Physical safety/confrontation while socializing

[Terell Kirby]

On 2/18/2022 at 10:52 PM, John Paul said:

How do you handle disrespect from men in the club or venue?

You avoid this by de-escalating. The point of going out is to have fun, not pick fights.

If a guy wants to start drama, offer to buy him a drink or compliment him on his outfit.

[Nahm]

12 minutes ago, John Paul said:

@Nahm

okay so maybe not needing respect is what gets respect....

Does that thought feel better? 

Better than thoughts like cock-blocks, competitive males, males acting protective, and the monkeys?

 

Can it be noticed that ‘not needing respect’, is still actually thought of as a way of getting respect?

Can it also be noticed that appreciation for someone who contributes to your thread feels better than being dismissive / disrespectful? 

 

[John Paul]

@Nahm

Yes. thank you

 

 @Terell Kirby

thank you

[Nahm]

@John Paul

Let discordant thoughts comes & go a bit more, it lets your awesomeness shine though. 

[Matt23]

2 hours ago, Nahm said:

it lets your awesomeness shine though. 

Edited February 21, 2022 by Matt23

[GrandeOrso]

Just watch this and you'll have your answers 

https://youtu.be/zSErYhxNLX0

JP on how good men are dangerous men

 

Edited February 21, 2022 by GrandeOrso