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Leo Gura replied to WokeBloke's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
This is answered in my Does Free Will Exist? video. Reality is Your Will made manifest. You will not get it with logic. Only with profound awakening. -
What am I dishonest about? I said my intention is a relationship if the girl is relationship material. There is no need to explicitly state this when you start dating. It comes out naturally. If I want to make her my gf I will say so, but not too soon. You can reframe it verbally to her face. "Where is your sense of humor, girl? You leave it at home?" Of course this will prolly blow up the set. But I would say this as the set is blowing up anyway. Sometimes you say things not to please the girl but just to hold your frame. Your frame should be that you are funny and cool and if she doesn't like it she is the weird one, her loss.
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No because women don't play video games or consume porn nearly as much as guys. It's not a symmetrical dynamic.
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Most people at a club are not going there every week. They are there for a special social occasion. Girls are social creatures and go out in groups. This is normal and healthy. You can meet almost any kind of girl in the club. I have met doctors, lawyers, engineers, professors, spiritual girls, etc.
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I'm always looking for relationship. Whether it happens or not is not really up to me. Often the girl doesn't want it. But also many girls are not relationship material and it takes some time to figure that out. I don't make a distinction between a fling and something serious. Everything serious starts out unserious. Just talk to girls without expectations and see where things lead. Sometimes it will lead somewhere serious, often times not. Both are okay.
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Sometimes girls get offended or turned off for random reasons. You can't predict such things. I told a girl I that she is so young that I am adopting her as my daughter, with benefits. She was into it. Of course another girl might have gotten offended by that. And the key is that I wouldn't give a fuck because I would just go talk to the next 10 girls. The bottom line is, if a girl is into you, she will let you get away with almost anything verbally. And if she's not into you, she can get pissy about the silliest things you say. So it's not really about you as much as it is about her. Of course it also matters how you deliver the joke. If you do it from a shitty state it will usually flop and creep girls out. If you do it from solid state and you're fully congruent with it, even the most obnoxious verbals can work, such as, "I'm going to put a baby in your tummy." In general you should avoid sexually explicit jokes. That is walking the razor's edge and you don't need to do that as a newbie. Also keep in mind that when you show sexual intent, girls will blow you out more. This is not a bad thing. You're screening out girls who are not DTF. Being platonic will get you way less blowouts but also no sex. If she can't take a joke, don't apologize, reframe it as her not having a sense of humor. Not all girls will appreciate your style of humor. That's okay. You're just screening those girls out by scaring them off. A great reframe is something like, "Hey, stop being weird. Don't embarrass me in front of God." Or the classic: "Hey, don't be racist. You just hate me cause I'm black."
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No
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You cannot escape epistemology nor metaphysics.
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Good work. Keep going out and socializing. And remember, quality over quantity. Next time do 5 deeper converasations with strangers. This will grow your skills more than 100 hellos. Gradually you will get better and better at conversation and they will become easier, more natural, and more enjoyable. The key is to start enjoying it. Otherwise you won't be able to sustain it. If you enjoy it there won't be any anxiety either.
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Leo Gura replied to RMQualtrough's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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Leo Gura replied to RMQualtrough's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
You are imagining both those chairs. You are dreaming other minds. -
Aoki engages the crowd more, which is a nice touch. Most DJs don't acknowledge the crowd much. I felt more love from Aoki. His passion is contagious and impressive. I never drink. Never enjoyed clubbing. If it was up to me I would be at home chilling. I'm not above anything, since I am everything. Not inside the club. No vax pass. If you don't like the risk, stay out of the club. The rest of Vegas is under mask mandate.
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Leo Gura replied to PurpleTree's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
That's not convincing. -
His satire was always off because it came from below not above, and his audience is not wise enough to know the difference. The rise of Trumpism and anti-wokism has simply made that difference very clear.
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Leo Gura replied to RMQualtrough's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Not unless you imagine it is. -
Leo Gura replied to PurpleTree's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Was it drugs?? -
Leo Gura replied to RMQualtrough's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
No, it's based on the fact that all difference is imaginary. God cannot have an other, since it is Infinity. -
Leo Gura replied to Bobby_2021's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Bobby_2021 If two things are identical then they are not distinct. If they are not distinct they are not two things but one thing. You are just confused with your logic. You could not even imagine multiple Trumps unless each one differed in some way from the other. Your multiple Trumps are distinct across space and time, and other aspects you are imagining but failing to recognize. -
Leo Gura replied to Bobby_2021's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I wanted Perfection, and that's what I am. -
Bottled water is way more expensive. As far as worth goes, RO is a no brainer.
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Leo Gura replied to Bobby_2021's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Because you are too busy willing your dream. Whatever is occuring is what you wanted. -
Leo Gura replied to CuriousityIsKey's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
If you have to ask you don't get it. -
Leo Gura replied to Bobby_2021's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Reality is the imagination of distinctions. Imagination is absolute. So if you imagine a distinction you absolutely create it then and there. You are mistaken in assuming that distinctions are "unreal". That itself is a distinction you created. -
I expect her to fall in love with me so deeply that she wouldn't want to cheat. And the reason I expect that is because I have a lot of love to give her. She's not going to find a higher love than mine. And what she wants is love, not dick. Of course I would also select a high quality and relatively conscious girl. If you are selecting low quality, low consciousness girls then you will have more to worry about.