfriend, nor my family and my illusion about the world, but maybe I do want to give it up.. I don't know. I used to be super curious and deep into enlightenment, reading books, watching Leo's video all the time etc. Until I met my girlfriend, and now I for the first time, feel like I have something to lose. I know Actualized.org isn't a cult, but Leo's statements are so god damn convincing, that I can't stop believing everything he says. Also, I am way too naive. Is it possible to reach a state of consciousness, where you're mostly happy/satisfied/fulfilled, but not totally WOKE? I feel like all these other-world dimensions etc. are scarying me away. I should also mention, that I'm currently recovering from a traumatic experience that happened new years eve 2019/2020, which made me realize that my self-worth was at around 0%, and has been so for my entire life. I've always kissed peoples asses and been the biggest people pleaser. So I think I should focus on building this up right now. But somehow I also feel it is pointless, as nothing matters, in "Leo's worldview". But I guess my vulnerable feelings, could stem from that traumatic experience. That experience showed me a really ugly side of the human race and the world, which I don't like to face.

Haha, was thinking the same

Alright, so I want to shorten this down, as I want to get to the root of this situation quickly, so I don't have to write out tens of thousands of words, in order for you to get my whole story, so let's go. I have always felt different, always felt like there was much more to life than what society tells us, and thoughts and questions around who I was and society was, started to emerge and accelerate a lot, when I was around 14-15 years old. I am 22 years old today, and a lot has happened since. I've had periods where I didn't feel compelled to eat meat, meditated everyday, and felt like I could watch my thoughts, without reacting to them, and got to some point of spiritual balance, I don't know what to call it. But society distracted me, and I fell back into the cycle of society. Now, for the last 1-2 months, I've been feeling off. A lot of things has happened to me, that really makes me question myself, my values, my worth, my identity, society and everything. I felt super drawn to go travel, so I went to Sweden for 3 days, isolating myself in cabin out in the woods, just me, no electricity, to do personal development, and I figured out A LOT about myself and my fears etc. I literally felt like I released some massive energy blocks / negative emotions inside of me. I was reading the book (Edit)-, which Leo has on his booklist, while I was in Sweden, and was practicing to let go of different feelings. I tried to focus on the general emotion I had, at the time, and tried to let that go, and I feel like I lost so much control, that I got an anxiety/panic attack. I felt very alone, and suddenly felt that I was about to enlighten, and I came to the conclusion inside of me, that I didn't want to enlighten, it was too scary, and I felt like I wasn't ready at all. But since that trip to Sweden, I've felt so good and so off at the same time. I feel like some spiritual thing is growing inside of me, and I feel very confused on what to do right now. Should I just let go, and realize my nature, or do I just suffer from anxiety or what the hell is goiing on? On that trip to Sweden, I seriously felt so connected to the true nature, that it almost got a little scary. I am not sure on what to do now, because currently I fear social situations, because I am afraid I will get an awakening freakout suddenly. It reminds me of a shroom trip, where you in the end of the trip can sense that everything is an illusion and that you just have to flow with life, and you feel naked. I feel that nakedness now, and I don't really know how to deal with this. I know this is written out very confusingly, but I am just kind of anxious about what is happening, and I feel like I am going crazy. I feel very alone, but I believe it's something positive coming up. I know I am not crazy :-) Pheww. Hope that I'll get some good responses on this, wish you all a good day! Peace.

Thanks for all your replies everyone. What I forgot to tell you, is that I saw Leo's video about the dark side of spiritual enlightenment, some months ago, and I realized that I wasn't interested nor ready to seek the truth, I realized that I'd rather live in the illusion for at least some more years. But it feels like the real me, just can't let go of the idea of awakening, it seems like the entire essence/real me-thing, is pursuing this, and it's really difficult! I'm so afraid my entire world will break down, and my life will become worse, if I awaken. I'm afraid I can't continue being with my girlfriend, and I'll stop pursuing my goals and dreams, and I'll just become some weird spiritual freak, and I don't want that! I've tried to stop pursuing "awakening" for a long time, but it seems like something inside of me wants to. I am not sure if it's just a very big emotional block I am trying to get rid of, maybe this isn't close to an awakening at all. I am just afraid of letting this negative emotional block pass, because I am afraid of what's on the other side of it, and for me, the worst case scenario right now, would be to awaken, and then become something I don't want to be, and lose my girlfriend, and then become unhappy.

I am always giving wayyy too much of myself to other people, in hope that they will love me, appreciate me, and think I am a good person. This means that I am always prioritizing other people before myself, but under the surface, I get resentful if people don't give me back what I want from them. I want to fix this issue, but I need somewhere to start. Do you know any good books, videos, etc, on how to start prioritizing myself more, and stopping myself from giving too much of myself to other people, to value myself more in a sense.? Currently reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and it's amazing!

So my GF and I have been together for almost 9 months now, in a fantastic relationship, where we truly love each other! Although it feels like the relationship has started to take a turn now. We have been together for almost everyday the last couple of months, which may be too much. She's been talking with her coach, and now she has figured out that she needs more alone time, which is really hard for me to accept. I know it's super important to live out our individual lives, but it's really hard for me to swallow, that she doesn't want to focus on me 100%. I know it's very egoic to think that, but how can I start dealing with this? I know I have to live my own life too, I used to enjoy reading books, study self-help stuff and business stuff etc, but it's really hard for me to focus on this right now, when I just want to be with her all the time.. Logically, I know she still loves me, for sure, but it's like my feelings doesn't trust that she loves me. I'm doubting her love for me, maybe because I am feeling unworthy of love or unloveable in some sense, or maybe I don't trust myself? Any advice for this issue, is highly appreciated, I've been crying the last few days!

Yes, I read it back in 2016, and were actually following his advice, and I often refer back to that period of my life as a really good period of my life, when I was really balanced and happy. Somehow I got indulged in alcohol and partying again, unfortunately, because I was afraid of moving too far away from my friends and social circle.

Thanks! How do you practice self love and acceptance? I am running twice a week, which I see as a form of self-love, I know I could be doing much more, but it's a start. I've been attending a Vipassana Retreat before, and was very much into meditation until I got my girlfriend, which I spend too much time on right now, would meditation be a form of self love and acceptance, I guess so right? I'm not so clever on the theory behind meditation.

Awesome, thank you so much capriciousduck!!