The Mirror

[Razard86]

What one fears the most is self-judgment. 

What one fears is their being.

Not just the capital True Self, but the ego self as well.

Notice one spends their entire life pointing their attention outward.

They complain about others, wish others were more like them. But the irony is, they don't even like themselves

If you were to question someone why they say and do the things they do, they deflect. Why?

Because they do not want to look at their ego. They are ashamed of their ego. Their ego is selfish and they do not want to admit it.

It is much easier to demonize others, to project your shame onto those around you. Instead of acknowledging your shame and taking ownership.

The only time you own your pain is when you claim someone else caused it, but that's not ownership that is blaming someone else as the author of what YOU ARE CREATING.

Its funny, as long as you blame others for what you create within, you will continue to suffer. So why do you do this? Because you love to suffer.

You would rather choose suffering than facing yourself and recognizing yourself as your own abuser. The pain of that realization is more scary to you                       than suffering. The lesser of two evils in your eyes so you choose to suffer.

Your entire life your abuser has been you, it has always been you. You are sadistic, you refuse to face the fact that you enjoy your own abuse. Your abuse after awhile gets to become too much, even though you are a masochist even a masochist has limits. 

Your abuse at this point either forces you to face yourself, confront yourself all along. To realize you as the creator of your own reality. Or you run even harder and choose to end it all.

The choice is yours, but realize you cannot escape from you. You will exist for all eternity. Better to confront and realize what you are.

 

 

[Breakingthewall]

another point of view: you torture yourself because you perceive yourself as unworthy of love. As you perceive yourself as such, you try to make yourself worthy, increasing your self-concept. endless trap. why do you feel unworthy? because you have been raised by people who perceived themselves as unworthy. why did they do it? because for thousands of generations, human society has needed each piece to fit, fulfill its mission, stand firm in battle, in order to survive, exist, not be one of those that are extinguished. for this we have developed an enormously powerful feeling: shame. this feeling has been necessary for the group to behave as a single individual, and still is. all your learned and genetic conditioning, from the cave, screams at you: you must not be unworthy. it is better to die than to fail the tribe.

transcending this is anything but easy. first, to understand, to unravel every little meaningless shame, to undo it. second, give shame its place. serve society. play your part, but without depending on external approval. freedom demands servitude, since we are human

 

[Razard86]

7 minutes ago, Breakingthewall said:

another point of view: you torture yourself because you perceive yourself as unworthy of love. As you perceive yourself as such, you try to make yourself worthy, increasing your self-concept. endless trap. why do you feel unworthy? because you have been raised by people who perceived themselves as unworthy. why did they do it? because for thousands of generations, human society has needed each piece to fit, fulfill its mission, stand firm in battle, in order to survive, exist, not be one of those that are extinguished. for this we have developed an enormously powerful feeling: shame. this feeling has been necessary for the group to behave as a single individual, and still is. all your learned and genetic conditioning, from the cave, screams at you: you must not be unworthy. it is better to die than to fail the tribe.

transcending this is anything but easy. first, to understand, to unravel every little meaningless shame, to undo it. second, give shame its place. serve society. play your part, but without depending on external approval. freedom demands servitude, since we are human

 

I agree completely except for the part of it not being easy. Its easy to shift the perspective, but I would agree that embodying that perspective will be the difficult part because our fears are literally in the body, as you mentioned some could be genetic. Epigenetics might interest some as a source of study to look into.

But I mostly am pushing for people to change their perspective. The embodiment can take time, but the shift in perspective is instant and all totally free will. All we have to do is drop the notion that anything outside of us validates and look to ourselves alone as validation for love. We deserve love from ourselves. 

The only thing we are entitled to, is love from ourselves. And we deny it, which makes me laugh. Why are we so foolish to deny from ourselves what we most crave from others. Its like having food in your possession refusing to acknowledge you have it, then looking around for others to feed you. Even worse the food you have, you generate it infinitely. So you have infinite food in your possession and look for other finite sources of food to feed you. 

Thanks for your comment.

[Michael Jackson]

8 hours ago, Razard86 said:

What one fears the most is self-judgment. 

What one fears is their being.

Not just the capital True Self, but the ego self as well.

Notice one spends their entire life pointing their attention outward.

They complain about others, wish others were more like them. But the irony is, they don't even like themselves

If you were to question someone why they say and do the things they do, they deflect. Why?

Because they do not want to look at their ego. They are ashamed of their ego. Their ego is selfish and they do not want to admit it.

It is much easier to demonize others, to project your shame onto those around you. Instead of acknowledging your shame and taking ownership.

The only time you own your pain is when you claim someone else caused it, but that's not ownership that is blaming someone else as the author of what YOU ARE CREATING.

Its funny, as long as you blame others for what you create within, you will continue to suffer. So why do you do this? Because you love to suffer.

You would rather choose suffering than facing yourself and recognizing yourself as your own abuser. The pain of that realization is more scary to you                       than suffering. The lesser of two evils in your eyes so you choose to suffer.

Your entire life your abuser has been you, it has always been you. You are sadistic, you refuse to face the fact that you enjoy your own abuse. Your abuse after awhile gets to become too much, even though you are a masochist even a masochist has limits. 

Your abuse at this point either forces you to face yourself, confront yourself all along. To realize you as the creator of your own reality. Or you run even harder and choose to end it all.

The choice is yours, but realize you cannot escape from you. You will exist for all eternity. Better to confront and realize what you are.

 

 

High quality as fuck!! Love your posts man keep 'em coming @Razard86

[RMQualtrough]

Well the ego is both the thing being insulted as well as the thing reacting to that insult.

Don't think there's a workaround really.

[Razard86]

1 hour ago, RMQualtrough said:

Well the ego is both the thing being insulted as well as the thing reacting to that insult.

Don't think there's a workaround really.

There is....and Michael Jackson knows it....he says it all the time. Love. That's the workaround LOL.

 

1 hour ago, Michael Jackson said:

High quality as fuck!! Love your posts man keep 'em coming @Razard86

Thanks. What inspired this post was a certain incident you are familiar with that recently transpired. Anyway thanks for the compliment. 

[Proserpina]

10 hours ago, Razard86 said:

What one fears the most is self-judgment. 

What one fears is their being.

Not just the capital True Self, but the ego self as well.

Notice one spends their entire life pointing their attention outward.

They complain about others, wish others were more like them. But the irony is, they don't even like themselves

If you were to question someone why they say and do the things they do, they deflect. Why?

Because they do not want to look at their ego. They are ashamed of their ego. Their ego is selfish and they do not want to admit it.

It is much easier to demonize others, to project your shame onto those around you. Instead of acknowledging your shame and taking ownership.

The only time you own your pain is when you claim someone else caused it, but that's not ownership that is blaming someone else as the author of what YOU ARE CREATING.

Its funny, as long as you blame others for what you create within, you will continue to suffer. So why do you do this? Because you love to suffer.

You would rather choose suffering than facing yourself and recognizing yourself as your own abuser. The pain of that realization is more scary to you                       than suffering. The lesser of two evils in your eyes so you choose to suffer.

Your entire life your abuser has been you, it has always been you. You are sadistic, you refuse to face the fact that you enjoy your own abuse. Your abuse after awhile gets to become too much, even though you are a masochist even a masochist has limits. 

Your abuse at this point either forces you to face yourself, confront yourself all along. To realize you as the creator of your own reality. Or you run even harder and choose to end it all.

The choice is yours, but realize you cannot escape from you. You will exist for all eternity. Better to confront and realize what you are.

 

 

Yes! ♥