Dorotheus

Night out report

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This was a very humbling night. It was very bad but there are some great lessons learned from tonight. Just everything went to hell basicly. Like really. The start of the night was already pretty bad. Couldnt get cash so needed to drive an half an hour to a place where there was cash. After that went to the bar but was very stuck in my head, i just couldnt approach. I really wanted to but i just couldnt do it for whatever reason. Walked around for half an hour. Observing myself. Accepting it fully. Eventually i went in for the first approach of the night which i really didnt wanted to do. Just did it annyway. The girl was very nice to mee because i wasnt very flirty like i am when i am in the zone. Talked for 1-2 minutes but saw that she was totaly not attracted to me. Went to the dancefloor and my mind gave me every reason not to approach, like wtf. Walked arround for half an hour again. After that went home. Without money left because i lost everything. Just wow.

This was tough night #2. The only thing i found funny about tonight was the end of it. Walked away while on the background i heared everybody having a great time. 

But yes, very humbling. This is life. Failed very hard. New report coming soon.

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Going out solo again, report in 8 hours or so. My objective:

- approach 10 girls, no excuses; 

- when there is a blowout, laugh about it and keep going;

- no alcohol;

- no drugs;

Lets go.

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This was fun. The women were not responsive today but had a lot of fun anyways. It went like this:

- approached, blowout;

- approached, blowout; 

- approached, blowout; 

- approached, blowout;

Switched bars, lol:

Stumbled upon some very old friends, we talked a lot about the past. Left them to hit on some girls:

- approached a girl who was dancing, no reaction. She ignored me;

Went to another bar:

- approached a girl who was with her girlfriend, she talked to me for 1-2 minutes and from out of the blue the girlfriend draged her away;

After this happend i started laughing to myself because i taught my approaches were geting better. These experiences are very good to bring you back to earth, lol. After this i couldnt do another approach because i was down because of all the bad reactions i am getting.

Lessons learned:

- keep approaching even when every girl ignores you. This is easier said than done btw.

- dont go to a men when there is series of blowouts, just keep going.

Good things: 

- didnt stoped after 5 bad reactions.

Went home confused. The only good thing was that i have 3 numbercloses of men, haha. But i have already enough male friend. Not all my objectives are met but it wasnt as tough as last night.

Next week another report.

 

 

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7 hours ago, Dorotheus said:

approached a girl who was with her girlfriend, she talked to me for 1-2 minutes and from out of the blue the girlfriend draged her away

Girls do this when they see their friend is getting attracted and might do something "slutty". So could be a sign that you were making headway.

Great persistence man!


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Going out solo. My objectives:

- approach 10 girls;

- no alcohol;

- have fun.

Report in 4 hours or so.

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Went out solo but stumbled upon some girls of my class, lol. My guyfriends where also there. I didnt told the girls that i went out solo but they probably know now because i arrived solo, which is pretty kreepy to be honest. Hope that they dont tell the whole school about it so i can keep this separate. After talking to my guyfriends for 2 hours i decided to go home because i felt just very weird about the situation. Dont know yet how to deal with this. 

 

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7 hours ago, Dorotheus said:

After talking to my guyfriends for 2 hours i decided to go home because i felt just very weird about the situation.

After 2 hours (!) you felt weird about it? Ok, thats weird.

No, honestly. Dont overthink this, there is nothing weird. You are just going out to have fun. After all, they went there as well right? So dont worry. People who think you are weird for going out solo are probably not worth your time.

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