Rilles

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  1. Look for that which is looking.
  2. Omg, no wonder stage Blue/Orange love this woman.
  3. True... but in-depth would be important I think... Being in therapy for a few months I myself have realized how much BS I've been telling myself... deep programming that has been running me for about 15 years.
  4. Noone said the monkey is bad, Im way past the good/bad dichotomy... but... do you want to sail the Atlantic with a drunk skipper or a sober captain. Row row row your boat...
  5. The problem is they dont... Thoughts are they main cause of your misery, they skew reality tremendously, why do you think people believe in conspiracy theories? Because they align with reality? Give me a break. Being able to see how thoughts trick you is number one in this work. Thoughts give you a ballpark idea of reality to be able to help you survive. They are important, but we give them 98% of importantace which causes us suffering. ? youre putting words in my mouth.
  6. Isnt this important to you? Your entire life is built upon thoughts about things that dont exist in your direct experience. Scenarious about things that will happen tommorrow and regrets about the past. Being able to see actuality is what consciousness work is about isnt it?
  7. Ugh, too much monkeying in your mind, go to your fridge and find the "boundary" between your consciousness and that fridge, do that for a 100 hours. Go to your room and contemplate if that fridge exists outside your awareness. Not by thinking about it... By looking directly in your experience.
  8. What are you referring to? Please post a link.
  9. I like my eye-color... I dont want it changed haha. If I didnt care I could try this. Im open to investigate. Im highly skeptical towards this though. It sounds like a new-age/incel fad. Ive been to Reiki sessions and had great result so Im not close-minded but this smells fishy to me.
  10. Is it your experience that its imaginary right now?
  11. Why do you want to prove reality is imaginary?
  12. Ive read his In The Realm Of Hungry Ghosts, great book on heavy addiction, very compassionate man.
  13. Give me proof that this works, not some photoshopped eye or person wearing coloured lenses.
  14. Yes, all these things deeply change your perception of reality to help you grow. I dont see why some fluff like changing your eye color has any effect on your growth except making you feel better about your appearance I guess, but thats more delusion, not growth.
  15. Wow, watched this last night, gotta say i somewhat agree, cant say i feel his anger but something is off about JP which turns me off from him
  16. Why dont you just PM some of the mods? wish I could help but Im just a lowly tier1 ?
  17. How exactly does changing eye-color fit into self-development?