machinegun

How do you build a community post-grad?

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I can't stop thinking about how I'll have no friends after I graduate from college. 

Where do you find a community of like-minded people?

Isn't college the best community-building place on the planet?

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Ego.

Do u wish to be their leader?then u have to look for people who can give u that or u are looking for equals?

Gender thing also matters,men try to man up each other and especially in front of woman presence,so my point what is that group made out of?

I think a community should a place of free speech and no physical hurting,that's what's ok.

Humour shouldn't be suppressed by tyranny and control and group attacks.

What are your interests?Ask some people who have same interest as u.

Friends, it's easy become very rich and see people flock around u and even a stranger will call u a friend.

 

 

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@Creatorbeing I don't understand everything you said.

But, I gather that you advise me to find people based on my ego level.

To answer your questions

  • I'm looking for equals
  • I'm looking for a friend group comprised of men and women- but, purely for friendship purposes ( I don't know if that would be possible from your point of view)
  • My interests revolve around living a good life, which for myself requires having a community- motivated, ambitious, smart people: stage orange/green- leaning more toward green
  • Is your hailmary solution that I become rich first?

Thanks for responding

 

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@machinegun if you are around 20 or 30 better do the moves towards this now. If you keep going from place to place with no roots is probable you can end alone. 

Unless your goal is go go monkmode better to build to social structure soon. 

This video bellow is a wake up call for it. The video can sound a bit morbid but I feel there is some truth to it.  

 

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Wow. Thank you for the detailed resources :)

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