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Tips for a healthy masturbation (for males ,)

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7 minutes ago, Realms of Wonder said:

Maybe it is, maybe it isn't, who are you to say? Each person is different. While I do agree with you from my point of view, my life HAS improved as I healed my addiction to PMO, and cut it completely from my life. But that doesn't mean its best for everyone.

I agree. Some people are more sensitive and some are less affected by it .

It certainly depends on how healthy your lifestyle is at all.   Fapping a lot drains vital nutritions from the body ..if you fap a lot you should be eating like a horse . Then again it depends on your lifestyle in general. 


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11 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Actually it might very well be a finite resource. 

In Hinduism they belive each chakra in your body contains only so much of energy. And that of course applies to your root Chakra or your sex center. 

It's believed that it contains life force (they call it virya) and its In fact limited. 

Now ..there is not much scientific evidence for that but from my own direct experience I feel that it's true .I had so much  sexual energy 4-5 years ago when I was a teenager..but now after years of masturbating I feel less horny. 

Now I understand that you never run out of semen ..but there is no point in wasting it either. Use it to connect with a real partner or simply save it and practice sexual transmutaion like yoga and whatnot .

 

Again, I’m not promoting frequent ejactulation.

You can charge those energy centres through Taoist sexual practices but you aren’t watching my videos.

Also there is sexual peaks. Of course you are more horny when going through puberty. 
 

I feel very horny these days… anyway.

what is true? Up to you

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You take the makeup 
Off your eyes 
I've got to see you 
Hear your sacred sighs

Before the break up 
Comes the silence 
I'm talking to you 
You say you're over it 
But I know

I thought I knew you 
You thought you knew me 
But now that you do 
It's not so easy now 
That I know

You can cry, I won't go 
You can scream, I won't go 
Every man that you know 
Would have run at the word go 
Little boys with their porno 
Oh, I know they hurt you so 
They don't know that we know 
Never know what we know

And all your makeup 
Just take it all off 
I've got to find you 
Before the line is lost

I know I hurt you 
I won't deny it 
When I reach for you 
You say, "I'm over it" 
But I know

You can cry, I won't go 
You can scream, I won't go 
Every man that you know 
Would have run at the word go 
Little boys with their porno 
Oh, I know they hurt you so 
If I don't know what I know 
It can be so little that we know

But the cup it overflows 
Little boys with their porno 
But this is their world 
Where can we go?

Makes me feel like something's wrong with me 
Makes me feel like something's wrong with me 
Can you see me?

You can cry, I won't go 
You can scream, I won't go 
Little boys with their porno 
Little boys with their porno 
Makes me feel like something's wrong 
It's the only world we know

Yeah, something's wrong 
Little boys with their porno

And boys they learn 
Some selfish shit 
Until the girl 
Won't put up with it

On and on and on we go 
I just have to know 
I'm not over it 
I'm not over it

You say love is real 
Like a disease 
Come on tell me please 
I'm not over it 
I'm not over it

Wait


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@Knowledge Hoarder it does bro .semen is very vital and rich of all kinds of nutritions. Like zinc and iron and protein and amino acids .when you ejaculate you lose a part of that.  And I didn't say fapping once every month or so..I said fapping a lot..like multiple times everyday..that is going to fuck you up big time .there is no question about it .I know it from my direct  experience. 

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5 minutes ago, Knowledge Hoarder said:

Just a quick interruption, and break of my integrity? - I think this is a myth, actually. It doesn't drain a lot of nutrients at all.

To quote one guy from Quora - with whom I absolutely agree with: "The amount is trivial, not worth wasting even a second of worry on. You lose far more nutrients every day from your body shedding cells off of your skin and the lining of your gut. This happens day in and day out, and far eclipses the miniscule amount contained in an ejaculation."

So, there you have it.

I am a part of "no jerk" club btw, but I don't do it for these weird reasons - these myths. I do it for mental reasons - it helps my focus, and clarity of my mind.

Your body kills old sperm and recycles it. 
 

Studies have shown that if you don’t ejaculate as well the sperm get old and unhealthy…not sure if that is true.


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17 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

You can charge those energy centres through Taoist sexual practices but you aren’t watching my videos.

I will try to watch them .don't worry :)


"life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived "

-Osho

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4 minutes ago, Someone here said:

@Knowledge Hoarder it does bro .semen is very vital and rich of all kinds of nutritions. Like zinc and iron and protein and amino acids .when you ejaculate you lose a part of that.  And I didn't say fapping once every month or so..I said fapping a lot..like multiple times everyday..that is going to fuck you up big time .there is no question about it .I know it from my direct  experience. 

Yeah then your just spilling all your life force energy. Stop ejaculating that much and consider learning to orgasm without it…

Im with you on not ejaculating constantly. But, you can orgasm constantly potentially if you learn the secrets of the Tao

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30 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

@Realms of Wonder PMO?

Again, I’m not advocating for watching porn or chronically ejaculating. 
 

Im advocating for:

1. Healthy masturbation practice such as toaist sexual energy, sexual health and multiple orgasm

2. A shame free sexual relationship with yourself 

3. A healthy balanced relationship to porn (this may mean no porn for you)

4. A personalized approach for what you find works for you

PMO = Porn Masturbation Orgasm. 

 

I love those that you listed. Thanks for sharing that.


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24 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

Yeah then your just spilling all your life force energy. Stop ejaculating that much and consider learning to orgasm without it…

Im with you on not ejaculating constantly. But, you can orgasm constantly potentially if you learn the secrets of the Tao

How can I orgasm without ejaculating ? Can you teach me the technique?


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-Osho

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@Someone here I’ve shared you the resources. Please stop asking me.


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3 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

@Someone here I’ve shared you the resources. Please stop asking me.

OK ?. I will take a look at the book and the videos you shared here .

BTW thanks for the high quality and respectful conversation that we had even tho we disagree on ideas :)


"life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived "

-Osho

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@Someone here Also thanks for the “Can you teach me” Question. Soon. 


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11 hours ago, Thought Art said:

@Someone here Also thanks for the “Can you teach me” Question. Soon. 

Waiting :)


"life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived "

-Osho

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