Progress Journal October 20 2020

[Preety_India]

I'm looking forward to a dopamine detox. 

 

[Preety_India]

I need some stage orange systems thinking. 

Remember you treat your life as an empire that you're building yourself. And maintaining  it. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited November 15, 2020 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

I think growth is a sort of a crystallization process in which we go through many things in our psyche that gradually begin to shift with greater awareness and mirror experiences. 

 

These mirror experiences show us our strengths, weaknesses, flaws and shadows. 

 

We learn from these experiences and this process continues until we crystallize into something more specific and ideal. Not perfect but at least optimal. 

 

So I created a fish model for spiral dynamics 

 

 

What I mean by this is that the main or center stage of Spiral Dynamics is stage orange. Everything else will operate from it. 

And other stages will be mixed in bits and pieces throughout the Orange body to create balance and equilibrium. 

 

 

 

 

 

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I see the psyche as a big blue light ball, and all our impurities and psyche issues that cause most of our problems are represented by the yellow orange spots over this blue sphere. 

With time and maturity and awareness these spots get smaller and the process of crystallization begins to set in. 

The psyche gets cleaned and crystallizes while those impurities are gradually cleaned out.. And you begin to see a bright blue  ball with only bits of those impurities. I'll call this real mental spiritual growth. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm also trying to focus on the role of psyche and consciousness. 

 

Psyche 

Consciousness 

Dangerous mindsets 

Growth oriented mindsets

 

 

I think growth is a sort of a crystallization process in which we go through many things in our psyche that gradually begin to shift with greater awareness and mirror experiences. 

 

These mirror experiences show us our strengths, weaknesses, flaws and shadows. 

 

We learn from these experiences and this process continues until we crystallize into something more specific and ideal. Not perfect but at least optimal. 

 

 

 

Edited November 15, 2020 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

 

On 11/8/2020 at 7:31 AM, Preety_India said:

Elements of life 

Hope 

Acceptance of reality 

Security 

Peace 

Freedom 

Maturity 

Love 

Strength 

Decency 

Truth 

Bravery 

Compassion and empathy 

Awareness 

Wisdom 

Passion 

Negative motivation (emotional explosive) 

Balance. 

 

On 11/8/2020 at 7:52 AM, Preety_India said:

Soft beast with a purpose. 

A hard beast and a soft beast. 

Evil people become complacent because lack of humility and no driver or negative motivation. 

Evil intentions don't have a driver so they don't succeed 

Good intentions can exist with or without a driver. A negative motivation 

Good intentions because of negative energy succeed. The negative energy acts like an active component or torpedo. 

Evil intentions don't have this torpedo. 

I'll call this torpedo an emotional explosive. 

Bad intentions don't carry emotional explosives 

Godzilla. 

 

 

On 11/8/2020 at 10:31 AM, Preety_India said:

A soft beast with a purpose. Godzilla. That kind of thing. 

 

 

On 11/8/2020 at 11:02 AM, Preety_India said:

 

I can relate to the whole Asian thing where people around you become toxic. 

I'm myself going through something similar. One day there'll be a revolution in Asia and we'll get ultimate freedom from this cultural rut. 

I hope that you continue to cope with your situation. 

I was writing about this in my recent journal.. 

And this is what I wrote. 

Soft beast with a purpose. 

A hard beast and a soft beast. 

Evil people become complacent because lack of humility and no driver or negative motivation. 

Evil intentions don't have a driver so they don't succeed 

Good intentions can exist with or without a driver. A negative motivation 

Good intentions because of negative energy succeed. The negative energy acts like an active component or torpedo. 

Evil intentions don't have this torpedo. 

I'll call this torpedo an emotional explosive. 

Bad intentions don't carry emotional explosives 

Godzilla. Be like Godzilla. 

Hang in there my fellow Asian friend!! 

We have to turn into a Godzilla and protect ourselves from toxicity and domination. We have to be a soft beast. Being good and decent is not enough, don't let the devil win, fight harder and one day victory will come to you. 

Just focus on protecting yourself from the harmful effects around you. 

Eat good food. Sleep well. Think of good things. Don't cry. Don't let yourself be weak.. Don't let it impact your psyche or it will turn into a hurt cycle. 

Keep yourself strong and resilient. One day things will be better for you and me. 

Right now you're just a soft person and there are hard beasts around you. 

But once you turn into a soft beast like Godzilla then you will see your path to freedom and healing. You will automatically see the path out of the situation. 

The soft beast of Godzilla needs to awaken inside you to beat all those hard beasts around you. 

That's what I'm trying to do currently. I'm trying to invoke the soft beast of Godzilla inside me to fight external toxic hard beasts. 

Life is a battle between the hard and the soft. And you being a soft person have to keep beating the hard ones whether the hard represents a person or a situation, in both cases the soft has to continue progressing and keep beating the hard. 

This is a struggle and sometime you might feel like this struggle is not worth it, but it is worth it for the collective consciousness. 

Your struggle can inspire someone else stuck in a similar situation. 

Keeping you in despair is how the devil wins. 

Every time you experience despair ask yourself, "how will soft beast Godzilla behave in this situation?" 

And you'll automatically get the answers on what you should do. 

@Megan Alecia you can always talk to me in this journal. I'll try to help you be positive and happy. Don't worry, things will be alright. Just don't lose hope.

 

 

On 11/8/2020 at 1:46 PM, Preety_India said:

Breaking through the dark, there's a new dawn coming. 

Sometimes evil is necessary for good to become better. 

It's acts like a thrusting force driving good to strive for the best and for better things to happen. 

It's a crystallization process where all the shadows are killed, the system is rebooted, the healing is brought, and a more matured Beast rises like a Phoenix. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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On 10/28/2020 at 7:48 PM, Preety_India said:

I'm thinking about buildings or organizations.

 

Like having this visualization practice of buildings. 

Every building has a purpose.. Or a goal. 

Set up this buildings in my visualization practice. 

In each there will be tasks and goals and growth. 

Any building that shows good growth is going to get taller. 

The height increase of each building is going to shown on a chart with points. 

So every self actualization area is going to be treated like a separate building. 

And all the points accumulated for the first few days or for the entire week or day will be assigned on top of the building. The building will have the corresponding name of the category. 

Points will indicate how big the building has grown 

Buildings will get different varieties of hats as achievements once milestones are reached. 

This is how the building chart with points will look like 

 

 

Right now I can only have 5 points. 

Also if there is decline in activity there will be minus points 

This is a constant process of growth. 

Building names or categories

? MENTAL HEALTH 

?PHYSICAL HEALTH 

?HEALING 

?️ GROWTH 

?RELATIONSHIPS 

?SPIRITUAL GROWTH 

?MONEY 

?

???

AND THE LIST GOES ON. 

 

On 10/29/2020 at 6:08 PM, Preety_India said:

There is a source building. 

And there are operations buildings. 

Then there are buildings for escalation and de-escalation. 

 

 

On 10/29/2020 at 8:27 PM, Preety_India said:

One building for logic and reasoning and rationality, truth or pragmatism. 

One building for creativity 

One building for avec plaisir

 

[Preety_India]

 

Awareness level 

 

 

 

Karmic level. 

 

 

 

Insecurity level 

 

 

 

Shadow level 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The situations and events that you attract in life depend on what level you are at in terms of psyche and consciousness.

 

Consciousness can keep expanding but psyche remains more or less the same. Little changes. 

 

Awareness level - when you are at a low awareness level you allow all sorts of experiences in your life. 

 

Karmic level - when you are believing in something strongly, even a self limiting belief, your Karmic level is attracting that situation

 

 

 

Insecurity level - when you feel insecure these insecurities also create the circumstances in your life 

 

Shadow level - when you have shadows you attract situations that force you to confront your shadows 

[Preety_India]

 

Do you feel loved in life? 

 

How do you connect to the Center of your existence, your body and emotions? 

 

Do you feel in charge of your life? 

 

To grow spiritually we must be willing to continuously reconstruct ourselves, not holding onto what keeps us feeling safe and secure 

 

We can use fear and beliefs to empower us or hold us back from growth 

 

The mind is both the virus and the remedy, the problem and the solution. Some people just allow the mind to become so toxic through external fixation, it becomes self destruction. Awakening 

 

It’s not enough to use a state as sanctuary from the problems that persist...

 

Emotions keeps us in the mind and the mind keeps us in the emotions. 

 

Separation is not the actual, so it’s everything that is self deception. Hanging onto fears and beliefs that block us from becoming more vulnerable 

 

If you don’t grow within, we repeat experiences until we learn

 

It all comes down to perception 

 

We don’t live in a materialistic world, that’s the appearance of things 

 

The journey of empowerment is inward 

 

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On 10/21/2020 at 5:30 AM, Preety_India said:

Reaching my higher self 

 

 

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On 10/11/2020 at 7:30 AM, Preety_India said:

I'm trying to be more stage orange. 

Some questions that I need to ask myself 

Stage orange Wisdom and silent stage Orange 

• How exactly am I benefitting from this person
• Is this person adding value to my life 
• Whats the consequence of this interaction 
• What's the consequence of my action? 

 

 

I can consider a stage Orange person who is very upfront about issues 

 

 

 

 

On 10/11/2020 at 10:45 AM, Preety_India said:

Just a few pictures to give me a feel of stage Orange 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Feminine 

Chaotic 

Intuitive 

Counter productive 

 

 

Masculine 

Order 

Counter intuitive 

Productive 

 

Green and orange 

Self preservation instinct 

 

Deep femininity causing chaos. 

 

 

On 10/12/2020 at 1:34 AM, Preety_India said:

The balance of masculine and feminine. 

To create a balance, both should take qualities of each other in measured doses. That's where the flaws of both get neutralized. 

In order to balance the flaws of the Feminine and reduce their impact, she needs a dose of the masculine to complement her. 

In order to balance the flaws of the Masculine and reduce their impact, he needs a dose of the Feminine to complement him. 

 

What does she have 

Intuitive 

Counter productive (lack of seld preservation) 

Excessive opening of the heart chakra (opening up too much) 

Closing of the Mind Chakra

 

 

What does she need 

Counterintuitive 

Productive (self preservation) 

Opening of the mind chakra 

Leveling the heart chakra 

 

What does he have 

Counterintuitive 

Productive (self preservation) 

Closing of the heart chakra - he has closed the heart chakra 

Opening of the mind chakra - his mind chakra is very open

What does he need 

Intuitive 

Counter productive (letting of the self preservation desire in certain instances) Generosity 

Opening of the heart chakra 

Leveling the mind chakra

 

 

 

 

 

On 10/12/2020 at 8:08 AM, Preety_India said:

 

After a 20 day rigorous stint on the forum I learned a lot in a very short span. 

My knowledge and awareness of things and solutions increased by at least 30%

 

Next I want to focus on a ton of knowledge and understanding 

 

 

 

 

On 10/13/2020 at 5:40 AM, Preety_India said:

 

  How to balance between selflessness and selfishness on the stage orange spiral. The answer is 

 

                         Be vigilant 

 

 

 

 

Try to focus on better things from now 

 

 

 

1 Now the strategy in my life is to completely focus on Integrating Chakra systems and Stage Orange and Stage Green of the Spiral Dynamics Model and use them to guide myself spiritually. 

 

2 Also the other focus is going to be absorbing large amounts of information or precious knowledge and implementing and executing it. 

 

3 And third is going to be focusing on shadow work and intense healing. Be nice and be with Nice. And bringing positive changes and growth in my life.. Finally. Also self love and transcendence and overcoming neediness. 

 

Lots of changes and developments on the way 

 

 

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On 10/13/2020 at 9:21 AM, Preety_India said:

 

• Empowerment 
• Be Vigilant
• Balance between Intuition and Productivity and Counterintuitive 
• Absorb information and learn
• Implementation of knowledge 
• Mindfulness
• Disperse negativity 
• Self love and transcendence 
• Be your authentic self 
• Inner healing and resolving emotional stress and neediness
• Self awareness, self regulation, self control, self discipline, 
• Mindfulness and Consciousness
• Values, Consciousness, Energy 
• Filling the Void /Filling the Cup 
•  

 

 

 

• Detachment 
•  Self love 
• Self regulation 
• Self control 
•  Self care 
• Self awareness 
• Self healing 

 

 

• Self appreciation 
• Self honesty 
• Self inquiry 
• Keeping mind and body very stable 
• Don't listen to the mind. Silencing the mind 
• self discipline in slow consistent doses. 
• Positive affirmations
• EFT
• Shadow work 
• Meditation 
• Silent Observer 
• Critical questioning of thoughts 
• Wait before a reaction 
• Create a healthy comfort zone 
• No perfectionist mindset 
• Gentleness
• Transcendental meditation 
• Getting rid of intrusive thoughts 
• Decrease Dopamine addiction 
• Balance between discipline and fun 

 

 

 

• Escape 
• Distraction 
• Repression 
• Self control 
• Spiritual growth 
• Freeing 
• Filling the Void 
• Filling the Cup. 
• Self love 
• Self awareness 
• Management of signs of weaknesses 
• Transcendence. 

 

 

• Personal responsibility or ownership 
• Self responsibility 
• Self analysis 
• Self preservation 
• Self attachment 
• Self Vigilance and self observation
• Finding a source of love 
• Self care 
• Shadow work
• Observation, Absorption, recognition 
• Cleaning up
• Self connection
• Self confidence 
• Self struggle 
• Self worth 
• Recognition of bad (recognition for safety) 
• Tap  into supernatural consciousness/ turquoise consciousness 
• Turn your mind and body and home into a fortress. 

 

Great vulnerability can only have supernatural cures. 

 

 

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On 10/8/2020 at 4:00 AM, Preety_India said:

A thing of beauty is a joy forever. 

A thing of romance is a fuel forever 

 

 

 

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On 9/23/2020 at 5:37 AM, Preety_India said:

 

I got  an earthen pot. Nice find. 

Wrote a list today.. Gonna do it later though. 

 

Just focusing on what needs to be done. 

Putting all the concepts in line. 

I forgot a very important concept. 

Let me think. Arghh

I also want to be random at the same time. 

Just start with good things. 

I really need an initiation ceremony. 

This will be more like Grounding

But I want something that I can do frequently. And not feel so restless 

 

Maybe keeping a timer might help 

And to keep a rhythm

I think I need something like a connector. Looking like traffic lights 

A set of traffic lights acting as chain links 

That would be great 

 

Each defining something. 

I also need a digital drawing board. 

So I can draw. 

Like a manuscript?

Something on which I can both draw and write

 

 

 

 

 

On 9/23/2020 at 6:45 AM, Preety_India said:

 

 

This is how the bar will look like. 

It's the chain bar of colorful lights. 

 

 

On 9/23/2020 at 6:51 AM, Preety_India said:

Got an idea. 

Make a series of art with both writing and drawing and post it on Instagram. 

Patumba earthen pots line. 

Each pot contains something, either it gives or something is given to it. It has two compartments. 

Or two pots placed one upon the other. 

 

 

 

On 9/23/2020 at 7:56 AM, Preety_India said:

 

 

 

 

On 9/24/2020 at 10:49 PM, Preety_India said:

I will be creating a personalized or customized aesthetic set for which I need some ideas.. 

I thought about the moon aesthetic but that's not very useful. 

Right now I have two thoughts in my mind that I will write in the next post. 

The set of aesthetics 

1 initiation ceremony - this will be like Grounding. It can be a bonfire. Starter kit. I can also do the Centering exercise 

2 keeping a timer. Solid timer. 

3 Chain Colored Lights method (draw and write, scribble) each light is goals, Completions, Bounty, 2 earthen pots method 

4 forest aesthetic...in the background. 

5 bonfire exercise 

6 doctor technique

7 Fireplace aesthetic 

8... More ideas 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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2 thoughts that I had. 

One

Second 

 

 

 

 

On 9/24/2020 at 11:54 PM, Preety_India said:

Second thought 

This  was about aesthetic 

That I need an aesthetic as a complementary support for my structure or system or sequence. 

So this will be two fold. Having two parts. 

One is the structure. A conceptual structure. And the items gathered for the structure,for example a chart or a timer. And the second is the aesthetic to go along with the structure. 

? Concept / structure 

? Items

?  Aesthetic

 

 

On 9/25/2020 at 1:56 AM, Preety_India said:

 

I will be creating a personalized or customized aesthetic set for which I need some ideas.. 

I thought about the moon aesthetic but that's not very useful. 

Right now I have two thoughts in my mind that I will write in the next post. 

The set of aesthetics 7 things 

1 initiation ceremony - this will be like Grounding. It can be a bonfire. Starter kit. I can also do the Centering exercise 

2 keeping a timer. Solid timer. 

3 Chain Colored Lights method (draw and write, scribble) each light is goals, Completions, Bounty, 2 earthen pots method 

4 forest aesthetic...in the background. 

5 bonfire exercise 

6 doctor technique

7 Fireplace aesthetic 

8... More ideas 

 

 

On 9/26/2020 at 1:33 AM, Preety_India said:

 

Man's search for meaning. 

Man's search for a life 

Man's search for love 

Man's search for acceptance

Man's search for peace 

Man's search for survival and comfort. 

 

 

On 9/26/2020 at 7:58 PM, Preety_India said:

 

Be an honest worker. 

Be an educated person 

 

Guideposts. 

I believe in educating myself. Education is not just about a degree or a qualification but about learning a lot everyday and using this learning to create a better life. 

Selective knowledge is important. All knowledge can be a distraction. 

Education should be everyday to make better informed decisions in life. 

Education is a huge strength. 

God has not kept our ways blinded. He has planted clues and information everywhere. We have eyes to see and a mind to observe. We aren't crippled by God. It's up to us to use the knowledge that we see and believe it and use it or discard it. 

An honest worker will educate himself and use responsibility to make his and other's lives better. 

We need to develop responsibility. 

Give up immaturity. 

We are dishonest if we ignore the knowledge and refuse to get an education on the world and truth. 

Truth is always in front of us in plain sight. It's not hidden, although we like to believe that truth is hidden so we can feel better about being fooled. We can lay the blame on something. 

What is circulated as truth in the world is not even necessary. It serves no purpose 

The only truth we need is the truth on our path. 

The only responsibility we have is the responsibility on the path 

 

Education is an important asset and skill. 

Getting educated is absolutely the most important in the here and the now 

Be an honest worker. Don't deny God. Don't deny your observations. 

Keep educating yourself about different aspects of life and use this education to create beauty and wisdom in every moment. 

Your Guideposts are on the way you are walking on. Use them responsibly. 

 

 

 

On 9/29/2020 at 1:43 AM, Preety_India said:

 

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Currently I seem to be in a phase, in which I am more aware of my emotional state than usual, which I find very pleasant. Now, I have two questions:

1. Have you any advice on how to get even more in touch with my emotions and how to properly deal with them?

2. What ways of emotional "cleansing/detox" are there, besides from psychedelics or (shamanic) breath work? 

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I've found Shinzen Young's See-Hear-Feel practice does wonders for my emotional clarity. It's a basic mindfulness practice, but very powerful for increasing your ability to feel deeply and clearly. In terms of 'dealing' with emotions, they need space to flow. This'll happen automatically and naturally as your clarity increases.

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Self inquiry and shadow work come to my mind for emotional therapy. It opens up hidden emotions that the psyche is currently not ready to confront. 

Emotions generally peek out when the mind is kept still and away from engagement. 

Emotional detox.. This is to remove negative emotions or to clean out. 

This is not easy. If you just apply positive emotions, that's like a bandaid job. 

You need to confront and  resolve the cause of your emotions. 

And humor helps a lot. Changing perspectives helps a lot. 

The other thing is mindfulness. 

Acceptance helps a lot. 

Don't consume stimuli that constant aim at your emotions like certain media or propaganda. 

Try to be the silent observer. 

Keep yourself a bit reserved from emotional reacting. This way you build a fortress. 

De-stress all the time. Remove the buildup. 

Be more self aware and catch yourself when the unwanted emotions arise and let them be challenged. Don't give them energy. Let them pass. 

 

Hope this helps. 

 

 

On 9/29/2020 at 2:42 AM, Preety_India said:

I also want to read a lot of books. But very little time. 

I want to keep a reminder for this 

 

 

 

 

On 9/29/2020 at 2:45 AM, Preety_India said:

 

The Unattached Mindset 

 

This mindset is golden. It frees you. It liberates you and gives you room. 

 

Over the past few weeks I have come across so many "dangerous mindsets" that I have come to the this profound thought that it's not so much evil that causes so much harm in the world but dangerous mindsets and mentalities. 

One of the most beautiful, Empowering and golden mindsets that you can have is the Unattached Mindset. 

Now.. 

Some practical steps are needed I can't keep rambling. I also need to see how I implement my own concepts in daily life and find effective ways of putting my thoughts in action. 

One way to know if you have an unattached mindset is to ask yourself (myself) this question - 

"what's your guiding thought?" 

"what's your preconceived notion or emotion or dissonance or bias guiding you?" 

Are you already thinking something? 

Have you already made up your mind how you're going to react to the other person even before hearing them out? 

A very good example of this goes like this 

 

Let's see you come across a book in a bookstore. You find the title appealing. You want to read the book. You flip through the pages. You're excited. You think that this book has some value. 

Now you look at the back of the book and you see that the author is not a popular or does not have much credentials. 

Your mind is suddenly thinking second thoughts. Now you don't want to buy this book. You don't see it valuable 

Why? 

Because you have based your judgement on a preconceived notion or mindset that you already had. Your mindset is completely colored by this notion. You're guided by such a notion or mentality. You're guided by this cognitive bias. 

So right when you approach you approach with disdain, not with an open mind, but with disdain. 

You approach with bias. 

What you are looking for is a confirmation bias now. 

Of course, you're not always going to be wrong because some stereotypes and biases do have a solid ground to them and there is a predictable pattern they follow. But have you stepped back once and thought if such a bias might not always be true. 

This bias might hold you back from the openness that lies out there. A new world that you have decided to close yourself to. 

Are you ready to drop this bias for a while and look at the other person through a neutral lens? 

See that it's not the identity of the person or the label of the book or the status of the author that matters, but the pure thought being expressed in the book. 

Often times we base our approaches in life on pre-defined notions and biases and prejudices. We carry that inner attachment to beliefs  labels and identities. We forget to see beyond these labels. We develop a rhetoric and keep looking for confirmation bias. 

Now. 

 

If we stop having this "attached mindset" a lot of things can open up to us. If we are Unattached and ready to listen. 

Now, attached mindset comes in two forms. 

One is where every way you perceive what the other person is saying is completely colored by your preconceived notion and does not match with what that person is trying to say at all. You're not trying to understand them, you're not putting effort into understanding their perspective, rather you're simply putting your interpretation on their meaning in a way that will perfectly align with your bias. Nothing but looking for a confirmation of your thoughts 

The second form of an attached mindset is when you are completely attached to a theory or movement or Ideology or thinking. Just cannot take a break from it. You're so patriotic to it. Of course, it has good intentions, that's why you believe in it 

But have you stepped back and thought that such an attachment can become very parasitic and cause you to become somewhat of a crusader. There is never an end to a crusade, remember that!!! 

You need to step back and drop this attachment. Sure crusading is a bit necessary. But so is having a free mind. 

When you drop this attachment, you can be free of its effects. 

You can feel free to simply observe what's going on, like an Unattached person. 

This does not mean that you are inactive or bystander. It only means that you need to have healthy attachment. 

 

 

 

On 9/29/2020 at 4:36 AM, Preety_India said:

Watch your cartoon.

Look into stuff that matters close home. 

Keep the rest outside the fence. 

And.... Watch the cartoons. 

 

 

 

 

On 9/29/2020 at 6:32 AM, Preety_India said:

 

Focus on 

?????????????????????????????????????

           ?Being more educated 

          ?Being more conscious 

          ?Being more mindful 

  ?Being wiser

          ?Being more aware

          ?Being more spiritual 

          ?Being more matured 

 

 

 

 

 

On 9/29/2020 at 11:24 PM, Preety_India said:

The concept of a strong consciousness. 

 

If the consciousness is pure and strong, it will happen as it is contained in the consciousness 

 

Good people are usually failed by society or people or persons. 

 

 

On 9/30/2020 at 3:43 AM, Preety_India said:

 

Approach 

         

          ? educated approach 

          ?conscious approach 

          ? mindful approach 

           ? wiser approach 

          ?awareness approach 

          ? spiritual approach 

          ?matured approach 

           ? progressive approach 

           ? Holistic  approach

           

Fractal of colors. 

 

 

 

 

 

On 10/1/2020 at 10:41 PM, Preety_India said:

 

Whats the meaning of true love? 

According to me, 

True love is about creating hope and giving closure and completeness. 

A person who truly loves you will give you hope, in some manner. 

 

True love to me is like a new seed in the soil.. That grows skyward. 

 

People who are loving try to create hope. 

 

They don't abandon you without hope. They don't leave you hanging. 

They leave you with trust, hope, faith and companionship. 

They bring you closure and completeness. They try to fulfill you and cement the hurt and void within you with some sort of comfort, hope and connection. They don't let you feel forsaken. They are still with you in some way, always supportive of you and never letting you fall. 

In short they don't want to fail you or give fake support but truly are there for you. They create hope.. 

That's how God is. God creates hope.. 

Always remember that, the people who truly love try to create hope. 

 

 

 

On 10/2/2020 at 3:20 AM, Preety_India said:

 

Start with a vision board. That helps tremendously 

 

Nahm is pretty efficient with this. You can ask him 

 

 

 

Use a reward system for all the hard work you do. Rewarding yourself creates an impetus. 

 

Keep an excel sheet of progress report that you will update weekly. 

 

Use apps in app store that keep a tab on progress. 

 

 

 

On 10/2/2020 at 3:23 AM, Preety_India said:

 

This thread is good for productivity. 

 

 

 

 

On 10/4/2020 at 6:26 AM, Preety_India said:

 

How does it feel to be with a non narcissist? 

The answer is brilliant. 

 

They respect you.

They create security and hope 

They create happiness and comfort 

They create positivity 

And they bring sanity and progress 

 

They are chill 

 

 

On 10/4/2020 at 6:41 AM, Preety_India said:

Like I said, the ones who genuinely love and care create 

Hope 

Security 

Trust 

Closure 

Completeness 

Accommodation 

Welcome and support 

TSDLYB 

This time the streets will love you back. 

TSTLYB - the streets that love you back. 

 

 

 

 

I used to ride the bike as a kid. And a lot of it. 

So to me, a kid riding a bike in the neighborhood is a sign of security, peace, freedom and acceptance 

 

This is a powerful aesthetic. The street aesthetic. 

Have you ever felt a feeling of homeliness when you see streets familiar to those that you saw as a child? 

It's a sentimental nostalgic thing. 

 

 

 

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• Building chart for progress
• Building an imaginary empire 
• 3 pots - one pot for goals, second for completions and 3rd for bounty at each traffic light. 
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Heavy journals and light journals. 

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Such cute day of the dead decorations. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited November 16, 2020 by Preety_India

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Sad 

 

[Preety_India]

The current challenge is to forget my ex. 

The next thing I need to do is sign an agreement to myself or Manifestato or pledge document promising that I will never fall for bad abusive guys and strictly follow the conditions of this document it self agreement. 

 

 

 

I need to ask myself this question 

How can I solve this problem or situation in my spiritually? 

Conditions of the signed agreement 

• To question when questions arise 
• Not give emotional authority to anyone 
• Be skeptical of the relationship and ask relevant questions about the person's character behaviors or past dating history 
• Not be emotionally atached quickly 
• Not spend too much money 
• Not ignore red flags. 
• Not be too trusting. 
• Use shit tests 
• Use both brain and heart and not just hearty
• Observe and note Down behavior 
• . Not allow him to love bomb me. Wall off 
• . Not consider it as love until there are clear signs and indications of love 
• Not allow myself to be abused
• . Not allow my boundaries to be broken 
• . Not blindly trust 
• . Not take compliments too seriously. 
• . Not immediately fall in love. Hold off. 
• . Not try to please him so much. 
• . Not let him have emotional control on me 
• . Not be too trusting 
• . Not get brainwashed 

• . Test the person 
• . To not give so much importance to anyone 
• . Not to neglect myself and my feelings 
• . Not to put anyone above me 
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• . Not accept any pressure or get black mailed by it 
• . Recognizing patterns of my fear in the relationship. 
• Not holding the fear of losing someone 
• Keep healthy unbreakable boundaries. 
• Not fall in love easily 
• Not take little red flags lightly 

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Edited November 16, 2020 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

6 hours ago, Preety_India said:

The current challenge is to forget my ex. 

The next thing I need to do is sign an agreement to myself or Manifestato or pledge document promising that I will never fall for bad abusive guys and strictly follow the conditions of this document it self agreement. 

 

 

 

I need to ask myself this question 

How can I solve this problem or situation in my spiritually? 

Conditions of the signed agreement 

• To question when questions arise 
• Not give emotional authority to anyone 
• Be skeptical of the relationship and ask relevant questions about the person's character behaviors or past dating history 
• Not be emotionally atached quickly 
• Not spend too much money 
• Not ignore red flags. 
• Not be too trusting. 
• Use shit tests 
• Use both brain and heart and not just hearty
• Observe and note Down behavior 
• . Not allow him to love bomb me. Wall off 
• . Not consider it as love until there are clear signs and indications of love 
• Not allow myself to be abused
• . Not allow my boundaries to be broken 
• . Not blindly trust 
• . Not take compliments too seriously. 
• . Not immediately fall in love. Hold off. 
• . Not try to please him so much. 
• . Not let him have emotional control on me 
• . Not be too trusting 
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