Feminine vs Masculine Energy

[Anton Rogachevski]

I've had this question for quite a while, and I couldn't find a definite answer.

What should a man who leans more feminine do? Is it better to seek a woman who is in touch with her masculine, and take the role of the feminine, or should he work hard and try to Increase his masculine. 

So the real question is: Would it even possible for a man who is naturally feminine to change and become masculine?

It seems as if that wouldn't be authentic, but I want to hear your experience.

By the way, I'm all for embracing and growing both as they naturally arise upon awakening, as it is essential for a full awakening.

Edited May 11, 2019 by Anton Rogachevski

[Emerald]

A man who is naturally more feminine will always be more feminine. But there is masculinity there as well.

The real question to ask is, "Why do I want to be more masculine?"

Sometimes the desire itself could indicate unrealized masculine potential that has not yet been developed or is repressed that wants to be integrated.

Or the desire could relate to simply wanting a certain type of social approval, which would mean that the desire itself is just a means to an end.

The main thing is to seek to develop as much of your potential as you can and to let yourself bloom. If you're really developing yourself as a person and growing yourself, more of your potential will come up and will no longer be unrealized. And when it does, embrace it regardless of whether or not it's feminine or masculine.

 

[Shadowraix]

There was a great post by Smika I reference back to. Maybe it'll give you an insight:

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I’m not sure about «traits», but in terms of energy we have «masculine energy» and «feminine energy» in this world. It’s what energy is divided into, and works like the ying and yang balance of this planet. 

Considering we are all energetic beings; we all have feminine & masculine energy. These are concepts that describe us as humans, and perhaps this is what people allude to when they say “feminine“ and “masculine” traits? Some have a heavier dose of masculine energy, and some feminine energy. In our current society, most of us (men and women) have more masculine energy, due to our material world being masculine.

Masculine energy is outward energy, and is heavily linked to ‘taking action’. It is associated with the odd chakras: 1,3 and 5 chakra. It’s goal oriented, structural, and logical. It is connected to the idea of building, creating and even hunting. It’s also very individual , and works alone. It’s goal is to reach a level of material success and to build. It’s also giving, which is the opposite of feminine energy, which is receptive. 

Most of us are very well aware of our masculine energy, because we use it in our day to day life in order to survive this matrix. The material world we live in is built on masculine energy, and you need to be in your masculine energy to reach it’s highest potential. We have been exposed to our masculine energy since primary school. And our whole education system and worklife revolves around it. 

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Feminine energy is rarely spoken of, and is usually ignored in our material world. This has to do with the fact that it’s inward, and therefor doesn’t yield results that is considered useful for a material world. It is however, heavily linked to spirtualism. Feminine energy is inward (notice the way these energy work, and how it connects to the each genders genitalia).

Feminine energy is linked to the even chakras: 2, 4 and 6. This energy is about your inward body, and what it can do, rather than the outward body and what it can do. It is connected to your emotions. It is intuitive, emotional, nurturing, authentic, loving, receptive, emphatic, pleasure seeking, creative and sharing. It is guided by the heart, the womb and the genitalia. It’s lead by love, and is not bound by fear.

This energy is all about being able to go with the flow, and does not follow structure. This energy can be used when doing anything from creating a piece of artwork, to decorating your house. It’s highly creative, whereas masculine energy is logical.

It is also linked to intimacy, and feminine energy is full of sexual vitality. It’s receptive and selfless. It’s the part of us we usually neglect, as it’s considered insignificant in our material world.

You might even get punished for it some parts of society. Like how showing your emotions in school can lead to suspention or being considered “weak”. 

Feminine energy doesn’t work in a individual way either, but rather in a collective way. It reaches it’s ultimate potential through collective efforts. Meanwhile masculine energy is about individual tasks, where success is rewarded individually for everyones individual efforts. 

Hence why masculine energy is also very competitive, meanwhile feminine energy is about everyone working as one to reach higher potential. Think about nature (nature is feminine.) How all the trees and the entire ecosystem works together in unity. It’s also where the idea of humans being ‘connected’ and ‘one’, in terms of spirtuality, comes from. It’s our feminine energy that is connected, and our feminine energy is our spirtual energy.

Our planet is also feminine. Which is why this overload of masculine energy that we have in this world can be dangerous for our enviroment. Because masculine energy is self-oriented, it only serves us. The rest of our ecosystem couldn’t care less about our technological advancements. 

Being spirtual awake activates our feminine energy, and can help us be energetically balanced. Since both energy is good and useful.

Most men and women in todays society have more more masculine energy, because this is what our material world revolves around..?

 

[Anton Rogachevski]

@Emerald

Thank you for your reply.

It's not so much about desire, but rather a practical need to understand how to form healthy relationships. All the advice I see is guiding masculine man to be with a feminine woman. But what if one's balance is differently set? Then what advice should he seek?

So the underlying question is: Can a masculine woman be comfortable being the masculine, while the man being comfortable being his authentic feminine self. Can such a relationship work?

Edited May 11, 2019 by Anton Rogachevski

[Shin]

5 minutes ago, Anton Rogachevski said:

@Emerald

Thank you for your reply.

It's not so much about desire, but rather a practical need to understand how to form healthy relationships. All the advice I see is guiding masculine man to be with a feminine woman. But what if one's balance is differently set? Then what advice should he seek?

Buy good books for relationships, especially from the feminine side.

Same thing on youtube.

Ask women that are in a healthy relationship how the dynamic is.

[Anton Rogachevski]

@Shadowraix

Very interesting insight, and it's quite different than many sources I know.

@Shin

That would be a good experiment.

[Shadowraix]

1 hour ago, Anton Rogachevski said:

Can a masculine woman be comfortable being the masculine, while the man being comfortable being his authentic feminine self. Can such a relationship work?

Yes. People often times just gravitate one way or the other. The big problem comes when you suppress a side of yourself.

Many overly masculine men are suppressing their feminine side.

Once you embrace both sides of you you find inner balance and will still probably lean one way or the other. Men and women have certain tendencies to lean towards their respective sides but its not impossible for the opposite.

Edited May 11, 2019 by Shadowraix