The root cause of my helplessness discovered!!

[Wekz]

This is how i discovered the root cause of my helplessness, maybe it can help you to find the root of whatever problem you have.

I was sitting and watching a video, when i noticed my brother listening to what i was watching, i kept watching for a few seconds and then stopped the video, i noticed im doing that quet often, stopping doing something when someone gets interested in it. I asked myselve why is that? I said to myselve its because others dont care for what i have to say. I immediatly asked myselve where does this belief come from? And for some time now i'm doing inner child work, so my mind immediatly jumped to my childhood. I remembered myselve as a baby, crying, and nobody giving me any attention, in fact trying to shut me up, and denying me. The moment i remembered that i started to feel this deep helplesness, as though that was the first time in my life that i ever felt it.  I dont even know how i can remember that, but i just did. This is HUGE for me, all my life i felt helpless around other people, i tried to solve this problem for i dont know how long. And just the thought that this might be the root cause blows my mind   Hope this can be helpfull to some, for finding the cause of their problem

Edited May 15, 2019 by Wekz

[ajasatya]

@Wekz good! i'm happy for you

[Wekz]

@ajasatya ty mate!

[DrewNows]

The awareness of the unconscious action lead to your questioning and an answer was given! 

?  ?? 

[Gabriel Antonio]

That's a nice insight. 

Can you write a clear and concise sentence that defines "the root cause of your helplessness"?

[Wekz]

@DrewNows yep, i started to do that quet often lately, always when something would distress me i would try to remember into my childhood, what has someone told me, how did i respond, and how did it make me feel. And it started to play off

[bejapuskas]

@Wekz  Have you seen the latest video? Leo goes more in-depth into this.  

[Wekz]

@Gabriel Antonio a subcouncious mechanism that would trigger and make me feel helpless every time a new experience resembles the one in the past.?

[Wekz]

@bejapuskas Not yet, but i look forward to

Edited May 15, 2019 by Wekz