dboyle

Losing Virginity To A Hooker/escort

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I lost it with a hooker when I turned 18 and Im not proud but neither i regret it

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Of course do it!  Get yourself a 3-week vacation to Thailand.  Pattaya or Phuket.  You can find yourself a pretty girlfriend that you can have with you for the entire vacation.  You'll have the complete girl-friend experience.  It didn't fuck me up at all & I never regretted doing it.  No STDs. Nothing.  Just fond memories.  You can then come home and try again.  If it doesn't work out that year, go back to where your success is 100%.  Try again next year.

If I didn't have a gf, I'd be going to Thailand twice a year and probably wouldn't bother with a local gf unless she was an absolute knock-out. :$

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Many prostitutes have been trafficked which means a high possibility of having sex with someone who is a modern day slave, which is by default not consensual. Even if she is not trafficked you are having sex with someone who doesn't want to sleep with you. If she did, you wouldn't have to pay her. So you are bypassing consent with money.

 

Find a willing participant. Most girls are absolutely fine with inexperience as long as you are considerate.



 

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On 6/15/2016 at 11:42 PM, dboyle said:

What are people's opinion on this?

I am currently a 21 year old male, who has never ever even kissed a girl let alone became close enough to actually have sex with one.  

At this point, all I want to do is just lose my virginity to someone, as I don't think I am quite ready for a girlfriend yet as I am currently just trying to focus on myself and my own life and goals. 

But I would like to experience what sex is like, and can't see myself having sex with a girl I know (as I don't know any girls that would ever have sex with me), and I don't have the skills currently to go out and pickup girls.

So yeah... do you think I should go through with it and just get an escort for the night and fulfil this part of me?

Why do you need to lose your viginity? To complete yourself? Ask that part of yourself these questions with self inquiry.

To  be honest though if you truly want it go after it but realise that this desire is probably egoic and needy. I'm not a mind reader though so I can't tell.

I wish the best for you and remember that you are whole and perfect as you are!

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I did it with a couple of hookers in my late teens. Was a revolting experience.  I remember one of them had a really flabby twat with baggy piss flaps. Probably had herpes scabs.    Mmmmm yeah like really sexy.    Turned me off vag for life. How any one could ever put their face in one is beyond my understanding.

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On 25 October 2016 at 11:06 AM, smd said:

Of course do it!  Get yourself a 3-week vacation to Thailand.  Pattaya or Phuket.  You can find yourself a pretty girlfriend that you can have with you for the entire vacation.  You'll have the complete girl-friend experience.  It didn't fuck me up at all & I never regretted doing it.  No STDs. Nothing.  Just fond memories.  You can then come home and try again.  If it doesn't work out that year, go back to where your success is 100%.  Try again next year.

If I didn't have a gf, I'd be going to Thailand twice a year and probably wouldn't bother with a local gf unless she was an absolute knock-out. :$

This is such bad advise on so many levels that I don't even know where to start.   Its bad enough that we actually exploit developing countries for a cheap vacation but to take advantage of sex tourism is even lower. Besides the fact that these countries have very poor education and so have very little understanding about safe sex.  HIV and STD rates are skyrocketing in these countries as is underage prostitution and there is nothing to stop prostitutes from continuing to work even when infected.   Ladyboys are commonplace.  Nothing wrong with that but many confused heterosexual men go to these countries because they want to try some dick while keeping their fragile sense of hetero-masculinity in tact. After all if they hadn't have had those drinks then they wouldn't have been fooled into it right?  Its all very tragic and ugly.

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I agree with most of what Richard said mainly the STD's you wanna watch out for.. 

Oh and really it should be special with someone you love some say wait until you're married.. I lost mine with one of my first girlfriends she was also a virgin.. It was quick.. Shortly after my best buddy at the time convinced me that she was holding me back from good times partying and I broke up with her.. A couple months later he slept with her.. That guy.. Anyways.. I regret taking his advice, I still think about her.. she's happily married with two kids, ironically her daughter and I have the same birthday.. 

If you must, wrap it up, or you might pick up something that sticks around long after you drop her off.. 

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Maan I lost my virginity to an escort when I was 16 I used to regret it a lot because i was drunk but nowdays i am  okey with it. It really depends on you, if you feel like it is really holding you back i would probably go for it.

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On 16.6.2016 at 0:42 AM, dboyle said:

What are people's opinion on this?

I am currently a 21 year old male, who has never ever even kissed a girl let alone became close enough to actually have sex with one.  

At this point, all I want to do is just lose my virginity to someone, as I don't think I am quite ready for a girlfriend yet as I am currently just trying to focus on myself and my own life and goals. 

But I would like to experience what sex is like, and can't see myself having sex with a girl I know (as I don't know any girls that would ever have sex with me), and I don't have the skills currently to go out and pickup girls.

So yeah... do you think I should go through with it and just get an escort for the night and fulfil this part of me?

Hey there. I am a 22 year old virgin.

I played around with this idea in the past, but it never felt right to me.

I just need an emotional connection with an intimate partner, otherwise i do not want to sleep with someone.

Truly think about what you want.

If it is losing your virginity , be it to a hooker or to anyone else right now in this and it truly feels authentic and right to you. then by all means, go ahead.

Always follow what feels right to YOU. It does not matter what anybody else may think about this.

Just contemplate it for long enough and give yourself enough time to think this through before doing anything like that, there is no need to rush anything.

You do not want to regret anything in the end, i suppose.

So:

If you think you absolutely need to do it, then do it.

If you even have a sliver of doubt about it, then do not do it.

 

I hope this helps.

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