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what are the benefits of hate?

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what are the benefits of hate? what the ultimate purpose of life? is it unconditional love? why

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To answer your second question, in the words of Eckhart Tolle; Life delights itself in creating new forms and delights in experiencing itself through all those forms.

 

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Most people confuse hate, labeling as low insctinct, but its the opposite.

We have personal values, integrity. When we observe other people breaking those values for example you observe a unjustice, a crime, you reject this behaviour and the response is hate. Which in my opinion is a manifestation of integrity.

The negative thing is that almost always hate goes together with anger and resentment theres implicit.

From a superior perspective of consciousness, hate is lack of acceptance. We must allow the good and the bad to exist.

But from a medium level loving or hating defines our identity as a ego to navigate in the matrix.

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26 minutes ago, Moreira said:

Most people confuse hate, labeling as low insctinct, but its the opposite.

We have personal values, integrity. When we observe other people breaking those values for example you observe a unjustice, a crime, you reject this behaviour and the response is hate. Which in my opinion is a manifestation of integrity.

The negative thing is that almost always hate goes together with anger and resentment theres implicit.

From a superior perspective of consciousness, hate is lack of acceptance. We must allow the good and the bad to exist.

But from a medium level loving or hating defines our identity as a ego to navigate in the matrix.

hate is very important thing that is neglected, hate do the work that love can't do. even to be loving person is an ego. hate should come to neutralize ego love. I don't agree on the purpose of life is to be loving person. hate is Pardoxcal thing because if we love everything that we must love hate that within us also. 

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@Johnny5 @Conscious life  You guys are mixing hate and aggression. Aggression is a positive tool which can propel one self towards higher levels. Hate (hostility) one the other hand is what keeps one stuck at a lower level. You do not bring the hate of blue with you up to orange; you will not be able proceed to orange until you let go of that hate. Aggression on the other hand is very good and you can bring that with you wherever you go, it just means you attack something with much enthusiasm and energy - (Kind of like 2016-17 Leo used to be). 

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@Johnny5 Well that's the problem with truth and the absolute. In no way can it be rationally talked about or speculated, and never will be - direct experience is the only thing that accounts. 

As the four In-Expressibles go: "You can't say that ultimate reality is being or not-being, or both or neither; That reality is infinite, or not, nor both nor neither. Because you assume a concept is true only as the opposite of something that it's not; ultimate reality has no opposite. 100% Neti-Neti, not this not that. 

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@fridjonk @Johnny5

45 minutes ago, Johnny5 said:

Perhaps. Could be a matter of semantics. All I know is the underlying energy that does the actual work, I don't really mind what you want to call it. Whatever is strong enough to push back against fear (even though they are ultimately the very same energy).

 

49 minutes ago, fridjonk said:

@Johnny5 @Conscious life  You guys are mixing hate and aggression. Aggression is a positive tool which can propel one self towards higher levels. Hate (hostility) one the other hand is what keeps one stuck at a lower level. You do not bring the hate of blue with you up to orange; you will not be able proceed to orange until you let go of that hate. Aggression on the other hand is very good and you can bring that with you wherever you go, it just means you attack something with much enthusiasm and energy - (Kind of like 2016-17 Leo used to be). 

   Transcending hate is not an entry requirement to transitioning to higher levels. You can have hateful immigrants coming from stage red/blue villages, to arrive at a stage blue/Orange/green society, that still have the majority of their psyche as stage red/blue values, who is will hate different cultures and places and circumstances at the beginning, and very quickly will appear stage blue/Orange/green in that society, will still having that hate in their psyche.

   In the short term, that hate is actually useful for you to use against people who're as toxic or more toxic than you. And compounding that hate is just differences in worldviews and personality between people and the lack of awareness. Part of hatred is a natural occurrence when trying to transition to a higher stage voluntarily, but not involuntarily. Involuntary transition is a forced circumstance on the individual/group (running away from a war, to a different land, forced to adapt to the land and people there). Voluntary work to transition to a stage is where you are more receptive to this hate, while involuntary transition is treated as a given.

   You're right to transcend hatred, actually! In the long term. As we're growing up, we soak in people's views and the environment. When we experience negative feedback from people or the world, we tend to disown that part of us that triggered that negativity. Furthermore, when we encounter people resembling that disowned part, we project outward onto that person that negativity, denying we have that negativity in us, further disintegrating ourselves. This is how shadow selves are formed, with the common negative emotion like hate. That's why doing shadow work and understanding different points of view, voluntarily working on yourself, is very important. I'm not dismissing you guys views, I'm elaborating on this.

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@Danioover9000 Yeah you're 100% correct, that hate can follow all the way up to turquoise even. But much of the hate from one stage does usually transform once one proceeds to a higher stage and often is the main cause; but of course your tail will leave residue from the previous color. Until you work on that specific problem. This just shows how one-dimensional spiral dynamics can be, it doesn't take many of the factors left out into account. That's why i like integral theory more. ;)

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