Ego backlash

[Irina Wolf]

Oh dear lord, expect ego backlash and don't underestimate it

[Federico del pueblo]

@Irina Wolf The lord has an ego, too?

[hyruga]

14 hours ago, Federico del pueblo said:

@Irina Wolf The lord has an ego, too?

Funny 

[Max_V]

@Irina Wolf How do you deal with it?

[hyruga]

[gettoefl]

understand that you do need ego to live here so you have to learn when ego is appropriate behaviour

knowing your personality and behaving accordingly is ego, you do this for your own sanity

don't bash your ego or make enemy of it else the backlash is far worse

Edited August 21, 2022 by gettoefl

[Razard86]

On 8/21/2022 at 10:59 AM, gettoefl said:

understand that you do need ego to live here so you have to learn when ego is appropriate behaviour

knowing your personality and behaving accordingly is ego, you do this for your own sanity

don't bash your ego or make enemy of it else the backlash is far worse

I'm so glad you understand. A house divided against itself shall not stand. Something every civilization has learned. Every civil war stops before total annihilation. Sometimes war is necessary though to realize this truth. 

[Irina Wolf]

On 21/08/2022 at 3:37 PM, Max_V said:

@Irina Wolf How do you deal with it?

I try not to judge when I realize it's happening. Then afterwards deliberately, confidently pick myself back up. Aside of that I try EFT tapping and meditate on healing my inner child because I know that's the main source of the behaviour I'd rather be free from. I know ego is a part of me so I will forgive myself for self sabotaging behaviour.